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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: friendofsanta99 on December 27, 2006, 02:41:18 am
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Hi I really need some help!
I got a blow job from a Pro with a condom also I was fingering her hard with a condom. I cam and took off the condom from my finger. She took the condom fom my hand and went to take the one off my penis, I don't know how it happend but the condom that I was fingering her with touch my penis hole. Im freaking out...The condom that i fingered her with touched my penis hole about 20 seconds after leaving the vagina.
Am i in danger of being infected in anyway?
thanks for the help...
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Friend,
Nothing you did put you at risk for hiv infection. Getting a blowjob, with or without a condom, is not a risk. Fingering a woman, with or without a condom, is also not a risk.
It is also not a risk when a used condom touches the tip of your penis and the opening of your urethra. Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse.
Please read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) and follow the Transmission Lesson link so you can have a better understanding how hiv is and is not transmitted.
Here's what else you need to know to avoid hiv infection: You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.
Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.
Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.
If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
Ann
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Thanks Ann, I am very nervous...the condom was very wet with vaginal fluid from me fingering the lady, the condom touched the opening of my penis, could I get a little hiv and then it spread in my body...
Im so scared...thanks for your help.
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You are not going to get infected in the manner in-which you have described.
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I can't understand, to me this is almost the same thing as having unprotected sex with the women, also the condom touched an opening in my body, the hole of my penis
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to me this is almost the same thing as having unprotected sex
Well it's not the same as having unprotected sex. You have had NO RISK, no matter what YOU think.
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Hi I would just like to add one more thing to my question. The condom that touch the outside of my penis was used to finger the lady.
It would definetly have her vaginal fluids on the condom, also the outside of the condom touched the tip of my penis and the hole of it.
sorry for all the questions, im just really scared.
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It doesn't change the fact that you have no risk.
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friend,
Hiv infection happens INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. What happened with the condom touching your penis happened OUTSIDE the body. You did not have a risk.
Ann
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Hi im in some desperate need of some help.
I had sex with a female, I was using a condom and I found out it broke, I stopped right away. I was probably in her for about 3 mins until i noticed the condome had broke ( I was checking it periodically ), the condom stayed on my penis but the head was fully exposed.
What does this mean in terms of partialy pertection, does having the head exposed increase my hiv chances more then the shaft of the penis.
The women also told me she wasn't hiv positive, but she hadn't been tested for 6 months.
Also what are the transimission statistics from female to male.
thanks.
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FoS,
You should keep all your questions, comments and thoughts in your original thread. (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=7204) This helps us to follow your story and give you the most accurate advice.
If you have trouble finding your original thread, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left hand column of the page.
MtD
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HI this is my original thread,
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No, it isn't. This thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=7204), which you started on the 27th December 2006 is your original thread. Click on the red link I've provided. It will take you to that thread.
MtD
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Hi this is a different situation, I don't think the other thread has anything to do with this one.
thanks for helping though
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friend,
I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread - regardless if they are about the same incident or not.
If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.
Please also read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.
As you know from your previous visits, hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus - and more so from a woman to a man. Although you have had a risk, it isn't a very big one, but you should still test. You were protected up until the condom broke and the odds are definitely in your favour of testing hiv negative, even if your partner is positive.
Don't start symptom hunting, because symptoms or even the lack of symptoms mean nothing when it comes to hiv. Only testing at the appropriate time will reliable reveal your hiv status.
The vast majority of people who have been infected will seroconvert and test postive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being 22 days. A negative result at six weeks MUST be confirmed at the three month point. Only a three month negative is conclusive.
You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.
Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.
Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.
If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.
Do test, but expect a negative outcome.
Ann