Worried - Risk Assessment

[shangster4567]

Hi All, thank you for providing this forum, has been a great help.

My situation is as follows, visited a massage parlor in Singapore, there was no penetration of any kind, just had oral for a short while and handjob and anal fingering (just rubbing, no penetration). The anal fingering/rubbing was done with fingers and a hot stone and there was plenty of lube involved for all acts.

I know all these are no risk activities from reading the forum, but here are some specifics that made me want to clarify (Apologies for the TMI):

1. I had some minor bruising scratches from wiping with a rough toilet paper maybe 1-2 hours prior to the incident.
2. Washed before and after the massage/activities

My questions are with the risks associated with the following:

1. Could a cut/bleed on her finger and contact with the broken skin in and near my anus lead to a HIV risk?
2. Can the hot stone with any residual fluid (blood/semen) from previous use be of any HIV risk?

Again thanks for all you do.!

[Jim Allen]

Read your post three times, it's not an HIV risk, move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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[shangster4567]

Okay, thank you so much for the quick response.!!!

[Jim Allen]

You're welcome.

[shangster4567]

Thank you so much for your time, final clarification for peace of mind, as I am going through a lot of anxiety, my sincerest apologies for taking away your time if this is silly.

1. What is the risk if both my anus membrane was bleeding (open wound) from the toilet paper and bidet and her hand was bleeding (has open wound) as well?

Again, I know the answer from other threads on the forum, but wanted to know if there were any different risks for the situation mentioned above.

Thank you so much for maintaining this forum and the no nonsense straight answers here.

Really appreciate you guys.!!!

[Jim Allen]

It's not an HIV risk to you. Zero!

You're welcome