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Author Topic: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe  (Read 4275 times)

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Offline Mjamal

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Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« on: January 09, 2025, 07:30:24 am »
Hi. I came across this website forum. Wonderful forum helping people with anxiety.
7 years ago in Malaysia i might had an exposure with Thai girl in a massage parlor. I really cant remember at all if we had unprotected sex, i try hard but cant. It was the first time with a girl and i was a virgin. I remember the protected sex i had 4 years ago with the details but not this. To my knowledge all we did was massage, cuddling and really short oral sex. Im anxious so i guess my mind is making up things i didnt do and this anxiety suddenly popped up a week ago. Now will i know i had HIV for all thois years with showing any serious symptoms? Will i be seriously ill and in the hospital bed ? Will i have AIDS now? Its being 7 years and three months. I only had one sex as i sure know and lost my virginity but i cant for real remember about the 7 years and if i did happen i will finish so quick because its my first and im obese. Help me understand.

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Re: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« Reply #1 on: January 09, 2025, 07:35:01 am »
So you can't remember if you had sex or not 7 years ago and you had sex using a condom 4 years ago.

Have you been sexually active with anyone else?
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Re: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2025, 07:43:48 am »
I know people that "seemed" fine for 12 years even whilst HIV was causing damage.

Anyhow, symptoms is a pointless discussion, now I somehow doubt you had sex 7 years ago, sounds like a lot of anxiety talking to me but as you can't tell me what happened and you obviously haven't been testing regularly, I recommend you get tested to confirm your HIV & STI status.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or easier-acquired correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV and consider getting vaccinated against HPV, Mpox, Hepatitis A & B.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« Reply #3 on: January 09, 2025, 08:10:42 am »
To be honest i cant remember at all and i really dont think so it happened. As i didn’t experience the penetration pressure, the gripping, the warmth and wetness or the feeling overall ( sorry for the description). I dont have sex at all except for before 4 years protected sex which gave me anxiety. If it happened i would have remembered i lost my virginity unprotected sex but I can’t recall it. I think its anxiety which makes me making up things. You said you know people 12 years while HIV waa causing damages but wouldn’t they know something is wrong and they are constantly ill and doctors have to do several blood tests to determine the cause of repeated illness and not improving.

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Re: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2025, 08:14:39 am »
Since i dont have sex except the 4 years ago, would people remember how many times they had sex except for people who do it many times or with many people. Is 7 years that long for you to forget your first sex. Would i remember without a doubt i had or lost my virginity unprotected sex.

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Re: Unprotected vaginal sex maybe
« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2025, 08:21:52 am »
Asked and answered already.

I recommend you get tested to confirm your HIV & STI status, that is the only way to know your status.
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