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Offline Ihavehope

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How long ago did you have sex?
« on: January 26, 2007, 09:28:52 pm »
I have not had sex in 7 months and I don't know when I am gonna get laid.

Ugh.
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2007, 09:32:42 pm »
It has been 2 years since I had sex. I do miss it but has a bob to get me over the rough patches.
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #2 on: January 26, 2007, 09:35:38 pm »
I refuse to answer this
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2007, 09:37:25 pm »
I refuse to answer this

Then why say anything at all?  Just saying.....
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Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #4 on: January 26, 2007, 09:38:20 pm »
It has been 2 years since I had sex. I do miss it but has a bob to get me over the rough patches.

I want a Bob.  (or a Joey, or a Tom, or a Louis, or a....)


It has been since about September for me.  *Le Sigh*
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #5 on: January 26, 2007, 09:55:20 pm »
Tim since September :o come over I will help you ;D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #6 on: January 26, 2007, 09:57:10 pm »
Tim since September :o come over I will help you ;D

J.

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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #7 on: January 26, 2007, 09:59:38 pm »
Virgin... ummmm :P

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Offline Ihavehope

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2007, 10:00:42 pm »
 ??? :-X
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #9 on: January 26, 2007, 10:04:26 pm »
uppps ::)

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #10 on: January 26, 2007, 10:29:53 pm »
none in 2007 ... maybe i'm being kicked to the curb

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #11 on: January 26, 2007, 10:43:30 pm »
Une semaine.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #12 on: January 26, 2007, 10:49:39 pm »
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2007, 10:49:46 pm »

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #14 on: January 26, 2007, 10:50:42 pm »
shock!

Me too!  That's a long time for me... I'm not kidding.  I'm getting antsy.
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Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #15 on: January 26, 2007, 10:58:05 pm »
OK now I quote Alex:  Bitch.
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Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #16 on: January 26, 2007, 10:59:37 pm »
remember to include the ":D"

Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #17 on: January 26, 2007, 11:03:00 pm »
Oh!  Dear me!  Did I forget the little smiley?  ::)


Four months and counting...I'm getting testy.
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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #18 on: January 26, 2007, 11:05:49 pm »

  Last time was....  well it started anyways somewhere between 9:30 and 9:45pm... before that it was sometime after we got back from grocery shopping after 7pm... can't remember the exact time, sorry. :(
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #19 on: January 26, 2007, 11:36:05 pm »
 ::).... :o... :-*.... ;)
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Offline aztecan

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #20 on: January 26, 2007, 11:37:11 pm »
Before I answer, I have to know exactly what qualifies as "sex."???

Does it have to include another person?  

If not, then pretty recently, I think.

If it does, well ...  Hmmmmm.  

I can't remember. :-[

I seem to remember wanting to have sex with someone.

But actually having sex? With someone else involved?

I still can't remember.

SIGH,

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Offline Basquo

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #21 on: January 26, 2007, 11:48:28 pm »
I started to go through it all, but plead the 5th.

Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #22 on: January 26, 2007, 11:57:40 pm »
 Last time was....  well it started anyways somewhere between 9:30 and 9:45pm... before that it was sometime after we got back from grocery shopping after 7pm... can't remember the exact time, sorry. :(

OK.  I take it back.   Thomas now gets the Bitch Award!   >:(


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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #23 on: January 27, 2007, 12:11:49 am »
About two yeard, but I have complications from a back injury.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #24 on: January 27, 2007, 09:00:48 am »
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #25 on: January 27, 2007, 09:23:51 am »
About three weeks and like Aupoint I'm getting antsy.  Very.

Offline Razorbill

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #26 on: January 27, 2007, 09:48:33 am »
PS - I really puzzled that so many great looking guys and gals are doing without.  Is it a choice? 

Offline Lis

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #27 on: January 27, 2007, 09:54:02 am »

30 minutes...
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Offline Oh501sguy

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #28 on: January 27, 2007, 10:02:37 am »
Are you talking good sex or are you talking cheap unmeaninful gotta get off sex?

I haven't had wonderful good sex with someone I care about in years.  Sad thing is thats all I really want.

Offline dtwpuck

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #29 on: January 27, 2007, 10:35:20 am »
geez   i get antsy after a day ....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #30 on: January 27, 2007, 11:01:59 am »
Let's see, it's 9:02 now, and I finished mopping up  jizz at about 8:45. so that would be about 17 minutes ago. Give or take a few either way. :) :)
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #31 on: January 27, 2007, 01:43:41 pm »
3 1/2 years -- August 2003.   Boy howdy...

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Offline Coffeechick88

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #32 on: January 27, 2007, 02:56:47 pm »
It's been way too long, though if I get too desparate, I could go for the sleazy ER doc who has made it very clear he wouldn't mind doing more.  He's already had a thing with at least EMT, rumoured another nurse.  He isn't a George Clooney or McDreamy either.  I don't know if it is worth it just to say I got to have sex in the on-call room..........
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #33 on: January 27, 2007, 03:57:37 pm »
Well...um...it's been at least three hours ago... ;D

And got a couple of HOT dates scheduled for later tonight!
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #34 on: January 27, 2007, 04:06:29 pm »
Phone sex counts??? ::)

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #35 on: January 27, 2007, 04:29:00 pm »
....about one month now.....

Surprising to read many others have been without sex for a longer time...
But then, I did have my share.......2000 dates ( well, dates  euhmmm) or more ????? I really don't remember.

My excessive sex and maybe my sex addiction  stopped when I was diagnosed 20 years ago..

I can't say that I really miss sex. It is more the affection and feeling your loved one laying close to you that satisfies me... not that I hate sex....not at all....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #36 on: January 27, 2007, 05:29:59 pm »
1) What do we mean (since we haven't answered this yet and need this thread to continue a long time) by having sex?  Again, by yourself or only if another person was involved?  2) I don't remember, it was so long ago (if we mean another person was involved,) but 3) having been a bodyworker in NYC, (a/k/a Will Bottom of 'connect with your butt') I had reached the point before arriving in MA that I was SO over it. :)  Win
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #37 on: January 27, 2007, 06:00:25 pm »
Last night.
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #38 on: January 27, 2007, 06:27:25 pm »
Well if it means by myself, then it was 2 days ago. With another person, it has been 2 yrs. For me, I think it is by choice because I have raised my standards. No more young bucks unless they got their own crib and money cause I am done raising kids, no one who drinks too damn much and becomes an sloppy drunk, no one who does drugs other than weed, and no one who wants to spend more than one night! Since making those rules, there is no one in my area who qualifies. :(
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Offline Ihavehope

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #39 on: January 27, 2007, 06:38:38 pm »
Hey Queen

I am sure you will find a handsome fella who will treat you good. Do you go out and meet people? What about online personals? 2 yrs is a while but I respect your strength.

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Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #40 on: January 27, 2007, 09:29:32 pm »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #41 on: January 27, 2007, 09:32:24 pm »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #42 on: January 27, 2007, 09:33:35 pm »
currently reaching for a kleenex here.


not really.  but only about a few days.  if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot.  i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen.  didn't get my first one til 18, i think.  have had them bunches ever since.  


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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #43 on: January 27, 2007, 09:34:59 pm »
currently reaching for a kleenex here.


not really.  but only about a few days.  if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot.  i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen.  didn't get my first one til 18, i think.  have had them bunches ever since. 


file under:  more info than you ever needed to know.

I've never had a wet dream.

Masturbating three to four times a day might have something to do with that.
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Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #44 on: January 27, 2007, 09:36:51 pm »
speaking of knockng out a nut...nice new pic

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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #45 on: January 27, 2007, 09:41:03 pm »
speaking of knockng out a nut...nice new pic

i shall call it a salivatar

Whoo hoo!

Thank you, good sir!
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #46 on: January 27, 2007, 11:04:50 pm »
Yeah, I don't have wet dreams either.  Never have. 

And I masturbate religiously, though I've gone a few days between sessions if traveling.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #47 on: January 27, 2007, 11:49:42 pm »
I believe that it was December 12th if I remember correctly. I was visiting my partner in Thailand for the first time. We've been together now for almost 2 years but we had never met face to face before l visited in November this past year. We met online just after I had sero-converted in 2005 and talked about the monogamy thing. I decided the insane sex that I'd had up until then needed to be put back into perspective for me and this relationship even with it's distance has been just the ticket.

I do find I miss the sex but I think I miss the intimacy so much more.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #48 on: January 28, 2007, 01:12:46 am »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.
Damn, it's gonna be one hell of a load when it does happen!  Earlier today, but it was with myself so it doesn't count.  Now I'm waiting for birthday sex, since it's now the 28th.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #49 on: January 28, 2007, 05:57:42 am »
In between the time God created the earth and Mosses parted the water. Or was it right after Adam ate the apple? I just can't remember.

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #50 on: January 28, 2007, 12:17:22 pm »
Damn, it's gonna be one hell of a load when it does happen!  Earlier today, but it was with myself so it doesn't count.  Now I'm waiting for birthday sex, since it's now the 28th.

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I meant that was the longest time ever. I'm not on going without at the moment, thank you xtube.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #51 on: January 28, 2007, 12:23:03 pm »
Someone told me the other day I should join a Sex Addicts 12-step group. I told that person, very nicely of course, to fuck off.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #52 on: January 28, 2007, 12:23:24 pm »
Nine years! >:(  :'(
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #53 on: January 28, 2007, 12:45:19 pm »
12 hours.    :P
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #54 on: January 28, 2007, 12:48:37 pm »
But I get annoyed with my straight friends when they say oral sex doesn't count as sex. Whatever.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #55 on: January 28, 2007, 12:52:38 pm »
But I get annoyed with my straight friends when they say oral sex doesn't count as sex. Whatever.

Yup! WHY do straight people say that?! (I've noticed that too) ... Me thinks straight teens get to say they're virgins if they're going down on each other as opposed to bumping uglies  ??? but what is the deal with straight adults?

12 hours.    :P

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #56 on: January 28, 2007, 02:32:35 pm »
My clock has been reset to... 6 hours ago. 

Huzzah!

He was the first poz dude I've knowingly slept with since my diagnosis... so that was interesting.  Very liberating... serosorting is making more sense to me now.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #57 on: January 30, 2007, 01:46:23 am »
I'm still waiting: BRADY:D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #58 on: January 30, 2007, 07:03:25 pm »
With xtube.com 24 hours ago. With my partner who is finishing his doctorates degree about 100 miles away from me, hmmmmm I recall it was January 16th in DC during the MAL convention and we were at the Hamilton Crown Plaza. He behaves like a slut when we stay at hotels and I totally take advantage and enjoy the whole transformation! ;D
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #59 on: January 30, 2007, 07:25:38 pm »
I'm still waiting: BRADY:D


this is to funny!!!!  He is so hot!
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #60 on: January 30, 2007, 07:28:25 pm »
Friday!

Weeee. So how's the weather everyone? Haha.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #61 on: January 31, 2007, 02:18:48 am »
If you mean with someone else than myself...you won't believe this, but.......................................

24 years ago.  Long story, which I won't attempt to do here, other than to state briefly that I'm now 64 and suffered a nervous breakdown in 1982 when all my friends started dying.  I've never been able to break the sex = death psychosis.  As it turned out, I was already infected anyway, so at least I prevented some transmissions to others and perhaps saved some lives. 

I would consider myself now to be as pure as the driven slush, except that I once made a very general estimate of 3,000 different sexual encounters from 1962 to 1982.   
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #62 on: January 31, 2007, 02:33:13 am »
Saturday.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #63 on: January 31, 2007, 02:39:52 am »
Oh Lord,  I don't want everyone thinking I'm a prude.   

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #64 on: January 31, 2007, 08:22:31 am »
1989

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #65 on: February 12, 2007, 12:50:16 am »
Almost three years
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #66 on: February 12, 2007, 08:32:36 am »
Saturday afternoon.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #67 on: February 14, 2007, 09:15:55 am »
Bump!

A week ago today.  Since I started meds 6 days ago I thought I would try and lay off the sex for a while but I'm already gagging again  :P

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #68 on: February 14, 2007, 12:03:45 pm »
Last Friday.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #69 on: February 14, 2007, 12:12:26 pm »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.

I'm assuming the no-masturbation (and no-sex) thing was self-imposed. I'm curious as to why. Five months without any sexual release sounds like eternity in hell. OK, not quite that bad, but close.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #70 on: February 14, 2007, 12:25:33 pm »
Since May, 2001 -- in November I got ill with chronic hep B and 1) was too sick for the next 2 years to do much but sleep and 2) didn't feel like dealing with disclosing that I had two infectious diseases to a potential partner since HIV had complicated those negotiations too much in the past.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #71 on: February 14, 2007, 05:46:30 pm »
3 months

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #72 on: February 16, 2007, 08:05:30 pm »
tues night , feb the 13th .yummy
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #73 on: February 16, 2007, 08:34:46 pm »
yesterday  ;D

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« Reply #74 on: February 16, 2007, 08:36:03 pm »
16 months

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #75 on: February 16, 2007, 08:36:39 pm »
I'm assuming the no-masturbation (and no-sex) thing was self-imposed. I'm curious as to why. Five months without any sexual release sounds like eternity in hell. OK, not quite that bad, but close.

I was single at the time and had been masturbating on a regular basis, not compulsively or anything. I decided just to experiment and see if I could do without. The first two weeks I felt deprivation but after that it was no big deal. The streak ended when I started dating someone and had sex... and yes, it was quite the release. :D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #76 on: February 16, 2007, 08:48:16 pm »
Feb. 11th, 8:30a.m., after a good nights rest. What an orgasm!
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #77 on: February 17, 2007, 11:02:57 pm »
Jan 7,2007.  My Hermie will be here in 2 weeks!  Thank God.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #78 on: February 18, 2007, 01:12:04 am »
In 5 hours.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #79 on: February 18, 2007, 05:06:02 am »
9 Months ago. That was when i was in a relationship..  I dont miss it.. I would like to meet someone nice for a relationship. I doint miss it...

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #80 on: February 18, 2007, 05:07:53 am »
Itd be interesting to see a poll.. :)    I thought I was the only one who wasnt doin it    ;D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #81 on: February 18, 2007, 08:40:26 am »
Last night I think.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #82 on: February 20, 2007, 04:50:56 pm »
would u do her?

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #83 on: June 20, 2007, 06:01:41 am »
Define sex.

My right hand is very very soft and smooth.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #84 on: June 20, 2007, 06:50:30 am »
Betsy Ross and I had that conversation some years back.  :D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #85 on: June 20, 2007, 05:30:53 pm »
Betsy Ross and I had that conversation some years back.  :D

LOL Rod. You would be the one to drudge this back up, you must've been doing some digging...And to keep with the theme of the thread, I still have not had sex and has since laid Bob off... ;D
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #86 on: June 20, 2007, 06:03:47 pm »
September 06 Labor Day weekend.  I use my left hand sometimes and it feels like I am cheating on myself  ::) .  I am not sure how I feel about sex anymore.  It is almost like I am tired of saying I have HIV and watching people stop talking to me.  I am human being and at least I am honest.  I think what I really want is to be loved and not just some random fuck as that is what got me my HIV.  I guess in time it will happen but I am not exactly looking for it.  My bar has been raised.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #87 on: June 20, 2007, 07:40:37 pm »
3 days ago with someone else, few hours ago alone..

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #88 on: June 20, 2007, 08:41:28 pm »
I'm covered with dog hair you do the math

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #89 on: June 20, 2007, 09:13:54 pm »
I'm covered with dog hair you do the math

Bob

I'm hoping that is slang or something....Cause if not, I don't even want to imagine it....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #90 on: June 20, 2007, 09:35:42 pm »
Queen, you have to blame that on another damn yankie. I would never bring bring up the topic of sex. ;)

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #91 on: June 20, 2007, 10:11:06 pm »
Queen, you have to blame that on another damn yankie. I would never bring bring up the topic of sex. ;)

Ok, you are right, it was 501guy who dragged this from the depths. You never bringing up sex? Yeah, right..If that's true then my name is Slim Shady... ;D
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #92 on: June 20, 2007, 10:17:46 pm »
And just what good will it do anyone to know when was the last time I or anyone had sex?
Just askin......???
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #93 on: June 20, 2007, 10:33:40 pm »
And just what good will it do anyone to know when was the last time I or anyone had sex?
Just askin......???
xxx,
Mike

Actually, it does no one any good. Personally, I was just comparing to see if I was the only one out of circulation for the past few years....Now tell us...... :D
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #94 on: June 22, 2007, 01:58:16 am »
I remember now. Bill Clinton had just won the presidency - the first time.

So, let's see, that was 1993? Oh, that was with someone else, of course.  ;)

Nowadays, when they want to rub my lump, they reach for the back of my neck.  :-\

Oh well, I still have the memories of the thousands who came before, pardon the pun.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #95 on: June 22, 2007, 11:09:12 am »
With myself... last night before I say my prayers... I sleep so soundly... I had a Great date last weekend in Atlanta... awesome but, no sex but all he would have to do is snap his fingers... I'd be there... I miss the intimacy... hopefully after the big Gay Pride weekend is over... on our second date we will get nasty..lol the man I'm seeing is a keeper... so we will play it by ear!

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #96 on: June 22, 2007, 04:00:58 pm »
last night.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #97 on: June 22, 2007, 04:09:21 pm »
How long ago did you have sex?



You mean,.... with a person?... :P  Sorry couldn't resist !


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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #98 on: June 22, 2007, 10:29:16 pm »
For me... It would have been before July 29, 2000.  That was the day I moved away from the second of two abusive relationships (after AIDS diagnosis).  It was like getting out of the hospital one day and getting multiple fractures after being pushed down a flight of stairs the next.  I spent the Summer in the AIDS wing at St. Mary's and a year going to the ER at St. Mary's from physical abuse.  Got that one moved out of my house and another moved in.

On July 29th, I had enough and moved 536 miles away.  I do not like being touched and prefer everyone to stay an arms length away.  There is a Southern rock band called Georgia Satelite, after almost 8 years, I still like the part where the lead sings, "Don't give me no lines and keep your hands to yourself."  Have the best day
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #99 on: June 23, 2007, 07:16:28 am »
nearly this morning but couldnt wake up the bf  so a week ago

 


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