Divorced and scared

[milano8]

Hi ladies,
I am 38 and was married for 9 years. My ex husband is HIV neg. I was diagnosed a few months before we got married. He had been supportive, which I was grateful for. But things just did not work out between us so we split. Even before the divorce was filed, my husband met a woman on POF, moved her into our home, and proposed to her. All that within 2 months!! It's been 6 months and I am yet to meet anyone decent or go on a date. I have been on POZ personals, no success. I am afraid I'll never find neg person who will accept my condition. I can't limit my options to pos men because there's nothing in that pool. The speed at which my ex husband move on makes me angry and depressed. Any advice? Thank you

[DeeDee2019]

Forget what he's doing just focus on you! If you love yourself others will love you.

From experience living with my fiancé for 11 years (poz) splitting up I got with the love of my life(negative) two babies lovely home and my ex is now with someone who is negative and very happy.

It happens you just have to love yourself and know that your status does not define who you are! Good luck in your wonder life and live your best life x