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Poll

To homosexual man, are you a bottom or a top?

bottom
19 (22.6%)
top
13 (15.5%)
versatile
41 (48.8%)
total bottom
8 (9.5%)
total top
3 (3.6%)

Total Members Voted: 83

Voting closed: February 24, 2007, 12:24:15 AM

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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #100 on: February 21, 2007, 09:06:01 PM »
I'm sure it's one of sudden, peaked interest, doll.

I've actually never been very interested in trying to seduce straight men.

I mean, it's happened before (thank you, vodka)... but not something that I really care about.

Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.
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Offline Bucko

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #101 on: February 21, 2007, 09:13:12 PM »
I've actually never been very interested in trying to seduce straight men.

I mean, it's happened before (thank you, vodka)... but not something that I really care about.

Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out.

Trade make lousy, guilty lays, especially when trying to bottom. I don't recommend it except as a side-kink and a mind-fuck.

Brent
(Who has had both a trade phase and a vagrant phase)
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #102 on: February 21, 2007, 09:14:18 PM »
I know where to land married, straight Dominican men.
"Iíve slept with enough men to know that Iím not gay"

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #103 on: February 21, 2007, 09:20:43 PM »
Mine's more like the Panamanal Canal. 

In that there's a lot of traffic in it.

And a lot of seamen in it, too, I'll bet.
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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #104 on: February 21, 2007, 09:23:48 PM »
I know where to land married, straight Dominican men.

I have to ask.

Where?
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Offline Pippet

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #105 on: February 21, 2007, 09:53:05 PM »
I like this poll.  It makes for good readin'.  :o
It has been said that there are 4 bottoms to every top.  I think they need to take another census.
I'm strictly a top, it improves my chances of getting laid.   ;D
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #106 on: February 21, 2007, 10:51:08 PM »
I like this poll.  It makes for good readin'.  :o
It has been said that there are 4 bottoms to every top.  I think they need to take another census.
I'm strictly a top, it improves my chances of getting laid.   ;D

Explain to me why it is then when I am in a top mood I only ever find other tops. 
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #107 on: February 21, 2007, 11:09:06 PM »
Totally vers, but sometimes just in the mood to be a piggy btm, LOL.  Love to flip/flop!
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Offline RobT

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #108 on: February 21, 2007, 11:14:34 PM »
Exactly how scientific is this? I am versatile, but prefer to bottom.

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Offline egello

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #109 on: February 21, 2007, 11:44:23 PM »
so why can't some of you bottoms reach orgasm when topping? i mean, whdy do you guys think that is? we are male species, born to  be able to fuck and reach an orgasm. why why why???

to other bottoms, what do yo uthink about having an ansu righ on your face?
do you guys like it? or do you guys think its gross? or do you guys think its hot? if you like it, why not want to fuck it?

how much is our preference psychological or based on our first sexual experiences or is it in any way physical?
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Offline fearless

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #110 on: February 21, 2007, 11:58:37 PM »
I'm far too masochistic to be a top.

I have, however, been accused of topping from the bottom by some s&m leather puppy, shortly before he packed his whip and dildos and left.  :'(
Finding a top, who truly understands that real pain is pleasure has been no easy task.

EDIT: I need to qualify that. There was a time when I actively sought out physically abusive situations, and I guess there is a part of me that probably still wants to. But, I didn't have a lot of respect for myself in those days. I'm super tame these day and rarely get into any sort of mischief. I'm pretty tame/lame these days.

« Last Edit: February 22, 2007, 03:20:29 AM by fearless »
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #112 on: February 22, 2007, 12:30:42 AM »
so why can't some of you bottoms reach orgasm when topping? i mean, whdy do you guys think that is? we are male species, born to  be able to fuck and reach an orgasm. why why why???

to other bottoms, what do yo uthink about having an ansu righ on your face?
do you guys like it? or do you guys think its gross? or do you guys think its hot? if you like it, why not want to fuck it?

how much is our preference psychological or based on our first sexual experiences or is it in any way physical?

It is, because it is...
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Offline joemutt

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #113 on: February 22, 2007, 01:05:51 AM »
Give and you shall receive
and I give as good as I get.

Offline jkinatl2

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #114 on: February 22, 2007, 01:07:14 AM »
I have long ago accepted my freaky. I make no apologies, and frankly do little in the way of struggling to understand it. I am who I am, I like what I like, and I have little desire to change. I've had boyfriends who have wanted me to change, but not for long.  I like the roving freakshow that is Jonathan. And when/if I find the guy worthy, I will make an amazing and perhaps even monogamous boyfriend.

There is nothing wrong with being who you are, and loving the way you see fit. Anything else is a lie of the worst sort, a fundamental self-deception in which everyone eventually suffers.



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Offline Bucko

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #115 on: February 22, 2007, 01:10:13 AM »
so why can't some of you bottoms reach orgasm when topping? i mean, whdy do you guys think that is? we are male species, born to  be able to fuck and reach an orgasm. why why why???

to other bottoms, what do yo uthink about having an ansu righ on your face?
do you guys like it? or do you guys think its gross? or do you guys think its hot? if you like it, why not want to fuck it?

how much is our preference psychological or based on our first sexual experiences or is it in any way physical?

Preference is psychological. Orientation is biological.

I, for one, can understand a strict bottom's reasoning very well, because it is the polarity of my own.

I have no talent whatsoever as a bottom. But I am really deeply envious of skilled bottoms, as they experience things I truly cannot. And it is a total irony that I turn shreiking nelly queer at the proposal that I try.

Brent
(Who makes up for it in other areas)
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Offline Bucko

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #116 on: February 22, 2007, 01:12:23 AM »
I have long ago accepted my freaky. I make no apologies, and frankly do little in the way of struggling to understand it. I am who I am, I like what I like, and I have little desire to change. I've had boyfriends who have wanted me to change, but not for long.  I like the roving freakshow that is Jonathan. And when/if I find the guy worthy, I will make an amazing and perhaps even monogamous boyfriend.

There is nothing wrong with being who you are, and loving the way you see fit. Anything else is a lie of the worst sort, a fundamental self-deception in which everyone eventually suffers.





Well said, sir.
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #117 on: February 22, 2007, 01:36:42 AM »
But I am really deeply envious of skilled bottoms, as they experience things I truly cannot.

Yes, yes we do!
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Offline slimbimale

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #118 on: February 22, 2007, 02:07:28 AM »
For me I love to be a bottom ..depends on the guy ..in some cases I loved being a top as well ...all of my friends think I am a " total top " because I am so mascline ..and when I am with a women..I have no choice ( never had one pull out a strap-on ...lol .)  ;D
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Offline Cerrid

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #119 on: February 22, 2007, 03:25:39 AM »
Every way that I can.

Which, coincidentally, is also the 2003 Eurovision Song Contest's winning title by Sertab Erener. I have it printed on a T-shirt so peoples know exactly what to expect. ;D




Edited to add that, thinking about it, heterosexual males usually expect me to top them whereas gay men mostly assume I'm a natural bottom. Seems like one of Mother Natures's little mysteries...
« Last Edit: February 22, 2007, 05:34:41 AM by Cerrid »
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Offline ryeguy

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #120 on: February 22, 2007, 06:59:32 AM »
This has become so Kindergšrten, I love it!

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #121 on: February 22, 2007, 09:12:11 AM »
Shouldn't this be in "Off Topic"?
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #122 on: February 22, 2007, 10:15:03 AM »
The trick is to allow the top to think he is in control. Or course, he isn't, but he thinks he is.

Also remember, the top is neever too big, too thick or too long. Accommodation is the spice of any sex life - especially if the alley is dark.

By the way, power bottoms may be OK, but bottomless bottoms paved the way.

HUGS and SQUISHES,

Mark
« Last Edit: February 22, 2007, 10:16:52 AM by aztecan »
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Offline Moffie65

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #123 on: February 22, 2007, 10:21:54 AM »
Oh Mark, you are a genuinely twisted sister......  You are the first one, next to me, who has pointed out the obvious, that the Bottom ALWAYS Rules!  Gee, shades of the End Up for Sunday afternoon tea.  Or the patio of the San Francisco Eagle,,,,ANYTIME..

Personally, I always loved The Trench, especially on Uncut Wednesdays when drinks were free for all us uncuts.

Whhooooopeee.....   

(cracking up at "never too big, thick, or long....)

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This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals,
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Offline aztecan

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #124 on: February 22, 2007, 10:38:44 AM »
I had fun at the End Up too, and the Trench holds many special memories!

The Eagle was festive. I once was in a contest involving dog leashes and teeth, but I won't go into details. I won. Need I say more?

I also remember having an especially festive weekend at The Brig.

Down south, I enjoyed the PIts in L.A., and the Manspace, as long as you didn't lean on the walls (they were very sticky - too much Crisco).

Cuffs on Hyperion used to be quite the spot as well, and the Detour on Melrose had a patio that often was festive.

Ah, memories. Tim, someday you and I should share notes. It seems we have already shared a lot.  ;)

HUGS,

Mark
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Offline Moffie65

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #125 on: February 22, 2007, 10:43:11 AM »
"It seems we have already shared a lot"

Tim holds his fingersssssssssssssssssssssss......................

Cuffs, and Detour.... wow, that caught me off guard.  I forgot about those.  Way too many Macy's manequins in Cuffs.

Hell, I need to click off and go back to George and Gracie!

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and 362 to heterosexuals.
This doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals,
It's just that they need more supervision.
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #126 on: February 22, 2007, 12:04:20 PM »
The trick is to allow the top to think he is in control. Or course, he isn't, but he thinks he is.

Also remember, the top is neever too big, too thick or too long. Accommodation is the spice of any sex life - especially if the alley is dark.

By the way, power bottoms may be OK, but bottomless bottoms paved the way.

HUGS and SQUISHES,

hmm, sounds like some gay chinese old saying ( i can't think of that word!!!!!, this keeps happeneing, I can't pull certain words out of my mouth, argghhhhhh, and I 've been getting forgetful lately, i guess the meds or the hiv)
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Offline egello

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #127 on: February 22, 2007, 12:09:46 PM »
Shouldn't this be in "Off Topic"?

well, the reason why i raised it here is because i wanted to find out sexual behavior of gay people represented on this forum and the spread of hiv.

seeing that there are way more bottoms than tops and way more versatiles than bottoms, it seems that if gay people had strict preference such as being a bottom or being a top, maybe the spread would have plagued the gay community less? It seems that it its the versatile behavior that have cuased wide and fast spread of hiv in the us and in europe. for an instance, there are always strict rold in the straight sex on who is the top (male, the inserter or the penetrator) or who is the bottom (female).
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Offline Moffie65

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #128 on: February 22, 2007, 12:12:44 PM »
Listen, this is very much a subject that needs to be in this forum, because it is very much about "Living with HIV".  Off Topic is for discussing CSI and other shit like that.

Just sayin.
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Offline redhotmuslbear

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #129 on: February 22, 2007, 12:20:33 PM »
btw:  I *WISH* I was a top.  Everyone looks at me and expects it out of me... but alas. However, there is an adequate market for my look as a bottom.


Sign me up!  I'll be in Philly in three weeks.

I advertise as a dom top and provide bottoms with what one called "the mind-altering fuck of a lifetime."  That said, my partner says that I need a sign that says "You must THIS BIG <------ 10 inches -------> to ride this ride" as I will eagerly bottom and go sub for an attractive heavily endowed guy.

Really, if I'm going to get plowed, I want it to be memorable in the best way!
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #130 on: February 22, 2007, 12:37:44 PM »
So you're a top who is really just an ole Size Queen.  How fucking greedy:)
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Offline David_CA

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #131 on: February 22, 2007, 12:58:56 PM »
The trick is to allow the top to think he is in control. Or course, he isn't, but he thinks he is.

Also remember, the top is neever too big, too thick or too long. Accommodation is the spice of any sex life - especially if the alley is dark.


Exactly.  Having a nice ass helps in attracting those hot tops.  I read some survey among gay men and straight women that the most arousing part on a man's body isn't chest, arms, face, or dick size.  It's a nice ass.  I kinda believe that, as a huge dick is a wonder, but a really nice butt is totally hot.  Of course, a nice ass won't make up for an unfortunate face, bad grill, or obscenely large gut, but it sure can be a standout on its own.  As to being too big (never seen one too big), it's just mind over matter.

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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #132 on: February 22, 2007, 12:59:38 PM »
Great.  Lipo has given me NO ass.
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #133 on: February 22, 2007, 01:05:36 PM »
Great.  Lipo has given me NO ass.

I'm sure you make up for it in other ways!   ;)
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #134 on: February 22, 2007, 01:13:01 PM »
Well, this is really funny 'cause I know someone in these forums who is  be able to discern, among forum members and  with an almost extraordinary exactitude,   who is top and who is bottom!   And quite frankly, I am indeed amazed s/he has not echoed here some of the truth he'd tell us in Amsterdam regarding the subject discussed here...!
Anyway, I am what I am i.e. Top!  

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #135 on: February 22, 2007, 01:49:20 PM »
Exactly.  Having a nice ass helps in attracting those hot tops.  I read some survey among gay men and straight women that the most arousing part on a man's body isn't chest, arms, face, or dick size.  It's a nice ass.  I kinda believe that, as a huge dick is a wonder, but a really nice butt is totally hot.  Of course, a nice ass won't make up for an unfortunate face, bad grill, or obscenely large gut, but it sure can be a standout on its own.  As to being too big (never seen one too big), it's just mind over matter.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #136 on: February 22, 2007, 02:09:39 PM »
This is why I wear women's jeans.  They fit me better and show off the butt so much better.

Thank you for giving me a hilarious mental image of myself trying to fit into women's jeans!  I've got a beefy, muscular ass that looks great in 501s or khakis, but it seems that women who wear a 35 waist have much bigger bootays....and I so loathe that "ppop in your pants" baggy look!  Also, having well-developed legs from excessive strength training (29 thigh, 21.5 calves... really!) would make getting women's jeans on impossible.  Hell, I have to baby the 501s with cold-water washes and air drying to keep their legs from becoming too tight!

Still, if there was a body part of a man that I look at more than any other, even on a guy packing 10 inches on more  :o , it's gotta be the ass!  My partner has a firm little ass that I saw across a playspace the night we met and first had sex, and I knew that I had to have it as soon as I saw it!

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #137 on: February 22, 2007, 02:20:38 PM »
The trick is to allow the top to think he is in control. Or course, he isn't, but he thinks he is.



It's all a dance, sweetheart.

It goes without saying that each partner has what the other's looking for, and an accomplished lover, in either role, needs to bring everything to the table (or bed or alley or toilet stall) to ensure the optimal performance of the other. As an erection can be a tricky (and fragile) thing, it is as much a state of mind as a physiological condition. In the fog of passion, it's the bottom who has the greater power and control over what is done and for how long. It is the top's job to maintain and excellerate the arousal and stamina of the bottom if he wishes to keep going beyond a half-hour quickie.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #138 on: February 22, 2007, 02:22:00 PM »
It's all a dance, sweetheart.

A rectal tango, if you will.
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #139 on: February 22, 2007, 02:22:36 PM »
Well going by that poll i'm very much in the minority here, story of my life haha.
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #140 on: February 22, 2007, 02:25:37 PM »
half-hour quickie?

Eep.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #141 on: February 22, 2007, 02:26:31 PM »
This is why I wear women's jeans.  They fit me better and show off the butt so much better.

Frankie B or True Religion?

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #142 on: February 22, 2007, 02:28:09 PM »
Thank you for giving me a hilarious mental image of myself trying to fit into women's jeans!  I've got a beefy, muscular ass that looks great in 501s or khakis, but it seems that women who wear a 35 waist have much bigger bootays....and I so loathe that "ppop in your pants" baggy look!  Also, having well-developed legs from excessive strength training (29 thigh, 21.5 calves... really!) would make getting women's jeans on impossible.  Hell, I have to baby the 501s with cold-water washes and air drying to keep their legs from becoming too tight!

Still, if there was a body part of a man that I look at more than any other, even on a guy packing 10 inches on more  :o , it's gotta be the ass!  My partner has a firm little ass that I saw across a playspace the night we met and first had sex, and I knew that I had to have it as soon as I saw it!

-D

OK... judging from how built you look in your avatar... you trying on women's jeans would probably be absolutely hilarious!  You have a 35 inch waist?  G'damn... you work out a lot.  Sometimes I wish I was built more like you... I have a 29-30 inch waist.  I'm little. 

Even though I walk about 3-5 miles a day... I still have legs that are not well developed at all.  Except for the butt.  The butt is developed... so I figure I might as well show it off (damn, I'm giving away all my motives for dressing the way I do!) until some drug gets rid of it. 

That said, I have this really kick ass pair of black pin-stripe women's pants that have earned the nickname "booty pants."  Not so much because my ass looks great in them... but because they've worked wonders at attracting the tops and getting me booty.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #143 on: February 22, 2007, 02:28:18 PM »
29" thigh

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Ouch! I have a 28" waist!

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #144 on: February 22, 2007, 02:31:05 PM »
half-hour quickie?

Eep.


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« Reply #145 on: February 22, 2007, 02:38:48 PM »
Ouch! I have a 28" waist!

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Hey I wear a 28" waist...but I am much more comfortable in a 40.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #146 on: February 22, 2007, 02:42:51 PM »
28" waist and your a top?    Barbara please!
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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #147 on: February 22, 2007, 02:45:44 PM »
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The trick is to allow the top to think he is in control. Or course, he isn't, but he thinks he is.

Mark, you're absolutely right !!  I let him think they're in control, get an evil smile on my face and then I love the look on their face when they realize they were just taken along for the ride !!

This is a great thread !!  I haven't laughed this much in days, of course, I am on a conference call all day (boring one at that!) 


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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #148 on: February 22, 2007, 03:15:50 PM »
28" waist and your a top?    Barbara please!

Lean, aggressive powertops are all the rage, Sylvia darling. Years of lipid-controlled diet (thanks Kaletra) and Zerit have pretty much eliminated my body fat, and I never had any ass to speak of anyways.

At 5'6 I'm very proportional. Besides, big things occasionally come in small(er) packages.

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Re: Bottom or Top?
« Reply #149 on: February 22, 2007, 03:20:20 PM »
  Well since you ask I must tell ;).   I'm a top by default.  In my experience the women from Miami have very little lasting power when it comes to getting on top.  When I say getting on top, I don't mean none of that straddling bullsh*t either...  I want the Olympic squat routine or nothing... yes women hate when you time this event I have learned.  Don't get me started on the oral thing... "Oh baby my jaw hurts!" Give me a fricking break..(please)!  Anything that can talk that much should be able to suck a watermelon through a garden hose, of course this is just an observation.  Which leads me to my favorite saying, " I've got a tongue that's long and a back that's mighty strong "  The sisters think so too...  I've yet to have a Caucasian and by the looks of things it won't ever happen ;)..  I've struck some gold with my current love.... :) :) :) :)   

And I figured you for a top too, I wonder why.. ;) I am a top and that is where I achieve the most orgasms. I am not doing no damn Olympic squats but instead laying it down thoroughly. I never had any complaints, so I'm not changing a thing, if it ain't broke don't fix it, dammit.

And the oral thing, I can relate to sadly. I don't have a problem with the act but has problems performing the act. I don't know if you paid attention to my pic when I had it posted but I have a small mouth. Yeah, I know you heard that one before too. My jaw locks on me too. I have watched porno after porno trying to come up with a technique that works for me but none does. I have a gag reflex also. I use to say that same exact saying back in the day when it came to the type of man I was looking for. *minds goes back to a past lover*...*sighs*
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