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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: keepitcool on July 26, 2013, 01:35:32 pm
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Last week I went to strip club. I called the girl to sit and drink with me. She let me saw and licked her nipples but didnt let me pressed because she just had surgery her breast for month. I was licking and sucking her nipples 2 times and then we kissed, no oral, no intercourse but I wasnt sure about there was some milk presented. Then I backed to my room and I just realized that I had bruise maybe canker sore at roof of my mouth. That make me feel anxious about Hiv if that girl had Hiv+ and I got some breast milk in my mouth.
My question is "Can I get Hiv if that girl is lacting and I get some milk in my mouth( there is bruise and canker sore in mouth)?"
Now I'm very anxious about this.
Thank you
Sorry about my bad english
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You're worrying needlessly. Adults are not at risk by sucking nipples of a lactating woman. Only an infant under a year of age would be at risk in sucking the breast of an HIV+ woman. At that age the infant's immune system has not kicked in.
You as an adult would not be at risk that way even if she is HIV+. Sexually the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you properly and consistently use condoms for those activities you will be well protected. There is no need for HIV testing at this point.
Get on with your life.
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Thank you for reply Andy ;)
That make me feel better for the answer.
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Glad you found our exchange to be helpful. Get on with your life without any further concern about this issue.
Cheers.
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I want to ask other question.
Last Sunday I went to massage and chosed body to body with oil lotion massage.
I and girl were naked. Then she put oil lotion on my body and used her body frottage on me. Afterthat she took the condom and wear for me. She gave me a blowjob and handjob until I cum. When I cum I saw my cum still inside condom but I didnt test that leak or break or not. Then we took a bath togather.
my questions are
1. Am I risk if my top of penis rubbed with her vagina and touched some her precum while frottage.
2. Am I risk if I had a little cut on my body and touched her precum while frottage.
I feel a little bit anxious.
sorry for my bad english.
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Keepit,
Frottage (the sexual rubbing of body parts together without penetration) is NOT a risk for hiv infection.
Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.
Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, frottage is NOT a risk for hiv infection, regardless of what fluids are present.
Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.
To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.
Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.
ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY FOLLOWING FROTTAGE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.
If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.
Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
Ann
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Hi Expert.
I have somethings to ask again
As I asked about last incident frottage with massage girl. One week later I met the guy that I found on internet. We had oral sex with condom, mutual masturbation and frottage. He rubbed his penis between my butt cheeks but I scared for if he tried to penetrate. I'm pretty sure he didnt penetrate me. I pushed him out and mutual masturbation again. He let me cum under his scrotum and he did hand job by himself until he cum.
3 days later I came back home. I just found that my butt cheeks had cut look like scrape, length about 1-2 inches, already covered with scab. I dont know when this cut occurred.
That make me feel anxious because I assume that the cut maybe occurred in 2 last incidents
It could be occurred during frottage with massage girl because she shaved her public hair and I felt a little bit hurt on my butt cheek when she frottage my back with her body. I thought her public hair scratched me.
It could be occurred during frottage with the guy because he touched and pressed my cheek hard. Maybe his nail scratched my butt cheek too.
I want to ask about if I got fresh bleeding cut during frottage, her fresh vagina fluid and his fresh precum came out to contract my fresh bleeding cut. Am I risk?
I'm very anxious about it.
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Keepit,
Once again you are fretting about NO RISK situations.
Frottage (the sexual rubbing of body parts together without penetration) is NOT a risk for hiv infection.
Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.
Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, frottage is NOT a risk for hiv infection, regardless of what fluids are present.
In adults hiv is transmitted through:
Unprotected anal intercourse.
Unprotected vaginal intercourse.
Sharing drug injecting equipment.
And that's IT.
Re-read your entire thread until what we've already told you begins to sink in.
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. IT REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!!!
Ann
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Thanks for your advised again. I feel better now. I hope that I can forget about this anxious soon. :)