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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: skyman007 on October 24, 2007, 09:25:40 am

Title: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on October 24, 2007, 09:25:40 am

About 2 weeks ago I recevied oral sex with a prostitutes.  after that , i returned my room. Server mintues later,I watched my penis, found that a cut in my penis,and bloodstain around it;I worry that the  bloodstain may be the prostitutes blood!
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: RapidRod on October 24, 2007, 10:21:22 am
This is not an HIV issue. If you would have had a laceration large enough to contract HIV, then you wouldn't have a penis and then again you wouldn't have to worry about HIV.
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: Ann on October 24, 2007, 10:28:14 am
sky,

Getting a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection, regardless of cuts on your penis. Saliva is not infectious.

Please read our Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) and follow the Lessons link.

You were not at risk.

Ann
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: skyman007 on October 24, 2007, 11:20:06 am
Ann:
    if  bloodstain that   is  around the cut of my penis ,is the  prostitute blood, it may be risk!
   
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: RapidRod on October 24, 2007, 11:24:32 am
Saliva, nor a small amount of blood is not a risk for transmitting HIV.
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: Andy Velez on October 24, 2007, 12:32:30 pm
In the entire history of the epidemic and countless blowjobs later, there has never been a single confirmed case of HIV transmission to a recepient in t his manner.

It's safe to say you arent' going to make history by becoming the first no matter what details you throw into the mix. Really.

This is not a risk situation. Period.
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: skyman007 on October 24, 2007, 09:18:30 pm
   blood in a prostitute mouths,some cuts in my penis.if i receive oral sex from the prostitute. it is a risk? need a test ?
Title: Re: help me,please ! worry about oral sex
Post by: anniebc on October 25, 2007, 04:27:27 am
You have been told 4 times already that you were not at risk, please listen to what you are being told..it doesn't matter how many times you ask the same question the answer will still be the same..if you haven't done so already please click on the link in Ann's post and follow the guides lines to HIV transmissions...and read the guide lines about posting...this one in particular:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Jan
Title: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on May 24, 2008, 07:03:04 am
Hi ,ALL:
   first ,i am sorry to my english ,beacuse i am not go in it .   
   my question as follows:
        i recevice a Oral-Anal Sex with a sex worker server days ago. her tongue continue to lap my anus about 10 secs . my anus has a little blood .(my anus ususlly  bleed and i don't know her tongue status )  should i test for HIV ?
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Ann on May 24, 2008, 07:08:33 am
Sky,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

Being rimmed (having your anus licked) is NOT a risk for hiv infection for the same reason getting a blowjob isn't a risk - saliva is NOT infectious.

You have not had a risk and you do not need to test over this specific incident.

Ann
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on May 24, 2008, 07:25:00 am
Ann:
    thanks ,if the tongue of sex worker who lick my anus has blood , is it a risk ? because i don't know her tongue status.her tongue may be blood (a little ),
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: RapidRod on May 24, 2008, 07:30:30 am
Blood on her tongue or no blood. You were never at risk.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on May 24, 2008, 07:38:01 am
RapidRod:
    you means : oral-genus sex is not a risk for HIV ,even if blood on anus ,and blood on tongue ?
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Ann on May 24, 2008, 07:58:00 am
Sky,

Oral-anal sex is NOT a risk for hiv, no matter what. You  have NOT been at risk for hiv infection when you had your anus licked.

Ann
Title: worried about kiss
Post by: skyman007 on June 04, 2008, 09:13:38 am
Hi ALL:
    I have a deep kiss with someone I don't know her HIV status for about one minute.after that ,i found that a little blood in my saliva which my split.it may be her blood and  my blood , is it a rick? shoule i test for hiv ?
Title: Re: worried about kiss
Post by: Matty the Damned on June 04, 2008, 09:24:10 am
Please keep all your additional thoughts, questions and comments in your original thread. (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=16624.0) This helps us to follow your story and give you the most accurate advice.

If you can't find you original thread click on the red link I've provided above. Alternatively you can click on the "show own posts" link in the left hand column of any forums page.

Your questions will not be answered until you return to your original thread.

MtD
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on June 04, 2008, 09:44:25 am
Hi ALL:
    I have a deep kiss with someone I don't know her HIV status for about one minute.after that ,i found that a little blood in my saliva which my split.it may be her blood and  my blood , is it a rick? shoule i test for hiv ?
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: RapidRod on June 04, 2008, 12:27:47 pm
No you don't need testing.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Andy Velez on June 04, 2008, 04:27:07 pm
I've merged your threads. Keep all of your entries in this same thread. We've been over this blood in the mouth and other body parts with you before. No, your latest is not a risk for transmission. What you have to be concerned about is always using a condom for either vaginal or anal sex. Those are the real risks for sexual transmission. Everything else is theoretical but in the real world of HIV it's all about unprotected intercourse.

Cheers,
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on June 04, 2008, 09:26:10 pm
RapidRod,Andy
    very thanks, i alaway use condom for either vaginal or anal sex, no condom no sex . the life is so beautiful ,i must look after it. thanks again.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on June 09, 2008, 10:47:19 am
hi all:
     server days ago ,a  girl rub the head of my penis against her labia for about one minute ,but i did not insert into her vagina .is it a risk ? shoulde i test for hiv ?
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Ann on June 09, 2008, 01:48:38 pm
sky,

The act of rubbing genitals together without penetration is called frottage. Frottage is not a risk for hiv infection. You don't need to test over this incident.

READ the Transmission Lesson. There's a link in the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0), which you've been repeatedly asked to read.

If you keep coming back with basic questions that could be answered by reading the Transmission Lesson, you'll be timed out.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on November 08, 2009, 05:03:41 am
ALL:
      server days ago,  i make love  with a sex worker in a condom. after that ,beacuse of  nervous,i throw the condom  quickly ,  now  i can sure that the condom is not broken ,the condom is not slip out .  but i can not sure that whetehr the condom slip down ,maybe my head of penis not  be covered because of sliping down .   
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Andy Velez on November 08, 2009, 08:40:53 am
You have a habit of worrying about non-risk situations. If the condom had broken you would have known it. It's very clear when that happens because it ends up looking like a fringed hoop on your penis. I see no reason to doubt that you were protected during this latest incident.

Your concern is about your anxiety and not a real risk.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on November 08, 2009, 10:21:04 am
Andy :
       thanks a lot, i can sure the condom is not broken ,but i can not sure that whether the condom slip down,maybe my head of penis is not covered  because of the slipage condom . maybe  you are right,i have a habit of worring about non-risk situtions.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Andy Velez on November 08, 2009, 10:43:47 am
You're in the domain of what ifs. It would have been quite apparent when you withdrew your penis if it had come off before that during intercourse.

Stop with this unnecessary drama and get on with your life.
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: skyman007 on November 08, 2009, 01:09:09 pm
Andy :
      i am not good in english ,i means that maybe the condom slip down a lot but not slip out ,maybe the head of  penis not complete be  coved ,
Title: Re: please help me !
Post by: Andy Velez on November 08, 2009, 03:28:33 pm
I understood exactly what you meant. When you withdrew you would have seen if the condom had come off.