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Offline Hollandvisitor

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Is it a risk
« on: April 01, 2015, 12:14:12 pm »
When I was at redlight :
Before start sex a woman unclothed
A woman touched her vagina and open her lips ( maybe vaginal water I dont know)
after she took condom and she put and finally we started sex.I dont know did her finger touched my penis when she put condom

I did sex with condom totally

Is that situation a risk

I am depressed now

It was a safe sex but only that situation on my mind

maybe my English is bad sorry for that

Thanks

« Last Edit: April 01, 2015, 12:16:26 pm by Hollandvisitor »
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Re: Is it a risk
« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2015, 12:17:31 pm »
You have not had a risk.  Protected sex is not a risk and an intact condom means no risk.  The fact that she may have touched her vagina, before putting on your condom does not create any risk.

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth.
Very specific health care situations.

Use condoms for vaginal and anal sex consistently and correctly and you will avoid HIV infection, it is that simple.

You have not had a risk and you do not need to test over this incident.

Joe
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Offline Hollandvisitor

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Re: Is it a risk
« Reply #2 on: April 01, 2015, 12:28:44 pm »
Quote from: Joe K on April 01, 2015, 12:17:31 pm
You have not had a risk.  Protected sex is not a risk and an intact condom means no risk.  The fact that she may have touched her vagina, before putting on your condom does not create any risk.

The risk factors for HIV are ...

Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth.
Very specific health care situations.

Use condoms for vaginal and anal sex consistently and correctly and you will avoid HIV infection, it is that simple.

You have not had a risk and you do not need to test over this incident.

Joe

Thanks for Incredibly Fast reply

yes I know that risk factors

my concern is :
  she touched her vagina before sex for 1 seconds(I see her. yes she touched,but I dont know any water was there) and her water in her finger maybe touched my penis ( when she put condom)
my concern only her finger
If her finger with water touched my penis when she put me a condom,Is it a risk
And If it is not any risk why

Could I explain


thank you again
I am sorry because my english is not well. :'(

thanks
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Offline Joe K

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Re: Is it a risk
« Reply #3 on: April 01, 2015, 03:39:12 pm »
You have not had a risk.  The secretions a woman makes when excited, come from glands near the opening of the vagina and are not infectious for HIV.  Also HIV is a very fragile virus that becomes damaged immediately when leaving the host, where changes in temperature, pH and moisture levels, alter the HIV rendering it unable to infect.

You have not had a risk.

Joe
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Offline Hollandvisitor

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Re: Is it a risk
« Reply #4 on: April 02, 2015, 03:41:34 am »
you are really helpfull moderator thanks

last question:
I think bad condition
If she touched enfected hiv vaginal water ( maybe her finger entered vagina more than we thought) are there any risk
I think no because changes in temperature, pH and moisture levels hiv are not infected in her fingers( because you said it :) )

Is it true

Thank you too much
good forums bye
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Re: Is it a risk
« Reply #5 on: April 02, 2015, 08:42:29 am »
You have not had a risk for HIV.  Her putting vaginal fluid on her finger is not a risk to you.  You should get on with your life, and put this behind you.

Betty
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