"we're worth a third time."
Dump him like a shitty rag.Ditto ;D Have the best day
MtD
ps: I refuse to vote in this poll because I am not an Enabler.
I wonder who the lonely soul is that voted for "think about it longer'
dude...the stomach acid may have been from the spicy food last night, lol.
btw, just cancelled his phone. he can pay for it himself. it'll be off tomorrow...
gives me enough time to acknowledge the strip down of our whatever and enough time for him to get himself another one...or whatever. i do still like him a lot. .. just acknowledging what he has been saying...he's single...we're friends.
i'll have to pick up the phone and my apt key on a later day. i have a feeling this will end on a cordial note.
btw, just cancelled his phone. he can pay for it himself. it'll be off tomorrow...
a sidenote....
going through my situation with my therapist (who loves most of your comments on this) he has stopped me lately and asked me if i ever listen to myself. rereading this thread (and the others) leaves me wondering why i continue.
i dislike how it sounds and characterizes me. if i were on the outside i would give myself much of the same advice you all have given me.
i sound: trite, petty, repetitive, unproductive, wasteful, weak...etc
"good looking latino not into drag queens. i know how to fuck but dont want my business spread around town"That's his profile?!? Really?
Personally the phone thing sounds more like your issue than his. Yeah, he used you to pay his bill. But maybe you used it to keep some control over him. If you're going to give someone something (or pay something), just do it and don't expect anything in return.
till this day i'm sure he didnt cheat on me. so, he had a profile on a sex site called adam4adam. one night i woke up with an eerie feeling that i could not shake. i felt compelled to go to this website. he had a profile on it that i had known about for months. i guess he had changed it to something even more sexual.
it said something to the effect of "good looking latino not into drag queens. i know how to fuck but dont want my business spread around town" and so forth. i called him in the morning and asked him to remove it. he said he only used it to communicate with people...
i still believe he didnt use the profiles to cruise.
if he wants to date again in the future i will
Codependency abounds! You need to know the importance of boundaries. Why would you want to remain in contact with him as friends?
Focus on the forward progression guys. He dropped the guy. Now he just needs to make sure not to relapse again.
I'm not going to respond after this. D, you obviously really don't want our true opinions, because when we give them to you, you rush to his defense.
So, just put up with it; but quit complaining.
still single...still here 8)
And sometimes being single can be awesome... kinda limits the drama and frustration to be honest, and of course like always, we are glad you are still here!
Am I to believe what I am reading? Though I am buzzed about now too....D, you have dropped the scrub? Thank the Goddess!!!!! We all go through a lil seperation withdrawl when a relationship ends. My fave saying, "Time heals all wounds" or something to that effect. You'll get over it and this too shall pass..lol... good point but we all must travel our own path.
Now I will admit that I skimmed over most of this thread but I saw a few comments that made me pause to wonder if you are truly that much of a hopeless romantic, naive, or just plain stuck on stupid. This guy burned you twice and you are still convinced he was not cheating. What am I missing here, he caught the clap before he got with you and went untreated? And decided to give his lovely gift to you twice..Who in their right mind would not get treated...I can't wrap my head around that and it hurts to try.....At least you dumped the guy, now get rid of all reminders of him....You know you haven't done that yet. Probably spent a few nights looking at his myspace or adam4adam account.
You know what you need, right? A bitch slap from me, from the heart but with love..... ;)
what have you done for me lately or ain't nothing going on but the rent....lol....feel me?
Yes, Dragon we do...But some still look at things through rose colored glasses instead of acccepting the reality of it all. We know the world is not full of love, that went out with Woodstock. Though some would like to think we could get those warm fuzzy feelings again...It's not happening, its 2010, it's not about how much I love you but instead, what have you done for me lately or ain't nothing going on but the rent....lol....feel me?I guess meant to convey was that people will go in their own direction even if it sucks. But I agree with you for I just toss my "rose colored glasses" months ago and I gave up on those "warm fuzzy feelings" cause they never lead me to anything good. Althought, I feel that it always been "what you have done for me lately."
D, snap out of it man.....come into the light so you can embrace the real world..... ;D
Work it out Jody Watleywouldn't that be Miss Jackson, if you're nasty? ;)
I guess meant to convey was that people will go in their own direction even if it sucks. But I agree with you for I just toss my "rose colored glasses" months ago and I gave up on those "warm fuzzy feelings" cause they never lead me to anything good. Althought, I feel that it always been "what you have done for me lately."
Since I am still the lone vote for "think about it longer" shouldn't I have some sort of symbol by my name or avatar recognizing this? I'd even accept having my screen name appear in green or something. just as long as it's different than everyone else's here. There's gotta be something, even a crown or halo would suffice...
lol(http://tool.shagnasty.net/wiki/images/f/fc/Crown_of_thorns.jpg)
MtD
(http://tool.shagnasty.net/wiki/images/f/fc/Crown_of_thorns.jpg)
MtD
Why is Matty suggesting that Skeebo get a tribal armband tattoo? Matty those are so passe.