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TS Escort
« on: January 17, 2017, 12:21:22 pm »
Hi I recently had went over a transgender woman's house and she performed oral on me with a condom on and the only thing unprotected we did was French kiss. She is also an escort and told me that she gets tested every 3 months which I don't quite believe. Is there a chance I got an STD or HIV with her just kissing me and performing oral sex on me with a condom on? She also gave me wipes and I wiped off everything once she removed the condom.

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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #1 on: January 17, 2017, 12:42:42 pm »
Absolutely nothing you mentioned was risk for HIV, getting a blow job and kissing are not risks. Other STIs however are much easier to transmit, so test for all on a regular basis if you are sexually active.

Wade

To avoid infection,
You need to be using condoms for all anal and vaginal intercourse until you are in a trusting monogamous relationship and both have been tested for all STIs and HIV.
Everyone who is sexually active should have an annual exam and test for all STIs and HIV ,and always after unprotected intercourse. Always using condoms will give you peace of mind your tests will return with a negative result.
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Offline Blackberry13

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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #2 on: January 17, 2017, 01:15:24 pm »
So even though she is an escort I should be fine?

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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #3 on: January 17, 2017, 01:30:33 pm »
We always assume your partner is living with HIV when doing assessments, and why is it so hard for you to believe that she would take precautions to protect herself ?
« Last Edit: January 17, 2017, 01:36:09 pm by Wade »
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Offline Blackberry13

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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #4 on: January 17, 2017, 10:44:41 pm »
Very true because she wouldn't be able to keep working if she had HIV and I could definitely sue her for everything she has.

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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2017, 10:55:52 pm »
 :o

Dude your attitude is simply disgusting, don't post here again, move on with your life.

HIV can affect anyone regardless of Class, Wealth, Social standing, Sexual orientation, Race, Ethnicity, Gender or Age. HIV is simply a virus and doesn't care about such matters.   

Also her status does not matter, it simply was not a risk to you, and if it had been a risk (it was not) it would have been your damn fault for not protecting yourself correctly.

Jim
« Last Edit: January 17, 2017, 11:01:17 pm by JimDublin »
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Re: TS Escort
« Reply #6 on: January 20, 2017, 05:43:01 pm »
Move on i mean it. Stop sending mod reports, it will also lead to a ban.

You simply had no risk as the actions could not cause the transmission of HIV.
You missed the point that your attitude towards the girl was terrible and judgemental without basis.

Do not post about this again it was no risk, and do not post at all unless its a well meant apology.

Oh at not at apology towards me.

Jim
« Last Edit: January 20, 2017, 05:47:57 pm by JimDublin »
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Offline Blackberry13

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Sex with Transexual woman, should I be worried?
« Reply #7 on: December 20, 2017, 04:47:08 pm »
Hi, on December 7th I had oral and anal sex with a transexual woman. I used a condom for both oral and anal. She claims that she has no diseases or anything, but since then I have gotten so nervous I took 2 blood tests on December 8th as well as December 20th. Both came up negative, but I am going back around January 10th to see again if I have HIV. Even though the person I engaged in the activity with knows we played it safe, when I ask her she gets very angry and says she goes every 3 months to her doctor to get hormones checked up as well as a HIV test. I recently have had a sore throat which may have came from the football game I was screaming at Monday, a few pimples below my pecs but the doctor told me that it could be a heat rash and is not related.

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Re: Sex with Transexual woman, should I be worried?
« Reply #8 on: December 20, 2017, 04:54:22 pm »
Banned 60 days

30 days for posting about no-risk situations, you had been warned and we explained the way HIV is not transmitted to you before, also 30 days ban for posting outside of your own thread, a repeat will be a permanent ban.

Perhaps she is upset with you as the questions you are asking her are irrelevant and none of your business. Leave the women alone would be my advice and get on with your life.

I say this from a point of kindness I encourage you to seek the face-to-face support as in a therapist to help you with your irrational fears and life problems,  we cannot provide you this support on the forum.

Some of the key posting guidelines  https://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=220.0

Jim
« Last Edit: December 21, 2017, 02:03:44 pm by JimDublin »
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