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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: meaning_hope on September 22, 2013, 10:21:49 am
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I believe it is a repeated question but i request a reply for my peace of mind and to move on.
exactly around ten days before i was with a girl who had many unprotected relationship with guys. after a few drinks we kissed each other and i sucked her breast and did nasty deep fingering. she had lots of vagainal secretion, my fingers fully covered with her vagainal fluid. finally she mastrubated mine. thats all. my questions are,
a. is sucking breast by any mean a risk?
b. is deep fingering with fingers covered wih vagainal fluids,is it any risk?--- i really dont remember i had any scratches in fingers but i had little skin pealing.
c. can i continue sex with my wife?
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a. is sucking breast by any mean a risk?
Not a risk . Breast milk can only be infectious for infants with developing in mature immune systems and poses no threat to adults .
b. is deep fingering with fingers covered wih vagainal fluids,is it any risk?--- i really dont remember i had any scratches in fingers but i had little skin pealing.
Not a risk . No has ever been infected from fingering , ever .
c. can i continue sex with my wife?
Yes provided you do not have other STD's , you didn't have a risk for HIV .
The risk factors for HIV are ...
Sharing IV drug needles immediately after use.
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex.
Mother to child during or shortly after birth
Very specific healthcare situations.
ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.
If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.
Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
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thanks for reply.
last year i had full std check up and after that this was my only sex act other than my wife. do you see any reason to catch any std from this act?
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We deal in risk assessment for HIV but I will say that fingering could be a risk for syphilis , herpes and HPV . You didn't have a risk for HIV so you can put that fear away .