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Main Forums => I Just Tested Poz => Topic started by: texas_stud on August 12, 2010, 11:19:02 pm
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hey everyone. my name is gino and i received my positive result today. i am a straight guy that works as a stripper in a bar and i guess i liked sex too much. lol. i'm not sure how i got this illness but i think it could be from any of the chicks that i banged without a condom. my penis is too big and most condoms dont fit. i read on another websight that it could be too from one of the dudes that gave me head last month. sometimes when i get drunk i dont mind if a guy does it.
i hope to meet some nice people like me or maybe a fine lady whose interested in something serious. i am little scared and i gotta wait too see if my numbers are good but i have faith in god and i know evrything will be ok. maybe i dont have to start taking those pills this year. i hope to learn a lot from everyone here. anyway good to meet you all.
gino
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Hi Gino, welcome to the forums.
Has your diagnosis been confirmed with a Western Blot, or did you only have a positive antibody result? I ask because sometimes the antibody test will return a false positive. This is why the result is always confirmed with a second test, the Western Blot.
You would have gotten infected through the unprotected intercourse. Getting a blowjob is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection, no matter what some other website claimed. It may also be that you misunderstood the terminology - if it said that receptive oral was a risk, they meant receptive as in receiving a penis into your mouth. Getting a blowjob is termed insertive oral. Receptive oral is only a theoretical risk anyway.
If your infection has been confirmed, you're going to have to start using condoms. You can get larger ones online.
You're going to be ok, really you are.
Ann
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welcome Gino, you are at the right place (info wise) so read up all the info you need , its my 3rd month since diagnosed doing A ok.you have to be more health conscious now texas stud and use large condoms .and watch your overall health more than b4.
love,
paradise boy
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Texas stud,
You are not smart enough to be on this forum. You can not get it from getting a blow job. You probably got too drunk and got it up the ass and don't remember. This is a serious forum, and NOT somewhere to pick up people. Please get off before you embarrass yourself some more.
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JA,
You do not have the right to tell people who can and who cannot post on these forums. Perhaps it is YOU who is "not smart enough".
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thank you ann for defending me. im a nice guy. why does this punk come here to insult me.
im probably not gonna stay in this place for to long. so many mean people.
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thank you ann for defending me. im a nice guy. why does this punk come here to insult me.
im probably not gonna stay in this place for to long. so many mean people.
You're welcome, Gino, but I have to warn you for calling him a punk. If you read the posting guidelines found in the main Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=277.0) you'd know that name-calling is not permitted here. Please make sure you read our guidelines and abide by them. Thank you for your cooperation.
And by the way, you never answered my question - have you actually been confirmed hiv positive with a Western Blot test? You need that before you can be considered hiv positive.
Ann
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Hey Tx stud, Hope you can overlook some of the people that have to take their bitches out on other people here when they have their monthly's. So it's really true that things are bigger in Texas, eh? Too small rubbers have been a big problem at our house too. Maybe this will help. Mr. S Leather here on the net sells Trojan Extra Large Magnums. Sell a lot of weird sht too, but good service and give discounts on next orders. If you are pos. you will need to wrap it. When are these companies going to realize, what fun is it if it wears out three guys trying to help wrestle their damn little elastic corset on? Some stores like Target sell Trojan Magnum Large, but it still like trying to put King Kong in a thimble. The only way we have found to put them on since they are all too small to roll on is to unroll them, then stretch them open with both hands and slide it on like a sock. Still cuts red grooves in you like a rubber band after a while, but at least you can get it on this way. Our ID clinic just gave us samples of Lifestyles XL king size. Hope to get to try them . Don't know if they will be big enough yet or where to get them. Hope this helps. Good luck to you guy and welcome!
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ann: i got confirmed as poz with that western test. when the doctor told me i couldnt remember the name. im glad you reminded me.
the doctor gave me the tcells and virus count on monday. 780 tcells and 14k for the virus. he did some other tests but i dont know what their called and im not to smart in science so i dont know what their for.
im sorry i called that guy a punk. ill read all the rules and be nicer. a warning means im banned for a week?
grandma: thanks for the recomendation. ill see if i can find them. i dont wanna give this to anyone else and im always horny. i hooked up with a dude tonight. he was poz and wanted me inside him but i only do blowjobs with dudes. lol.
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Your numbers look really good, tex. Many people go their whole loves with 780 CD4 cells.
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Yes, those are fantastic numbers. You're lucky!
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im sorry i called that guy a punk. ill read all the rules and be nicer. a warning means im banned for a week?
No, a warning is just that - a warning. If you don't heed the warning and repeat the behaviour that got you warned, then you'd receive a time out. It's all in the Welcome thread I linked you to above.
Your numbers look very good. You probably won't need meds for a while yet.
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i'm not sure how i got this illness but i think it could be from any of the chicks that i banged without a condom. my penis is too big and most condoms dont fit.
Don't fuck with me boys, I've been to the rodeo before!
"My dick is too big for condoms" is one of the lamest delusions. Like all delusions, it the excuse for any number of reasons someone doesn't want to use a condom, OR, its just PR for a big dick or the absence thereof.
http://www.allcondoms.com/large-magnumXL.htm
The one above starts off at 8.5 inches - UNSTRETCHED. And every kid knows condoms stretch to the size of enormous balloons.
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Mech, I find you comment offending. Hell, you can stretch a rubberband big enough to put it over your head, but that does not mean it won't cut into your skin if you turn it loose on your neck. Most condoms are long enough for most people though there was one guy in high school that had a full 11 inch schlong I kid you not, He couldn't even keep it from getting out the bottom of his shorts when he was playing basketball, but finding them big enough around for some people is DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE! It can almost be as much of a curse as having a weenie the size of your pinky. Then there is the problem of finding a place you can put it in. A hole that a few kids that has popped through is almost a requirement. There are not any surgical options here and yes, my husband has seen urologists concerning surgery , so don't give me this shit. Do you know how stressful it is to even consider taking to a doctor about having someone cut on your dick? . The more you stretch a condom, the tighter it gets just like a rubber band. You may have been to the rodeo before, but obviously you haven't been fucked by the bull yet else you would not be walking. :(
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this thread is making me really horny
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this thread is making me really horny
Especially for some bareback sex with a twelve inch uncut Brazilian.
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Especially for some bareback sex with a twelve inch uncut Brazilian.
I'm doing Mexican excons on bilatinmen.com this afternoon.
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Mech, I find you comment offending. Hell, you can stretch a rubberband big enough to put it over your head, but that does not mean it won't cut into your skin if you turn it loose on your neck. Most condoms are long enough for most people though there was one guy in high school that had a full 11 inch schlong I kid you not, He couldn't even keep it from getting out the bottom of his shorts when he was playing basketball, but finding them big enough around for some people is DAMN NEAR IMPOSSIBLE! It can almost be as much of a curse as having a weenie the size of your pinky. Then there is the problem of finding a place you can put it in. A hole that a few kids that has popped through is almost a requirement. There are not any surgical options here and yes, my husband has seen urologists concerning surgery , so don't give me this shit. Do you know how stressful it is to even consider taking to a doctor about having someone cut on your dick? . The more you stretch a condom, the tighter it gets just like a rubber band. You may have been to the rodeo before, but obviously you haven't been fucked by the bull yet else you would not be walking. :(
Your post is just another example of delusion and Big Dick PR. Yes, if you have the one in a million guy with a 12 inch fat dick, its not obvious. I've been with huge. There is always the female condom, dear.
There are quality condoms, thin, xxl, and you just roll it down and so what if there is an inch or two exposed at the bottom.
The info about needing to have a huge vagina (or ass, for that matter), is off topic. Another issue. Its not the same problem as finding the glove. On the gay side of things, I know dozens of gay men who take fists and enormous dildos. No dick is going to pose a problem for them.
Since you are personally offended for yourself and your stud man, I apologize to you.
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Mech, apology accepted. We know size is not an issue for our few fisting friends, but not everyone here is gay and for some, gay or not, unfortunately size is a problem not only finding rubbers , but it isn't easy to fit a watermelon in a keyhole. Hell, I just gave a horse size rubber to a gay friend that has to deal with size issues with rubbers this afternoon. In some areas the sht is hard to come by. And have you tried the female job yet? Do you know a store out in the sticks that carries them? I just found out this afternoon a store in St. Louis that is 120 miles away that sells XL sizes. ( Walmart in case someone is looking) When they are hard to find and you don't know about a store 120 miles away that sells them, what are you going to do when you feel in an amorous mood? surely not go out and sweep the sidewalk. Everyone is not the same. Dicks come in all different sizes just like tits, and some gals have a backache. Tex had an issue, and I gave him an option. Just here to help like you. Thanks for suggesting the female jobby, but it is not a very appealing product.
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I have a long tongue.
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I have a long tongue.
:D
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The female condom is not a wonderful invention but its protective and has got me laid with some guys claiming too big to put on a man's condom.
My point is that a huge dick means you enjoy the plusses and deal with the minuses of having one, if you want to protect yourself and your partner. If there are not stores that have xl condoms, then its up to the hung guy to order them online.
If a person is into doing it with hung guys, that person can get his/her own supply as well. They come in very handy when the guy claims he can't wear a condom cause he's too big, but hes so exciting that you still want to fuck the dude and ignore his ego and stupidity, so you whip out the xxl condom and voila.
Big dicks are fascinating enough to enough men and women that this theme of "my dick is too big for condoms so we did it without" comes up too often. Its just lame and a few times its just a tragic result, right?
Having the ability to accommodate the large member, is, as we have agreed, another issue entirely.
Wanting to do it without condoms for a million reasons is also another issue entirely, but using the "my dick is too big for them" as bait and switch justification for other motivations, is, again, lame.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f4hsC0nRvZM
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Mecch, just because you don't have a big dick doesn't mean others don't. My bf is very well endowed and condoms can be very uncomfortable for him. If you don't believe it, tough.
Personally, I think you're just jealous.
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Mecch, just because you don't have a big dick doesn't mean others don't. My bf is very well endowed and condoms can be very uncomfortable for him. If you don't believe it, tough.
Personally, I think you're just jealous.
Even guys with little 9 inchers don't like condoms either! Oh shit, that reminds me, I need to go make a chillen support payment BRB.
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Even guys with little 9 inchers don't like condoms either! Oh shit, that reminds me, I need to go make a chillen support payment BRB.
Do you know what a guy with a twelve inch dick has for breakfast?
Well, this morning I had scrambled eggs, bacon and toast ;D
But I digress....
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Yeah Mech.... you don't know what its like to have a huge dick . I have a huge one in my underware drawer that I paid $49.95 for . Its caused me endless pain , mostly because I paid $49.95 for a penis that's too big . If I had one more they would make swell bookends though .
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Do you know what a guy with a twelve inch dick has for breakfast?
Well, this morning I had scrambled eggs, bacon and toast ;D
But I digress....
Don't complain when Mecch starts stalking you homie... I betcha he's already canceled his flight and planning a trip to MIA.
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Don't complain when Mecch starts stalking you homie... I betcha he's already canceled his flight and planning a trip to MIA.
Well, I could always use the follow up to head that off:
What's 12 inches long and white?
NOTHING!!!
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Well, I could always use the follow up to head that off:
What's 12 inches long and white?
NOTHING!!!
crib death ?
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crib death ?
Oooh. I like you.
I like you a lot :)
MtD
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crib death ?
I am a sick fuck.... I have kids and I laughed...... quietly mind you. :D
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I am a sick fuck.... I have kids and I laughed...... quietly mind you. :D
I was just a tiny bit worried about that one :-[
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I was just a tiny bit worried about that one :-[
I actually just got it ---
What can I say, I'm a bit slow on the draw sometimes.
Best way to keep me happy in old age is to tell me a joke today. :-\
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Well, I could always use the follow up to head that off:
What's 12 inches long and white?
NOTHING!!!
how about clear (http://www.forttroff.com/pigmart/index.mvc?Store_Code=troff&Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=CSH)?
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how about clear (http://www.forttroff.com/pigmart/index.mvc?Store_Code=troff&Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=CSH)?
I know what Mecch is going to buy today. :)
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how about clear (http://www.forttroff.com/pigmart/index.mvc?Store_Code=troff&Screen=CTGY&Category_Code=CSH)?
And here I was thinking you meant heels. :)
MtD
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I know what Mecch is going to buy today. :)
A puppy? Wait no...maybe it's an antique dresser! I'm so confused it could be anything!
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A puppy? Wait no...maybe it's an antique dresser! I'm so confused it could be anything!
He's obviously going to buy one of the items featured on the page Miss P linked to, so he can stop feeling so inadequate around the big dicks in the forum.
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I was just a tiny bit worried about that one :-[
Awww J, you could never do anything wrong in my book.
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Mecch, just because you don't have a big dick doesn't mean others don't. My bf is very well endowed and condoms can be very uncomfortable for him. If you don't believe it, tough.
Personally, I think you're just jealous.
No, I think this is a forum that has one goal to reduce HIV transmissions. If a hung guy feels like there is a risk, there is the choice of getting the best condom possible to accommodate his member and stop with the "condoms don't fit me so I don't use them". Even if the condom found is uncomfortable.
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No, I think this is a forum that has one goal to reduce HIV transmissions. If a hung guy feels like there is a risk, there is the choice of getting the best condom possible to accommodate his member and stop with the "condoms don't fit me so I don't use them". Even if the condom found is uncomfortable.
This forum has many goals, prevention being only one of them.
And I'm not saying that size is an acceptable excuse for not using condoms - but it is a very real problem for some men. Condoms sold in most shops - at least where I live - only come in one standard size. If I wanted to buy bigger condoms, I'd have to buy off the internet. What would I have done before the internet, or if I didn't have internet access?
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What would I have done before the internet, or if I didn't have internet access?
Date the manager of Condomania in Greenwich Village like I did in 1992? Actually I snagged him the job... imagine that. Poor child was only 18.
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ps: lovin' Gino's new avatar -- I may have to book a flight
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This forum has many goals, prevention being only one of them.
And I'm not saying that size is an acceptable excuse for not using condoms
Good, so we agree. ;D Were you pretending that i didn't agree with you so could jibe me?
But it is a very real problem for some men. Condoms sold in most shops - at least where I live - only come in one standard size. If I wanted to buy bigger condoms, I'd have to buy off the internet. What would I have done before the internet, or if I didn't have internet access?
Yep. I know. Guess I live in the consumer paradise where any pharmacy and supermarket has them in all sizes shapes and colors. And you do have the internet. And I do think that hung guys have their challenges and yes, one of them is going out of their way to find acceptable comdoms if they are serious about the important point that we are discussing - if you gotta wrap to avoid a risk (HIV, STD, pregnancies) then you gotta find a solution.
And finally, the horse hung guys I have been with never complained about the rubbers. It has only been the guys with like 8-9 who are so invested in being so supposedly "huge". Not. There are plenty of rubbers on the market to deal with the run of the mill big wang.
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ps: lovin' Gino's new avatar -- I may have to book a flight
Me too. I'll flip you for him.
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Good, so we agree. ;D Were you pretending that i didn't agree with you so could jibe me?
I wasn't pretending anything, I was simply clarifying my position.
Are you developing a persecution complex or what? Calm down Barbara.
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Me too. I'll flip you for him.
Bring that ribbed strap-on over and your red latex outfit (love you in that) and we'll tag team Gino and break him in with some poz lovin'
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Bring that ribbed strap-on over and your red latex outfit (love you in that) and we'll tag team Gino and break him in with some poz lovin'
It's a date! Gino, how about it? :)
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When he posted that picture it was just like he was swimming with sharks and he just chummed the water.
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Thanks for the entertainment. Thi
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Mech
And finally, the horse hung guys I have been with never complained about the rubbers. It has only been the guys with like 8-9 who are so invested in being so supposedly "huge". Not. There are plenty of rubbers on the market to deal with the run of the mill big wang.
99% of the rubbers on the market will cover an 8" wang with no problem and you can find them anywhere. When it comes to large girth you are in a whole new territory. Damn Hard to find and stretching a too small one to wear can get unbearably painful after a little bit.
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99% of the rubbers on the market will cover an 8" wang with no problem and you can find them anywhere. When it comes to large girth you are in a whole new territory. Damn Hard to find and stretching a too small one to wear can get unbearably painful after a little bit.
Yep, my slutty field survey proves you right. But thats why the L and XL and XL magnums exist. Although some people don't recommend the thin ones, which are also more expensive, they take to girth very well, and if they don't break, seems so much better than nothing, right? Never had one of the thin xl ones break on a big guy. Others will report otherwise, of course.
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Yep, my slutty field survey proves you right. But thats why the L and XL and XL magnums exist. Although some people don't recommend the thin ones, which are also more expensive, they take to girth very well, and if they don't break, seems so much better than nothing, right? Never had one of the thin xl ones break on a big guy. Others will report otherwise, of course.
Try to find the XL large ones in a store though. Maybe in a big city, but around here we couldn't even order them at the pharmacy because they said the warehouses didn't stock them either. Hmmm. the slutty survey must have been INTERESTING :D Wonder if the mail carrier wonders what that is the mail?
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Hmm, didn't realise limited choice can be an American problem. Every time I shop in the US i get the feeling there are 6,000 varieties of everything. Its exhausting!
Maybe its Swiss precision providing goods - they are so into the exact logical thing, so it logical to have a few sizes available.
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Hmm, didn't realise limited choice can be an American problem. Every time I shop in the US i get the feeling there are 6,000 varieties of everything. Its exhausting!
Maybe its Swiss precision providing goods - they are so into the exact logical thing, so it logical to have a few sizes available.
American enterprise is based on fastest moving product. If something doesn't have a high turn over rate, it soon disappears from the shelves. If there are 100 brands and sizes of rubbers, they are only going to stock maybe 20 different ones of the fastest movers. If they don't have a high enough turnover, it might be 8. Used to be that you could go to hardware stores and find lots of slow moving hard to find items. Not any more. Retail is so cut throat, those stores are no-longer in business. Now if Americans would start growing super sized shlongs like all you foreigners ;D, I am sure we would have XXL size in all the quick shops in short order.