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[khamsinmerak]

Recently i visited Dubai on vacation.While visiting a night club i was struck by an awesome Turkish girl and picked her up.I told her i didnt want sex and just a striptease and she agreed.Once in her room she stripped and had shower and i felt her with my hand including her vagina and anus.Shock one..i had a two day old quarter of a millimeter cut which had somewhat healed and no blood but slightly painful when pressed on my finger.After this she started her dance while i was watching sitting in the bed in my boxers.She came close to me was doing a slow harlem shake with her hands spreading her butt cheeks wide and exposing the anus.Out of the blue she smothered my face with her huge behind,saying repeatedly"y no sex".My tongue was caught exactly between her butt hole and my front teeth,it was almost like a forced rim job that lasted 3 seconds.Shock two..i had small healing ulcer inside my mouth(the right inner cheek wall ).Iam married and i love my family more than anything else in this world.Can i approach my wife before testing? how big is my risk

[Jeff G]

Nothing during your encounter was even a remote risk for HIV . Sexually , HIV is transmitted when you engage in unprotected vaginal or anal sex , period .

HIV is fragile and easily damaged and rendered unable ti infect outside of the human body and that's why the only risk comes from unprotected penetrative vaginal or anal intercourse and not from scrapes on cuts on the skin . You can put this out of you worries because no one in the history of HIV has ever been infected in the manner you are concerned with , never .

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME for this incident anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care checkup, including but not limited to HIV testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine checkups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine HIV tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than HIV. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid HIV infection. It really is that simple!   

[khamsinmerak]

Thanks a lot for the quick response Jeff,only god knows how relieved iam after reading it.

[khamsinmerak]

I have a girlfriend with whom i have protected vaginal sex.My request for anal always got turned down.Last week she called me over and introduced me to a friend of her and informed me that my wish was about to get fulfilled.We had a fine 3 some session with unprotected oral and protected anal with the new girl.Later on the new girl revealed that she likes to have  some money along with fun and she entertained others from time to time.This got me worried and i am a bit anxious.I had condom on when i entered her and it was intact when i got finished.A word from you guys would be a great relief since we had active and passive oral sex as well as rimming.

[Ann]

Kham,

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Does your wife know about your girlfriend and your threesomes with her? It sounds like to me that guilty feelings are what drive your fears of hiv.

Once again you did not have a risk for hiv infection.

You wore a condom for anal or vaginal intercourse and that's all you need to do. Please re-read your entire thread.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY FOLLOWING ORAL SEX OR PROTECTED INTERCOURSE, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann