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Author Topic: Penis rubbing vagina lips risk??  (Read 3407 times)

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Offline Itsanna

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Penis rubbing vagina lips risk??
« on: May 25, 2017, 12:31:05 pm »
Hello, I'm hoping my fears can get laid to rest! i have a lovely boyfriend and i don't want to hurt him or destroy his life by having a disease and I've become so stressed thinking about a encounter I had a month before i met my boyfriend:

A few months ago I met a man and we foooled around. I had my underwear on and as I laid on my side my underwear were scrunched up in my behind and my vagina lips were exposed. The man rubbed his bare erect penis along my lips and his tip grazed my inner lips for maybe a few seconds before he stopped and asked me for a handjob. Before i finished the handjob he stopped me and fingered me then pulled me on top of him. He pressed himself against my vagina and rubbed for a short time. I honestly am not 100% sure if his bare penis touched me or if he had a sheet around his body (i am pretty sure he was covered with a sheet but if he wasn't i want to access my risk). If he DIDN'T have his penis covered by a blanket and did rub my vagina was I at any risk? We didn't have sex. No penetration at all. Only a hand job/fingering and him rubbing his penis on my vagina. The rubbing lasted no more than 5 to 10 minutes before we stopped. For some reason I have become sick with worry.

Was the risk heavier when his tip brushed my inner lip? I'm so scared and worried ): 

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Re: Penis rubbing vagina lips risk??
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2017, 02:33:59 pm »
Since there was no penetration involved, you are not at risk for HIV infection.  That is all that matters.

Move on with your life.
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Offline Itsanna

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Re: Penis rubbing vagina lips risk??
« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2017, 02:38:09 pm »
Thank you for replying!

I have read countless other posts and each reply was no penetratiin no risk t i just had to share my experience to get it through my head. I guess the fact rgat his bare penis was rubbing me my mind kept playing horrible thoughts..anyways

Again thank you!  :)

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Re: Penis rubbing vagina lips risk??
« Reply #3 on: May 25, 2017, 03:44:14 pm »
You're welcome.
HIV 101 - Basics
HIV 101
You can read more about Transmission and Risks here:
HIV Transmission and Risks
You can read more about Testing here:
HIV Testing
You can read more about Treatment-as-Prevention (TasP) here:
HIV TasP
You can read more about HIV prevention here:
HIV prevention
You can read more about PEP and PrEP here
PEP and PrEP

 


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