Author Topic: my mother passed away tonight (Read 11490 times)

lucas clay · « **on:** June 21, 2007, 09:48:44 pm »

Tonight my mother passed away.

She looked pretty good when the wife and i arrived at the hospital to see her. She went very peacefully,did not seem to be in any pain. i had prayed yesterday in the E.R. and today if the lord took her to let her go peacefully,and she did.

She is with all her loved ones that went before her.

So hard to keep in perspective, that now is not the time to morn our loss, but to celebrate her life.
She still lives in the hearts of everyone she touched, and when the last person who remembers her is gone.
Then we will all be together again.

Lucas

Matty the Damned · « **Reply #1 on:** June 21, 2007, 09:54:06 pm »

Lucas,

Matty the Damned offers his condolences to you and your family.

MtD

milker · « **Reply #2 on:** June 21, 2007, 09:54:18 pm »

I am sorry about your loss. It is good to know that she went peacefully. My deepest condolences for you and your family.

Milker.

RAB · « **Reply #3 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:00:37 pm »

Lucas

I'm sorry for your loss. Condolences to both you and your family during this difficult time.

RAB

mjmel · « **Reply #4 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:04:39 pm »

Oh, Lucas and Nadine. So sorry for your heavy hearts this day. Condolences to you and yours.
xxx,
Mike

JeffInNYC · « **Reply #5 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:06:10 pm »

Quote from: lucas clay on June 21, 2007, 09:48:44 pm

She still lives in the hearts of everyone she touched, and when the last person who remembers her is gone.
Then we will all be together again.

Lucas

Dear Lucas,

Those last 2 lines were so beautifully written...I am sure your mom was a very special lady.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Take care,
Jeff

pozattitude · « **Reply #6 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:06:33 pm »

Condolences to both you and your family.

Longislander · « **Reply #7 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:15:57 pm »

My deepest sympathies for your loss. Take the time you need to mourn, you'll be celebrating her life from here on out.

Paul

Basquo · « **Reply #8 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:18:31 pm »

Celebration is right! I lost someone special a year ago Sunday, and it sure was hard, and teary, and downright excrutiating. But now, everyday when I think about her, it's a celebration.

My condolences,

Creighton

dtwpuck · « **Reply #9 on:** June 21, 2007, 10:20:56 pm »

Lucas... there is nothing to say that isn't trite except.... you have my deepest condolences. I am sure that your mother felt she was very lucky to have you as a son. Be glad for her life and the happy times you spent together. This is, and will continue to be a difficult time. Until time begins to dull the sharpness of your loss, know that there are many out there who understand your sorrow. Be sure that when you are feeling it the most that you seek comfort and solace in those who shared your love for your mother.

AlanBama · « **Reply #10 on:** June 21, 2007, 11:03:41 pm »

my deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your Mother.

Alan

Buckmark · « **Reply #11 on:** June 21, 2007, 11:05:31 pm »

Lucas,

I can only imagine how difficult and sad this is for you and your family.
Connecting with the part of you that knows how much you loved your
mother, and how much she loved you, is something you can take comfort in.
Remembering, sharing and celebrating that with those close
to you should make this sad time easier, and help pull you through.

Hugs,

Henry

RapidRod · « **Reply #12 on:** June 21, 2007, 11:12:57 pm »

Brian and Nadine you have my deepest sympathy.

Rodney

Life · « **Reply #13 on:** June 21, 2007, 11:18:59 pm »

There is just nothing harder... I am so sorry...

Hugs,

Eric

Queen Tokelove · « **Reply #14 on:** June 21, 2007, 11:49:26 pm »

You have my condolences...

sweetasmeli · « **Reply #15 on:** June 22, 2007, 12:50:46 am »

Lucas and Nadine, my condolences to you and your loved ones.

Melia xx

aztecan · « **Reply #16 on:** June 22, 2007, 01:37:22 am »

Lucas and Nadine,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Mark

xyahka · « **Reply #17 on:** June 22, 2007, 03:28:13 am »

Lucas i am really sorry, my condolences for you and Nadine.

Juan Carlos

DanielMark · « **Reply #18 on:** June 22, 2007, 04:53:00 am »

My condolences, Lucas.

Daniel

frenchpat · « **Reply #19 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:02:00 am »

You're in my thoughts,

Pat

Razorbill · « **Reply #20 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:47:38 am »

sorry for your loss and your family's, my friend.

Nadine · « **Reply #21 on:** June 22, 2007, 06:40:28 am »

Thanks everyone for your kind words....and Thank You Rodney for the phone call last night, it meant alot to Brian.

I've never seen anyone die right before my eyes, I just hope that when it's my time, I go as peacefully as she did.

When we walked in the room, she had her head up looking out the window, eyes wide open, she didn't acknowlegde us at all though. Then she was gone within a half hour. Poor thing has suffered the past 2 years, I'm glad her suffering is over.

Thanks again...Love you all!

Teresa · « **Reply #22 on:** June 22, 2007, 07:29:55 am »

Brian and Nadine,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.

Big Hugs
Teresa

cmhjeff · « **Reply #23 on:** June 22, 2007, 08:01:45 am »

Brian and Nadine
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had quickly skimmed the forums before shutting down the computer last night so I was aware of this before going to bed so the last thing I did before putting my head to the pillow was to say a prayer for you and your family. Jeffrey was asleep so I didn't tell him until this morning. He sends his thoughts and love to you both this morning. I haven't lost a parent but Jeffrey understands because he went through this in November with his dad.

Brian, Nadine and I have talked about your mom and she's told me how you were always there for your mom. I know she will be missed but I hope you can find some comfort in the fact that the suffering is over and she's at peace in heaven. It's never a good time but I'm happy you were home and none of his happened while you were in Ohio visiting.

Hugs and Love

Jeff and Jeffrey

Peter6836 · « **Reply #24 on:** June 22, 2007, 08:26:01 am »

Lucas,
Sorry for your loss, you will be in my prayers. It is good it was a peaceful transition.
Peter

cjc · « **Reply #25 on:** June 22, 2007, 08:58:05 am »

My condolences on your mother's passing. Best wishes for you and your family. Cristy

bear60 · « **Reply #26 on:** June 22, 2007, 09:05:59 am »

My condolences on the loss of your mother. You are correct to "celebrate her life".

GSOgymrat · « **Reply #27 on:** June 22, 2007, 09:24:46 am »

Very sorry to hear of your mother's passing.

purpledragonfly · « **Reply #28 on:** June 22, 2007, 11:06:09 am »

Brian and Nadine,

Sorry to hear your mom passed. I will say a special prayer for you and your family. I know how hard it is right now and how you need to celebrate her life. My dad past away just 25 days ago. I wasn't close to my dad, it was his doing not mine. but I still morned him. He knew i loved him and that i forgave him. But it still is hard knowing he is gone. Keep your memories and think about her life and the happy times. She is in no pain now and watching down over you two.

Love Wendy

J.R.E. · « **Reply #29 on:** June 22, 2007, 04:47:10 pm »

Brian and Nadine,

I am sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family.

Ray

anniebc · « **Reply #30 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:24:16 pm »

Dear Brian and Nadine

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss..my thoughts and prayres are with you and your family.

Love and hugs
Jan

Lisa · « **Reply #31 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:31:13 pm »

My condolences on your loss. I wish you peace, and comfort.

JPinLA · « **Reply #32 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:36:59 pm »

So sorry for your loss. I send my condolences to you and your family.

JP

Javicho · « **Reply #33 on:** June 22, 2007, 05:54:17 pm »

I'm sorry for your loss, my prayers to you and your family

Javier

Andy Velez · « **Reply #34 on:** June 22, 2007, 09:50:55 pm »

Lucas, I send my condolences. Wishing you and your family comfort during this sad time.

Cheers,

Robert · « **Reply #35 on:** June 22, 2007, 10:47:44 pm »

Lucas...

My deepest sympathies.

robert

queenie · « **Reply #36 on:** June 23, 2007, 05:58:10 am »

no disrespect meant, but tonight my mother died looked like a poem

did your mother die?

Nadine · « **Reply #37 on:** June 23, 2007, 06:42:33 am »

I really don't understand your question Queenie, did you actually read the thread

Dragonette · « **Reply #38 on:** June 23, 2007, 06:45:54 am »

My deepest condolences.

Hugs & strength

mrtallguy · « **Reply #39 on:** June 23, 2007, 09:45:24 am »

Nadine & Brian...
It sounds like a beautiful LIGHT eminated from your mother....perhaps it was a fierce light or perhaps a soft peaceful light.... So know that while her physical presence has made its transition, that LIGHT will shine ever so bright in your minds and hearts.....

I wish for you the LIGHT of PEACE, now and forever more!

Hugs!

Craig

lucas clay · « **Reply #40 on:** June 23, 2007, 04:53:20 pm »

Thank you for the kind words and prayers.
i had a hard time today setting up the funeral, the wife and my sister were there also.
Ive yet to breakdown over this, a few tears. i think ill be OK until this is over.
thank you again my friends

Lucas

Carolann · « **Reply #41 on:** June 24, 2007, 09:56:53 am »

May she always be in your hearts to remind you of the good times. My deepest sympathy,

CA

Jody · « **Reply #42 on:** June 24, 2007, 08:09:08 pm »

Dear Lucas and Nadine...I'm very sorry for the loss of your dear mother.

Jody

cmhjeff · « **Reply #43 on:** June 25, 2007, 10:47:41 am »

Quote from: lucas clay on June 23, 2007, 04:53:20 pm

i had a hard time today setting up the funeral, the wife and my sister were there also.
Ive yet to breakdown over this, a few tears. i think ill be OK until this is over.

There is no right way or wrong way to mourn. No one says you have to breakdown. We all mourn differently it's just important that you allow yourself to mourn when that time comes.

Our thoughts are still with you
Jeff and Jeffrey

Florida69 · « **Reply #44 on:** June 25, 2007, 11:29:54 am »

I am sorry for your loss, I lost my mother (who was 50) 4 years ago october. I am glad taht that she went peacefully.. D

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