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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: ravenx on May 29, 2007, 04:27:59 am

Title: oral sex question
Post by: ravenx on May 29, 2007, 04:27:59 am
i had sex with a prostitute. 10 days ago.i only had vaginal sex with her and used condom meanwhile.but the problem is that when i took off the condom,accidentally i contacted my penis with the outer part of the condom.also i touched my penis with my hands after taking off the condom.I'm not sure but maybe i have touched top of my penis too.can it result in a big risk for me?i was protected and only risky thing that i have done was contacting my penis with the condom afterwards.please help me...
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: Matty the Damned on May 29, 2007, 04:34:17 am
Ravenx,

You had protected sex and as such there is no risk of HIV transmission from what you describe. And yes, I'm aware that you touched your penis after touching the outside of the used condom. That doesn't constitute a risk for HIV infection.

All sexually active people should have a full STD screen at least once a year. Twice is better. A full screen will include an HIV antibody test. There are STD's which are more prevalent and easier transmit than HIV. If it's been a while since your last full STD screen or if you've not had one before, you might consider making an appointment to do so with your doctor or local clinic.

Please note that I don't think you need to have a full screen because of any specific risk behaviour, rather it's a good habit for sexually active people to get into.

Also you should take the time to read our Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) which contains links to our lessons on HIV transmission and testing.

Regards,

MtD
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: ACinKC on May 29, 2007, 10:52:04 am
Matty is 100% correct on this one.  You were protected.  Kudos to you!  Keep using protection and you wont have to worry about HIV.
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!-still worried
Post by: ravenx on June 04, 2007, 11:37:21 am
i explained the situation that i'm into,but there is still something wrong.i have a little headache for 10 days(started 2-3 days after exposure),and also there is a little pimple on the root of my penis which indeed freaks me.i need your opinions....
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: Andy Velez on June 04, 2007, 12:13:11 pm
Pimples happen on penises for all sorts of reasons. That's in no way something HIV-related.

If you are concerned about it I suggest you discuss it with your doctor. The important thing as far as HIV is concerned is that you used a condom for intercourse. Keep on doing that everytime. You were not at risk for HIV in this incident. Period. End of story.

Cheers,
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: ravenx on June 08, 2007, 10:30:02 am
i got negative from a 21-day p 24 combi test. does that mean its over? or should i still wait and take the 3 month test?
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: RapidRod on June 08, 2007, 10:42:06 am
What part of "You Did Not Have A Risk" is it that you don't understand? You didn't need to test the first time nor do you need to retest.
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: Bucko on June 08, 2007, 12:54:55 pm
Testing for no-risk encounters seems like a waste of time and money, but if they're your time and money to waste, go ahead.

Brent
(Who hasn't much of either)
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: Ann on June 09, 2007, 04:19:54 am
Raven,

You are conclusively hiv negative and you do not need further testing over this no risk incident. Here's how to ensure you remain hiv negative in the future:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

While you do not need further hiv testing at this time, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms and protect your negative hiv status. It really is that simple.

Ann
Title: Re: possible exposure,please help me!
Post by: ravenx on June 09, 2007, 05:45:33 am
Ann (and others as well) ,thanks so much.i appreciate your help.
thanks for providing such helpful information.
I'll follow your recommendations.
Title: oral sex question
Post by: ravenx on August 24, 2007, 06:49:33 pm
a prostitute gave me a blow job.that was the only thing we have,afterwards i realised there are little purple spots-like small bruises on the top of my penis.is it possible that i could have got the virus from her mouth?(saliva it think)i dont know if there were these little bruises before or they have been during the oral sex.should i have a test for it?waiting for comments and answers...
Title: Re: oral sex question
Post by: Ann on August 24, 2007, 07:24:16 pm
Raven,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Did you bother to read the Welcome thread and follow the link to the Transmission Lesson like you were asked in the first reply in this thread? Get reading.

Ann


Title: Re: oral sex question
Post by: ravenx on August 25, 2007, 09:15:49 am
Ann,thanks for your help so far.I've read the lessons part but the little bruises and cuts on my penis frightens me.i don't know if they were there before or it happened after oral sex.my main concern is cuts on my penis.is it possible to get the infection in a way like that?
Title: Re: oral sex question
Post by: RapidRod on August 25, 2007, 09:40:16 am
You will not get infected with little cuts or bruising on your penis for oral sex.