Our sex life is terrible at the moment, due to the issue of us having to use condoms when we have sex with each other (see above re anti-biotics from using condoms a week ago) We asked our doc and he said that although he advises we should use them due to the re-infection issue that as long as steve doesnt ejaculate in me then we can if we dont want use them. This is the confusing bit so anyone with advice then throw it my way.
I have read that for a HIV+ female to pass it to a male is pretty rare (although can happen) So a pretty small chance of me re-infecting steve, if he doesnt ejaculate in me that chance of him re-infecting me is reduced too. Is this right?
Also does anyone knows the oral stats me to him and vice versa, im guessing for male giving oral to female the chance of me passing something is pretty slim, but what about me giving him oral.
sorry to get so graphic but we did have a rather healthy sex life and now its at NIL.
im hoping for no tears today
Angelxxx
thanks again
Is his mom still living?His Mom passed away in 2001 from cancer too.
Hell, if they want to do that, they can do it properly and wine and dine me first. ;D
LOL
its not bad but your funny
My GYN people have almost always been ladies so thats been interesting. LOL
No I am taking tomorrow off but its a 3 1/2 to 4 hour drive to Houston so unless there is an emergency I'm not going. The only update I had was that medicare's two days of in home care is over and his brothers and sisters had to look for a nurse to hire. I think its somewhere around 25 bucks an hour for 12 hours a day. With someone in the family taking care of him in the evening. Ouch huh?
Winn, I'm glad Billie made it safetly. Will you be able to take any time off of work to join him? I know it's hard at home without him, but he'll be home soon. Do you have an update about his dad? How is Aaron doing with his new job(s).
My goodness, Winn, he looks just like you!
OMG Queen checkin' out the plumber at her new crib! ;D
Hee hee
Here we have a thing called "free cycle". It's an internet listing of stuff that people are looking to give away. There's also a place to post for things you are looking for. Maybe they have something like that in your area. It's totally free, so it may be worth looking in to. I have 2 full-sized machines. One is a Brother and I've had it for 15 or 16yrs. I only paid maybe $50 from Walmart and I've never had a problem with it. I've also found tons of free sewing patterns online. Good luck!!
Queen: thanks for the compliments. LOL..ghetto rats. We work really hard to raise kids with manners and I'm really a strict mum when it comes to behavior. My kids get pretty stiff penalties for just calling each other names. Mim was spoiled rotten at AMG. I'm still trying to detox her ;) Hey, are you living by yourself in the new house, or do you have roommates? How many bedrooms / bathrooms? Do you have to mow the yard and is it fenced? What about an alarm system? Sorry for all the questions - I'm nosey.
Queen, I'm glad you are able to manage on your own. Do you sit out on your porch in the evenings and chat it up with neighbors? Some days I wonder what it would be like to be alone. But, I never was a person who did well alone - hence many pathetic, toxic, relationships. There are days, though...lol.
Queen, do you have to pay all the utilities at your new place? I'm sure it's worth it. It's so nice to live alone and do what you want without having to worry about other people. At least that's the way I feel.
Well, I now have my best friend's Toyota Corolla in my parking spot. She's letting my borrow it indefinitely so I can save on gas. I still have my car; it's parked in front of where I live (the parking space the Corolla is in is in back, outside my door). Tomorrow I'm calling my insurance place to put comprehensive coverage on my car and get off the regular insurance. When I talked to them before about it, the lady told me that if I got the comprehensive by the 1st of the month (Sept.), I would have enough money left over from the regular insurance to cover the comprehensive for a couple months. I'm going to pay for the insurance on the Toyota; I'm giving it to my friend every month. She put a new battery in it and today we took it and got the oil changed and the tires balanced (she paid for it). She even filled it up with gas for me (she's such a sweetie). I'm sure it will last me for awhile. I'll probably have this car until I get another one, which will be either in November, or next spring. This is going to save me so much money in gas and I'll actually be able to go a few more places without worrying about running out of gas. I'm so thankful.
My only problem now is being bored and lonely.