Sex worker massage place risk? Raw BJ, condom sex

[JupiterBlues]

Hey there, I saw a sex worker Oct 2, we deep french kissed for a long time then we did 69 where she did oral sex to me unprotected for a long time and I did it on her. After that she put on a condom and had sex for 2 minutes until ejaculation in condom. 1 week later I get sick and online said could be ars. I see mixed things online and things that increases the risk.

1. I am uncircumcised and online said it's higher risk so will the unprotected blow job give me HIV if she had it?

2. I ate her out and deep french kissed a lot, I have braces so inside cheeks have little cuts like a healing canker sore. Is the deep kissing or her vagina juice a risk for oral because of my braces and cuts in mouth?

3. A week after this exposure Oct 9th, I got sick, muscle aches and mild fever, was in bed all day and serious stuffy nose a few days after. Are these typical ARS Symptoms?

4. Do you think I got exposed during the 2 minute sex with the condom? When she came off the condom moved up a little but was still covered head all the way to half of penis.

I am just scared, was having a lonely and busy work week so I saw a sex worker at a high traffic erotic massage place. Thank you for your time and I appreciate any help or details to help me understand my risk.

[Jim Allen]

Hiya,

Receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV; thus, it makes sense that after 40+ years of this pandemic in terms of BJs, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"). You will not be the world's first and being uncircumcised doesn't change that.

Cunnilingus also isn't an HIV concern, and neither is kissing. The braces make no difference.

Regarding intercourse, HIV can't be transmitted through an intact latex or polyurethane condom and riding up somewhat on your shaft isn't and issue. So unless a condom obviously fails during intercourse, there is no reason to be stressing or testing for HIV outside the standard yearly HIV screening.

In short, I read your post three times, it's not an HIV risk. Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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[JupiterBlues]

Hiya,

Receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV; thus, it makes sense that after 40+ years of this pandemic in terms of BJs, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"). You will not be the world's first and being uncircumcised doesn't change that.

Cunnilingus also isn't an HIV concern, and neither is kissing. The braces make no difference.

Regarding intercourse, HIV can't be transmitted through an intact latex or polyurethane condom and riding up somewhat on your shaft isn't and issue. So unless a condom obviously fails during intercourse, there is no reason to be stressing or testing for HIV outside the standard yearly HIV screening.

In short, I read your post three times, it's not an HIV risk. Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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Omg, thank you so much, this was very informative, bless you. I appreciate this so much. Have a wonderful day!!

[Jim Allen]

You're welcome.

[JupiterBlues]

Hello, sorry to bother again. Hope all is well. Your answer did help me gain the courage to get health screening I have given up the massage places and started dating.
Anyway,

Since my no condom oral sex and condom sex with sex worker on October 1st, then sick a week later, I did go to the doctor October 15th to get a flu shot but I said hell with it and just for peace of mind got an HIV 4th generation test blood draw and it came back negative.

I am dating now and the girl and me went to planned parenthood yesterday November 14th to get an HIV rapid test and std pee test before we start our sexual journey together. The rapid test was negative, I believe it was a third generation finger prick.

1. If my low risk on October 1st that got me sick a week later was ARS, would the 4th generation blood draw on October 15th or the 3rd generation finger prick November 14th pick it up? Thanks again, I only ask because starting a new relationship.

[Jim Allen]

You had no HIV exposure, no low risk as it simply wasn't an HIV risk at all, you didn't have ARS either from the encounter with the sex worker. Get over it already!

I am dating now and the girl and me went to planned parenthood yesterday November 14th to get an HIV rapid test

Congratulations on the relationship. As for the rapid testing a bit pointless, she didn't have HIV some three months ago, that's nice but meaningless to you.

I'll mention the same thing I always do when someone says they are in a relationship; If you engage in condomless sex with your partner, you are obviously at risk of acquiring HIV. In relationships, condomless sex is often based on trust or past test results; however, this does not prevent HIV, so if condomless sex does occur, you should consider testing more frequently.