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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 05:26:02 pm

Title: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 05:26:02 pm
 sorry for my poor english at first .had sex with a lady .the condom dropped on the floor accidentelly  when I tryed to wear it . then I picked it up and my partener  sprayed a kind of disinfectant liquid wich is used  for skin disinfecting before injection .(after sex i found it was70%~75% akcohol ) . we had vaginal sex lasted about 30 minuts . I felt sour on the head of my cock . later i found a small red spot on the head of my cock (coused by akcohol irritation ). after sex i found the condom stayed intact .
  is this  a risky situation for HIV assuming the woman is infected ?
  does the 70%~75% akcohol couse any damage on the condom ,i mean some invisible holes .
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 05:33:52 pm
I mean my partener  sprayed a kind of disinfectant liquid on the condom before i used it .
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 06:11:20 pm
 some body is reding me now, im in front of my computer waiting for some of help, please!!
Didnt i make me clrear or is this a totally new question ??
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: RapidRod on November 23, 2007, 06:20:30 pm
The condom didn't fail, so you were never at risk.
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 08:13:51 pm
thanks  Rapid
but even if the  disinfectant liquid was sprayed on the condom brfore I used it , doesnt  the 70%~75% akcohol couse any damage on the condom ?
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: Andy Velez on November 23, 2007, 08:44:21 pm
If the condom had been damaged you would have known it because when it fails it's very obvious what has happened. It's not teeny tiny holes -- the whole thing falls apart.

That didn't happen so I don't see any reason to doubt that the condom provide the necessary protection for you during this incident. You're ok. No need to worry or to test.

Cheers,
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 23, 2007, 09:53:42 pm
  Ann ,
you are expert in  condom use . may I have your expert judgement on special this incident ?
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: tekinn on November 24, 2007, 01:17:44 pm
  Hi , Ann ,

  may I have your expert judgement on this special incident ?
Title: Re: some advice ! please !!
Post by: Ann on November 24, 2007, 01:41:45 pm
tek,

If the alcohol damaged your condom, it would have broken and you'd know about it. There is no such thing as "invisible holes" in condoms. 

You did not have a risk for hiv infection.

Make sure you read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence. Use them correctly and consistently and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann