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Author Topic: Sex with girl in Nigeria probably CSW  (Read 732 times)

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Offline razorguy

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Sex with girl in Nigeria probably CSW
« on: December 03, 2021, 06:44:03 pm »
I am 43 year old and I work on merchant ships, 2 weeks back during my shore leave I hooked up with a girl in Nigeria. We had sex, during scnd time we proceeded without condom, but it finished v fast like in a minute, and insertion of my penis in her vagina was halfway only. I ejaculated outside.
She might be a CSW, after this incident both of us are worried sick, she subtly enquires with me everyday if Iím ok. She even called her friend who works  with me and enquired about my health status.
So thing is Iím overworked onboard (I donít get enough rest) and I have historically a sensitive throat so I keep getting sore throat v often.
On 12th day today, I felt bode aches n muscle pain when I got up,  slight sore throat(I keep getting this from a long time), was feeling unwell in evening that I decided to come in room and take rest, but after lying down for a while I started feeling  fine, there was no  fever, I was also feeling hot after food and  sometimes cold for no reason since afternoon, had a normal appetite in evening but suddenly midway thru meal I lost it all and started feeling unwell  and night time when I opened clothes to take shower I observed around 5/6 reddish pimple kind bumps on my follicles on right side of chest and one on centre.
Now Iím worried sick as Iím convinced that Iím seroconverting. There is no way for me to take a HIV test for next few weeks or months.
I donít know what to do till that time. Feeling v depressed and anxious, feels like I have finally f*ed up.  :'(
Canít even concentrate on work.
« Last Edit: December 03, 2021, 06:48:05 pm by razorguy »

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Re: Sex with girl in Nigeria probably CSW
« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2021, 11:53:32 pm »

Sorry to hear that you have been feeling unwell and are overworked. It's not HIV specific though, and I hope you feel better soon.

Regarding your HIV risk, well the condomless intercourse was a risk so test at six weeks post-incident with a blood-drawn HIV antibodies test and a non-reactive result at that time will rarely ever change. Although generally not needed if you wish you can retest at 3 months.

In the meantime stop focusing on HIV.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about taking PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as Ďsafeí in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get tested regularly and at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and, the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards


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