Please help me , i'm freaked out about hit

[tai50cent]

helo Ann, Andy and anyone can help me
i'm asian , my english is not good but i will try to explain my case ,
i have small scap on my outer foreskin pennis ,my  foreskin penis got crack/abrasion/scratch/sore/burn... (i don't know which world is correctl) after i Mastubate myself so hard. and then maybe 3 hours , i sex with a girl who i don't know hiv status,
I use durex kingtex ( I'm not sure about the shop where i bought it , maybe condom made in china ). and intercouse hir vargina .
I Go home and watch my penis , the wound on my outer foreskin penis without scab,i can see new red skin, and i'm very scared , i sreaching web to find my case.
they said that the foreskin penis is the best way for hiv infected,and i don't cut my foreskin, because it had suitable cell for hiv on forskin.
I surely remember when i use condom , i pull my foreskin back, condom not cover that wound, and when i finish, the scab dissapear. and only 80% condom protect you
1.  i had used condom. is it safe althought cdc claim not 100%
2. The wound on my outer forskin , it got varginal fuild and i'm not sure about outside or inside varginal , did i got infected.
please help me , i'm very stress , can't sleep , always thinking hiv infected to me .

[Andy Velez]

As long as the head of your penis was covered by the condom during intercourse then you were protected. If that was so then you don't need to worry and there is no need for testing.

[tai50cent]

thank andy , so that my 1st question done ,
but how about the wound on the outer foreskin, in the worst case , when i intercouse her , my wound did not got cover by condom and contract varginal fuild inside her , does it make me risk, foreskin has special cell for hiv and my foreskin got damage.
Please answer digital for this case , i'm so sorry, i try to rest but this thing make me always scared ,stress .

[Andy Velez]

It is the underside of the foreskin which has cells receptive to transmission, not the outside or the shaft of the penis. And I believe what you are describing in an injury on the shaft itself.

...which would not be a risk for transmission.

[tai50cent]

yes , my wound is on the outside of the foreskin penis , i worried about that , the outside and the underside only have a small distance between both of them , if the wound outside foreskin and it get inside varginal and got varginal fuild , does it same like underside foreksin ?

do i had infected ?

I'm sorry for borther you andy , but i can't stop my mind , and this is my last question , pls help me

[kyle1991]

dear experts, i very panic and worried about something i just know and iam very sorry about my english but pls help
I have sex with sex worker, i used condom and my penis is uncircumcised and my inner foreskin is long, but my penis not erect good so it hard to put condom on it , i pull the inner foreskin back but not all of them is covered by the condom, only the head/glans is covered by condom , i press my penis in her and i feel it warm than normal , i move in and out ,when i move out i felt condom rode up , during that i check condom to make sure it still on and pull the rim/ring of condom down two or three times because my penis still not hard enough, but i pretty sure my inner foreskin is not covered all when i in her maybe in 10 seconds.
do i have any risk ? i read that my inner foreskin is the way hiv infect , i ask my local medical expert , he say i have condom so i safe , but i didn't use condom correct (it must covered to my base penis ). OMG iam very tired . pls help me  thank you

[Jim Allen]

You had already been warned about this and, now its resulted in a permanent ban

Move on with your life! You used a condom, it did not break and covered the head of your penis.

Stop freaking out every-time you have sex and, if you can't see a therapist to learn how to cope with your fears & thoughts.  remember to simply test out of standard routine at least yearly.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for acquiring far easier to transmit STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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