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I am quite scared
« on: October 24, 2016, 10:31:23 am »
A few days ago I found an escort and we had condom blowjob and also intercourse. But what I'm concern is that I have abrasion near to my balls at my inner thighs. Woukd it be possible if her fluids would have infected me with HIV when it's leaking and having contact with my abrasion?? If she's positive.
And also I pull out my condom with my left hand then touched my dick with my left hand too. Am I at risk?

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Re: I am quite scared
« Reply #1 on: October 24, 2016, 10:37:09 am »
Hi

Getting a BJ is not a risk, saliva is not infectious and the vaginal fluid in general is not infectious as its fluid from the cervix that is and besides HIV is not infectious outside the body and abrasions on your balls are not a route of infection, and they are outside the human body.

So no risk whatsoever for HIV, just move on and test as normal at least yearly for HIV & STI's. No need to worry about this specific incident.

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Re: I am quite scared
« Reply #2 on: November 02, 2016, 01:58:25 am »
A few days ago I just met ts sex worker for a short moment.
I licked her nipples and we gave each other unprotected blowjobs.
She then topped me for a moment followed my me topping her and cumming on her.
However after I took out the condom, I came into contact with the parts that touched her ass then followed to touch my penis. Am I at risk if she's hiv positive?

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Re: I am quite scared
« Reply #3 on: November 02, 2016, 03:45:27 am »
Hi

Licking her nipples, getting a BJ, and torching things that have come into contact with her ass are not a risk.  HIV outside the human body is not a risk, it corrodes outside the body and is not infectious.

Regarding giving a BJ well the virus is very fragile, and your mouth has dozens of protein and enzymes that damage the virus and render it unable to infect. If this is your only concern than test as you normally would, No need to specifically test or panic.

Going forward don't post about silly situations again. In short unless you have unprotected intercourse you have nothing much to worry about, use condoms to prevent this risk and just test as you normally should at least yearly for STI's & HIV.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

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Re: I am quite scared
« Reply #4 on: November 02, 2016, 04:05:13 am »
So it means like even if the granny's rectal fluid comes into contact with my foreskin outside of the body, it's not infectious?

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Re: I am quite scared
« Reply #5 on: November 02, 2016, 04:09:53 am »
even than its not infectious for HIV.  Stop trying to find concerns where there simply are none.

And stop calling people "Tranny" its considered offensive.

If you keep getting this scared from sex than consider talking to a mental health therapist face to face to help you move past your fears.

Jim
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