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Title: Met a man but..
Post by: newt on September 04, 2006, 06:03:07 pm: Met a man I really liked, n he really liked me, we really got on, very well, he even liked my hands, very much, didn't even mind my Vermeer-galzed atazanavir eyes, but, dumped. Couldn't do it he said, confused, not over his ex (4 yrs). Get some counselling I said. Lonely he said,wanna, so wanna, fall but can't. Tough I said.

Gonna drink some beers.

- matt

Now playing: No Doubt, Don't Speak
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: LatinAlexander on September 04, 2006, 06:09:56 pm: Ouch Newt!!!!

Dman it...Life is so strange with Love... I cannot say a Lot...I am with some summer-love-in-my-ass that I cannot forget...But, just

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Alex
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Life on September 04, 2006, 06:11:33 pm: I am sorry Matt... ??? Your a bright boy.. Have your pick...
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Jena on September 04, 2006, 06:24:24 pm: I'm sorry Matt.. sometimes it sucks doesn't it? You deserve way better than someone on the rebound honey. He's out there looking for you... Hang in there
Hugs
Jena
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Cliff on September 04, 2006, 06:31:35 pm: Hang in there Matt! Time may not heal, but it does passes. In 6.5 hours the sun will rise over Brighton/Hove again, and you never know what the tide may bring in.

Chin up mister!
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Andy Velez on September 04, 2006, 06:48:44 pm: Newt, he ain't for you. Even though it seemed otherwise. Ouch is right.

But there is one who's gonna be yours. Keep on truckin', no kidding.

And in the meantime I refer to that song, "There ain't no sweet man who's worth the salt of my tears...."

Cheers, buddy,
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: allopathicholistic on September 04, 2006, 07:18:25 pm: his loss! (you're my hero!)
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: pozguy75 on September 04, 2006, 07:43:42 pm: Baby, I am sorry...love sucks! Well you have one guy here in North Carolina that would take you for who you are!!

I will drink a beer with you!!
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: J.R.E. on September 04, 2006, 07:49:42 pm: Hello Matt,

I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out. I guess it best to find out sooner then later. Like Jena says you desearve better then someone on the rebound. Better days ahead !!!

Take care of yourself------Ray
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: lydgate on September 04, 2006, 09:31:59 pm: He's a fool.

The next couple of pints are on me (put it on my tab). :-*
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: ndrew on September 04, 2006, 10:44:46 pm: hi Matt,

i hear your pain, this happened to me a few weeks ago, it really kicked me, but fuck it...
since the "crash" i drive the little red love machine with a bit more caution... but i am determined behind the wheel.

drew
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Matty the Damned on September 04, 2006, 11:29:50 pm: Boys are stupid.

MtD
(Who knows)
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: anniebc on September 04, 2006, 11:38:59 pm: Keep your head up, don't let this drag you down...those who deserve love will find it..and you Newt deserve the best..some lucky guy is just waiting for you to come into his life.

{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Jan :-*
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Sky on September 04, 2006, 11:49:23 pm: Aww Matt, I'm so sorry to hear that. You're an amazing guy, like MtD said, boiz are dumb.

Charlie
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: zephyr on September 04, 2006, 11:53:45 pm: Hi Matt...

I was hopeful for you, honey.

Just means he wasn't the One.

<<<HUGS>>>

Zephie :-*
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: gaysaywhat on September 05, 2006, 12:39:40 am: i would date u in a sec. ;)
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: newt on September 05, 2006, 08:01:06 am: Thanks all, kind words for a minor ouch! Mtd: yep, boys are stupid. Cliff: you a man of great grace.

I wrote a sonnet though :)

...

- matt
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Jerry71 on September 05, 2006, 11:06:23 am: Hey Matt Im going to go and see a guy today who is also HIV+. We have talked through emails since I came back from Montreal. He is 32 and Im 35. This will be my first date since 2004. Kind of nervous getting to finally meet him. So I get the decession on where we are going today and all. Wish me luck I will need it.
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: newt on September 05, 2006, 11:46:40 am: Good luck Jerry :)

- matt
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: cmhjeff on September 05, 2006, 03:57:50 pm: Newt - That totally sucks! He'll be kicking himself in the ass here soon if he isn't already. Next!
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: ndrew on September 05, 2006, 05:30:48 pm: oh a sonnet, speak with tongues of angels!
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Matty the Damned on September 05, 2006, 05:51:42 pm: Sonnets! They gayest of all poetic forms. :)

MtD
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Blixer on September 05, 2006, 08:51:50 pm: Matt, sorry about your experience. Far too many gay guys are unavailable for whatever reasons. You have responded very graciously but I know it has to at least be a minor barb in your life. I agree that boys can be stupid. I know I've appreciated the support you have given me on here and hence I know this guy has missed out on someone special. And I echo what Jenna says... you deserve better.... all around... you deserve better.
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Robert on September 06, 2006, 12:02:02 am: Quote
Sonnets! They gayest of all poetic forms.

MtD

Will would certainly agree with you on that.

Matt, that boy just doesn't know any better.

robert
Title: Re: Met a man but..
Post by: Eldon on September 06, 2006, 01:31:26 am: Hey Matt,

Let me share something with you...The BEST is yet to come for you. Enjoy your Beers.

Have the BEST Day!