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Hello Sir, I want to share my concerns about HIV and is there a possibility that I might be infected with it.  I went to a brothel and chose a girl I didn't have penetrative sex all that happened I asked her to put a condom on me and she put it on me and she started sucking my dick until I ejaculated I have a phobia of HIV infection Am I vulnerable to infection I have a faithful wife and children Does having sex with her before the test expose her to AIDS  Note that this is my exposure to oral sex while I am wearing a condom and I do not expect that it was torn when I removed it. I did not notice anything. Please guide me and thank you.

Jim Allen:

With or without a condom receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV; thus, it makes sense that after 40+ years of this pandemic in terms of BJs, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"), and you will not be the worlds first.

In short, you had no HIV risk from receiving a blowjob.

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I'll mention the same thing whenever anyone mentions being in a relationship;

If you engage in condomless sex with your partner, you are obviously at risk of acquiring HIV. In relationships, condomless sex is often based on trust or past test results; however, this does not prevent HIV, so if condomless sex does occur, you should consider testing more frequently.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards


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Excuse me, sir, can I go ahead and not think of doing a test for this event, that is, not being the least lucky of all people and getting HIV from oral sex?

Jim Allen:
Luck has nothing to do with it.

You did not acquire HIV from receiving a blowjob, so no HIV exposure and no HIV testing is needed over receiving a blowjob, end of story.

The only thing you mentioned here that could be any potential HIV risk to you is sex with your wife.  So move on with your life, reduce your HIV risk by using condoms for any intercourse, and as you are sexually active, get an STI screening yearly out of standard routine.

I thank you from my heart and wish you success


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