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Please help my anxiety
« on: July 04, 2017, 03:13:50 am »
Hello. My name x (Removed by admin) from indonesia this is my first thread in this forum.

Iam male 22 years old. I have many experience to spent in massage parlour and now iam worried about my life and my future please answer  a lot of my activity risk below.

Iam UNCIRCUMCISED MAN.

1. Do a receiving handjob transmit a risk of Hiv... if a lady have a hiv and her hand have hiv fluid or  blood and wound in her hand or wound in my penis.

2. There the lady give me a wet towel may a wet towel transmit hiv if these towel have fresh hiv fluid(blood, sperm, vaginal fluid) from the previous HIV person and wiped to my penis.

3. What about if a wet towel it used to wipe a her vagina and after that wiped my penis... iam worried is hiv fluid or vaginal hiv fluid in a short while time.

4. Do a unprotect receiving blow job make a hiv risk.

5. Do i need test.

Iam sory for my lot question please answer these and thanks before.
I hope god help me to start repent
« Last Edit: July 04, 2017, 03:31:47 am by JimDublin »

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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #1 on: July 04, 2017, 03:25:06 am »
Hi

You had no risk for HIV transmission.

Q: 1-4 No
Q: Not over this as it was no risk, you should test as normal, routine like all sexually active adults should.

HIV is sexually transmitted inside the human body as in never leaving the confides of the body, unlike other STI's HIV does not remain infectious once exposed outside the body as the outer receptors needed to infect are damaged leaving HIV unable to infect.

On the BJ question, Getting your penis sucked is not a HIV risk, saliva is not infectious, it also contains over a dozen elements that neutralize HIV. Also there hasn’t been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the worlds first.

Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

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Kind regards

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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #2 on: July 04, 2017, 03:32:10 am »
Hi

You had no risk for HIV transmission.

Q: 1-4 No
Q: Not over this as it was no risk, you should test as normal, routine like all sexually active adults should.

HIV is sexually transmitted inside the human body as in never leaving the confides of the body, unlike other STI's HIV does not remain infectious once exposed outside the body as the outer receptors needed to infect are damaged leaving HIV unable to infect.

On the BJ question, Getting your penis sucked is not a HIV risk, saliva is not infectious, it also contains over a dozen elements that neutralize HIV. Also there hasn’t been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the worlds first.

Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Thank mr.jim for your reply... but iam still worried about my risk here below :

1. For blow job what about if a lady have a gum disease, blood, or tooth decay may increase a risk for receiving?

2. What about  a towel contaminated hjv fluid or blood? It still wet and iam worried  a hiv virus still live in wet towel... and iam afraid if that towel its firstly use to wipe her vagina and have a fresh vaginal hiv fluid and directly wipe my penis (the place is dark and i cant see very good)

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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #3 on: July 04, 2017, 03:36:02 am »
1: Asked and answered

Look unless she had gushing wounds so blood literally pouring out of her mouth when she sucked you , than you simple had no risk.

It has never happened, and you are not going to be making world history today, relax.

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Getting your penis sucked is not a HIV risk, saliva is not infectious, it also contains over a dozen elements that neutralize HIV. Also there hasn’t been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the worlds first.

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Asked and answered

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HIV does not remain infectious once exposed outside the body as the outer receptors needed to infect are damaged leaving HIV unable to infect.

Jim
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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #4 on: July 04, 2017, 04:50:12 am »
1: Asked and answered

Look unless she had gushing wounds so blood literally pouring out of her mouth when she sucked you , than you simple had no risk.

It has never happened, and you are not going to be making world history today, relax.

2:
Asked and answered

Jim

Thanks. But i hope you are a real jim...
Iam still try to asking for my anxiety

1. For a wet towel... maybe hiv virus die altough it still stay in towel or die caused rinshed by water?

2. I have do a 3rd gen rapid hiv test in 13 week for my blowjob exposure but iam still worried however my result is negative my worried is in 13week of windows period i have a urticaria(autoimmune) may my urticaria make a false negative result? Or make a windows period still longer or changing?

Forgive me mr.jim

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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #5 on: July 04, 2017, 06:18:30 am »
1.

Asked ans answered.
Wet towel is outside the human body, HIV is fragile and would not remain infectious in this condition

2.

No your condition would not affect a HIV test and you had no risk whatsoever to test for so no need to test over the none existent risk.

Jim 

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Re: Please help my anxiety
« Reply #6 on: July 04, 2017, 11:22:53 am »
You now have a warning (you know why) and I am going to give a 2nd warning.

You had no risk, so move on with your life and do not post about this no risk situation again, we can not assist you further in this setting and the reason I am unwilling to continue is because its an irrational fear that requires face to face support that I can not offer you here.

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