Do I Have HIV? / Re: Possible HIV risk?
« Last post by Jim Allen on Today at 05:36:31 pm »I came to this forum for genuine advice
And that's what you got. You're welcome.
And yes I guess this is because I am quite inexperienced by comparison.
I'm mainly worried as in her own words she has slept with quite a few people over the last few months, and I have no idea how safe she usually acts.
End of the day, compared to some people you must also seem like some porn star deviant ...Try to understand that and you didn't complain beforehand.
I naively assumed that exposure to more partners would increase your risk of exposure of HIV, as this is what I was taught in school
Well, that makes me even more glad to have reeducated you.
So she could have slept with 1 guy or 1000 guys before you, and not be living with HIV or acquired it on her first experience, as it only takes once. It's HIV, not Windows 95 that required 13 floppy disks to be inserted. Anyhow you could be number 1001 but it doesn't change your HIV risk when sleeping with her, your actions and choices do.
I do wish you well and try to relax and move on with your life.