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Title: Insertive Oral Blowjob + Aggressive Body to Body Massage
Post by: ipodyari on January 14, 2023, 07:33:55 am
Hi there thank you very much for this forum appreciate it.

- I met this lady for massage at her place where she gave body to body massages + blowjob.

- She put oil over my body and rubbed her body against mine aggressively as part of her massage routine.

- Towards the end she gave me a deep throat blowjob and I could feel it going down her throat. It was painful but as far as I checked, there was no blood maybe a bit sore. I ejaculated in her mouth.

- I checked her mouth after the massage + bj and there were no signs of cuts/sores/ulcers.
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- Few days later I felt a pimple-like bump on my pubic area, saw there's like an ingrown hair. Apart from that I have pain in my left forearm that could potentially be due to gymming. Also I feel like I have a bit of sore throat, like cobblestone throat.

- She's a regular massage therapist and comes from Indonesia to Singapore to do her massages.
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Q:
- Am I at risk of getting HIV? What are my chances

- Do I need to go for testing in this situation? I've not done anything else apart from getting a bj + massage
Title: Re: Insertive Oral Blowjob + Aggressive Body to Body Massage
Post by: Jim Allen on January 14, 2023, 07:42:38 am
Hiya,

Receiving a blowjob lacks the conditions required for acquiring HIV; thus, it makes sense that after 40+ years of this pandemic in terms of BJs, there hasn't been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked"), and you will not be the worlds first.

The same can be said about the massage; it's not an HIV risk to you.

Relax and move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to reduce your HIV risks:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse correctly and consistently, with no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other easier-acquired STIs. So please do get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms; testing is the only way to know.

Kind regards

Jim

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Title: Re: Insertive Oral Blowjob + Aggressive Body to Body Massage
Post by: ipodyari on January 21, 2023, 11:04:39 am
Hi Jim, forgot to add that she was stimulating my ass with her fingers. It was oiled up. Just on the hole around the ass, no penetration. Is that any risk?

Not sure if she has any blood on her fingers though
Title: Re: Insertive Oral Blowjob + Aggressive Body to Body Massage
Post by: Jim Allen on January 21, 2023, 12:32:50 pm
Not an HIV risk.