bleeding anus after being rimmed and hiv

[jowhatab]

Hello I hope I can get an answer for my question I had an encounter two week ago the person was hiv positive I have sucked him a little (no semen) after that we had deep french kissing I have a healthy mouth and I did not brush before the encounter the problem is that he started rimming me for a brief while less than a minute we did not have any penetration we ended by masturbation when I went home I found blood on my underwear and when I whipped my *** too I am terrified what what are the chances that I could have got the virus from his saliva or if he had blood in his saliva please I know that I should get tested but it is really soon are the odds with or against me
Now I am having swollen lymph nodes and a sore throat I am really scared cause I ave little experience please help me out

[Jeff G]

There is zero risk of HIV transmission in any of the things your are concerned with and you had absolutely no risk what so ever .

There have been no fewer than three separate serodiscordant couples studies (where one person is HIV positive, the other negative.) These couples were tracked for three. five and ten years. The couples used condoms for penetrative vaginal and anal sex, but NO BARRIER at all for oral sex. Any kind of oral sex.

These studies yielded NO infections.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

[jowhatab]

thank you Jeff G for your input i really appreciate it what really scared me was the blood when i went home so i started asking myself what if he had a bleeding gum or something like that and what worried me more id the swollen lymph nodes

[Jeff G]

It wouldn't matter if he did have HIV , it simply isn't a risk by any stretch of the imagination .

These are the risk factors for HIV ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth
Very specific healthcare situations.

Use condoms correctly and consistently when you have vaginal or anal sex and you will not be exposed to HIV .