my risk , primary infection signs (jeff g and andy pls answer)

[robby_m]

hi
thanks for all admins who are trying ti help people
my question is may be stupied but i need an answer from an expert !
if i eat a cake on wich there is a fresh blood of a hiv poz man (comming from cut on his finger) and i may have some cuts in mounth is any contamination possible ?
i'm very worried because this had happend to me 3 days ago

[Jeff G]

HIV is fragile and becomes instantly damaged when exposed to conditions outside the human body . Small changes in temperature and PH levels render HIV unable to infect when exposed to oxygen so you need not fear that you will become infected in the manner you are concerned with . No one has ever been infected that way and you will not be the first .

HIV is transmitted from unprotected anal and vaginal sex, from mother to child during childbirth and from using IV drug injection equipment shortly after an infected person .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

[robby_m]

thx a lot for your fast replay jeff
so no need for testing ?just forget the story ?(sorry for insisting  )

[Jeff G]

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

You can rest assured that you will not get HIV from cake . 

[robby_m]

hello again
hi jeff and andy and whole team
this is my last free post so i will try to tell u the max so that u can give me your point of view ,
i met a postive guy since 28 days , we have sex twice , we've done almost every thing
deep french kiss i recived a BJ ,deep frottage (my penis on his anus), we spend a whole night together it was hot so our bodies sweat a lot  (no penetration happend because i know already he is postive) but i may touched his cum and may be some of his cum came on my penis while he is cumming(not sure )  just after 19 days i got a big flu with fever , nose hurting ,sore thorat, cough (still today) , headache , etc ...i feel little better now but still coughing and had some nose hurting   i was really affraid i get tested this monday it came back negative , but i m still very affraid , no sleep , no eating , i know that what i have done is not very risky , but i told my self may be i have some cut on body or in my mouth or while frottage (because it was little hard) or may be his cum came on the head of my penis
what do think , please try to answer every detail because i have no right to psot more
thx again 
i'm really affraid

[Joe K]

You can relax as you have not had even the slightest risk.  Nothing you describe is a risk for infection.  Whatever symptoms you are having, have nothing to do with HIV.

You have not had a risk and you do not need to test over this incident.

Joe