delilah07:
I’m bipolar with addictions. I also get bored easily. When I get bored my mind goes to one of three things, food, alcohol or nooky. Sorry I don’t mean to offend. But I’m in a nookiless marriage. My spouse is fourteen years older than me. He has no nooky drive. Now I’m in a boring marriage. Great now I’m bored again. I have had this problem with being unfocused for a long time. Yet I have to be a wife, mother, and responsible. How do people deal with this? Am I the only one? I think I need to mention this to my therapist. My mental state is stable since I take medication. But I feel bored.
Almost2late:
It's human to want pleasure, whether it's sex, alcohol or food. It's only a problem if it's excessive.. causing you health or mental issues you can't control. Are you sure you're addicted to all 3? I would definitely talk to the therapist about it if it makes you feel uncomfortable with yourself.
As for your sex issue, if hubby ain't taking care of your needs.. I don't think that's all on you ¯\_(ツ)_/¯