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Offline Vscared

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Risk assesment/ menstruation vaginal fluid
« on: February 08, 2024, 02:22:26 pm »
Hello friends from poz forum, my case is the follow:

15 days ago a csw gave me a tantric massage that involved handjob and a little body rubbing. I was fully naked and she was with underwear and in her period. In a given moment when i was proned, her vagina opening came in direct contact with my ânus creating a vacuum for about 10 seconds. Is there any risk from her vaginal fluid or blood dripping in my ânus?  Sorry if its a dumb question.
Thanks in advance

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Re: Risk assesment/ menstruation vaginal fluid
« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2024, 08:21:45 pm »
HIV is fragile and limited in the way it is acquired sexually. HIV is mainly transmitted through unprotected anal/vaginal sex or sharing injection needles. HIV is acquired within the confines of the human body. Exposed outside the body, the receptors needed to infect are corroded due to changes in air, temperature, etc.

Your actions were not a risk for HIV.

Have a great day,

Reducing Your HIV risks:
With no exceptions, use condoms correctly and consistently for anal or vaginal intercourse
Talk to a healthcare provider about PrEP as another layer of protection

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If you don’t use condoms and/or PrEP, test more frequently

Some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other more easily acquired STIs. It is possible to show no signs or symptoms from an STI so testing is the only way to know.

Get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

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Re: Risk assesment/ menstruation vaginal fluid
« Reply #2 on: May 04, 2024, 05:27:34 am »
 Was with csw, she gave me a tantric massage in underwear and tampoon while menstruating and i was totally naked. When i was proned, she climbed in me and her vaginal canal was in direct contact with my anus for a complete minute. I fel my ânus getting warm, dont know if there were a vacumm between our genitals. Im desperate:

If blood or vaginal fluid descended my ânus am i at hiv risk?

Thank guys, im very very scared

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Re: Risk assesment/ menstruation vaginal fluid
« Reply #3 on: May 04, 2024, 07:44:48 am »
Asked and answered already.

You had no HIV risk and you have now been permanently banned.


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