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HIV Prevention and Testing => Do I Have HIV? => Topic started by: benhnang1991 on April 27, 2011, 02:35:14 am
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Sr about my english 'cause i'm vietnamese.
now i'm very stress , anxiety about hiv . I have 5 time have oral sex without condom (OMG ) with the female staff in beuty salon ( vietnam have this shop ). and in the 5rd of oral sex , my cat make a Scratches/ wound on my finger , 1 cm length and 0.5 width , and exactly 2 hour later i let this finger in her baby (sr i don't know how to type it in academy word ) . Vietnamese website hiv forum said my case can catch hiv from oral sex and finger wound .but some one say there are no risk for both oral , finger . pls answer me what is true.
1. 5 time oral sex . each time 15-20 minute ( i'm hard to get top by mouth ). the staff say she don't do oral sex if she had some things in her mouth
2. my scratches finger have 2 hours to recover before in vagina . so does it make case for hiv ?
3. sr for my curious . How many people in site have hiv for oral and fingering.
Thank for your time reading my topic.
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Sr about my english 'cause i'm vietnamese.
now i'm very stress , anxiety about hiv . I have 5 time have oral sex without condom (OMG ) with the female staff in beuty salon ( vietnam have this shop ). and in the 5rd of oral sex , my cat make a Scratches/ wound on my finger , 1 cm length and 0.5 width , and exactly 2 hour later i let this finger in her baby (sr i don't know how to type it in academy word ) . Vietnamese website hiv forum said my case can catch hiv from oral sex and finger wound .but some one say there are no risk for both oral , finger . pls answer me what is true.
1. 5 time oral sex . each time 15-20 minute ( i'm hard to get top by mouth ). the staff say she don't do oral sex if she had some things in her mouth
2. my scratches finger have 2 hours to recover before in vagina . so does it make case for hiv ?
3. sr for my curious . How many people in site have hiv for oral and fingering.
Thank for your time reading my topic.
Ben,
Receiving oral sex and fingering are not risks for HIV. You do not need to be tested for HIV.
It doesn't matter that your finger was scratched, you were not at risk.
HIV is transmitted through unprotected anal and vaginal sex. It can also be spread by sharing needles and syringes that have been used by HIV positive people.
MtD
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thank for your quick reply Matty the Damned . but i wish to have ideas from someone have experience , training hiv , have responsibility about what they said like expert. i know this is forum free for all but i'm very scared , conflicted the informations oral sex risk. medbay, cdc, thebody said that a risk for oral sex is 1/20000 and few documented case for oral sex. ,and also risk for wound on finger touch in vagina. i really to peace of mind . i have bought drug for make me can sleep and i extend to buy something make me sleep forever if i get hiv like that. omg i don't have make love anybody. i just have oral sex and fingering. i don't want my life get hiv .pls help me.
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Ben
You have just been advise from one of the experts...take Mattty's word for it you do not need to test for HIV you were not at risk.
No matter how many times you come in and ask, the answer will be the same, please read the lessons on here on how HIV is and is not transmitted.
Jan
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thank for your help anniebc. i had read that hiv can not tranmission from savila but my worried is about another semen's guy . that shop chet only one female staff oral sex. and many guy like me came to oral sex by her. i meant that many time someguy had ejaculate in her mouth before she do oral sex for me . so can hiv semen's another guy infected me from her mouth . :((
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Doubts and fears are not facts. And the facts of your situation have been correctly considered in terms of HIV science. No risk. Period.
You would also be well advised to stop surfing the net for more "information." I can guarantee that is going to result in your finding fuel to feed your worst fears and all to no good purpose of course. You did not have a risk for HIV. Stop the unnecessary drama now and get on with your life.
Just make sure you always use condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse and you will be well protected against the sexual transmission of HIV. It's just as simple as that.
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I'm very appreciate for your time to answer me . You make me feel very comfortable now. I'll try to have a normal life again and get test at 6 week to make my mind in peace. Thank all for everyone reading and answering my question.
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You're welcome. i certainly expect a negative test result for you.
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at 29/4/2011 . i went to test hiv combo at hospital and the result is negative ( 4 weeks at the first oral sex and 9 for fingering with open wound ). that was a wonderful time when i saw negative on the result . but now i'm fear that will change in few weeks. I know that sound boring to someone but in my country HIV means you'll be discriminated when you live and you die alone. everyone scared you infected they thought air, touch, eat , sleep , your stuff.
I just want to confirm
1. insertive oral sex mean you let someone blowjob and haven't documented case but have case for people perform oral sex right ? ( I let her bj )
2 Fingering with fresh wound, open cut , v.v.v or normal can't not catch hiv 100% ( I fingering for her )
Thank for advice
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Ben,
As you have been repeatedly told, you have NOT had a risk for hiv infection. Fingering is not a risk. Getting a blowjob is not a risk. Not one person has been infected through fingering or being blown and you are not going to be the first.
If you test again, you will get the same negative result.
YOU DO NOT HAVE HIV.
If you read the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.
And by the way, if you attempt to create a new account again like you did just a short time before your last post, you will be permanently banned. I rejected your new account and will reject any other new accounts you attempt to create - and I will ban you as well.
Please consider yourself warned!
Ann
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my friend was very worried because he had sex with sexworker (he uses condom ) and he saw this on thebody :
Condoms don't work:
Studies show condoms are 80% to 97% effective in preventing HIV transmission if they are used correctly every time you have sex. (http://www.thebody.com/content/art6019.html)
so it mean you can get hiv if you use condom correctly. he also fill his condom by water and don't have any hole on condom.
PS :I sorry Ann because yesterday my friend try to create account to ask this topic but don't have email in his yahoo. that why he create muti acc.
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I also see it on "http://www.hivaidscare.com/hivaidsarticle7.php?acode=na"
Vaginal or anal sex using a condom is not a low-risk or no-risk activity. It carries a medium risk at best.
Do i can trust this information ?. why use condom correctly also have risk for hiv infection . Have any documented case for this ?
PLS advice me . thank you
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Ben,
I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.
If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.
Please also read through the Welcome Thread (http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0) so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.
That article is WRONG. Condoms do prevent hiv infection when used correctly and consistently. Read the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them with confidence. A correctly used condom rarely, if ever, breaks.
There have been long-term studies of couples where one is positive and one is negative. In the couples who used condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, but no barrier for oral activities, not one of the negative partners became infected with hiv. Not one.
Ann
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Thank so much. My friend and i very appriciate your help . We will never do this stupid things again and try to help our friend around us avoid Hiv infectec. I wish you alway healthty , good mood, full energy to help people like us. thank you again.
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Ben,
You're welcome.
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!
Ann
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Sr to disturbing you , Ann. I have question about the test HIV AG/AB combo .
1 AG means antigen and it just appear for around 1 mounth ?
2 if 1 right , AB (anti body ) will appear later so what happend if I test at the 12/13 week . Does the test work ?
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Ben,
Why are you worrying about tests when you did not have a risk for hiv infection?
I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.
Ann