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Author Topic: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing  (Read 10156 times)

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Offline lydgate

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Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« on: February 18, 2007, 05:01:35 AM »
I'll probably be banned for this but so be it.

To my AIDSmeds family:

Did you read the fine print?

Paragraph five of Section 5 of "terms of use":

"To enable Smart + Strong to use and publish your information that you choose to make publicly available on AIDSmeds.com in connection with your use of the Service ("User Information"), the User grants Smart + Strong a nonexclusive, worldwide, perpetual, irrevocable, royalty-free, sublicenseable (through multiple tiers) right (including all moral rights) and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, perform, prepare derivative works from, distribute, and display User Information (in whole or in part) and to incorporate it in other works, in any form, media or technology now known or later developed, for the full term of any rights that may exist in User Information."

Read that carefully.

Did any or all of you know this?

Do you accept the argument that this is just legalese? And that we're protected by the moderators because their intentions are good?

Read especially the words "perpetual" and "irrevocable" and the multiple clauses about any form whatsoever.

And also note: that so far what we've recieved from the forum owner is a statement saying that he will fight tooth and nail and that if he should lose he'll resign. Wow. A resignation in support. Great comfort.

This is unacceptable.

Well, to me it is.

These forums mean the world to me and giving them up is equivalent to parting a limb. And I'm not given to hyperbole. I'm fighting tooth and nail because I love these forums.

But unless those terms of use are changed, and Peter's autocracy restrained, I do not see myself returning here.

Au revoir, possibly adieu.

Jay

Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2007, 06:17:57 AM »
You only have yourself to blame if you didn't read the terms of use before you started posting. lydgate, if it bothers you so much, just don't log in, come on as a guest and don't post anything.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2007, 06:45:04 AM »
Wow. Of course. Sudden enlightenment. Thank you so much Rod. Such wise words.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2007, 06:48:08 AM »
I'm sorry, but you accepted the agreement when you came here and the way to stop your worries is just don't log in and come on as a guest.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #4 on: February 18, 2007, 07:07:32 AM »
Alright then:

How many of the users of these forums have read the fine print, the "terms of use" and so on? Do you want to give me a guess, Rod? Those who haven't, it's all their bad eh?

The point of this thread/post -- and Rod, you seem to be assuming that I'm feebleminded or deluded -- is that the vast majority of forum members have NOT read the egregious "terms of use." Is that a debatable topic? I hope so, though I doubt it.

And I want, now, for forum members to read and realize what they're signing up for. And have the option of not signing up at all, given the conditions.

Jay
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #5 on: February 18, 2007, 07:14:08 AM »
It's a boiler plate TOS.  Give it a rest.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #6 on: February 18, 2007, 07:24:53 AM »
It's a boiler plate TOS.  Give it a rest.
Oh Jeez.

Puck, how many standard (or boiler plate) TOS have you read? I've been accumulating a lot recently, and many of them read nothing like the S+S one.

Second, why give it a rest? Given that certain terms of service are "standard" must we settle for them?
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #7 on: February 18, 2007, 07:47:39 AM »
Actually, I have managed forums like this so I can say several.  If you don't like it, don't sign it, and don't use it. 
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Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #8 on: February 18, 2007, 09:25:44 AM »
there are other hiv+ sites on the internet. this isn't the only one

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #9 on: February 18, 2007, 09:43:06 AM »
This is getting obsessive.  lydgate, I like you, I really do and have.  If stuff like this bothers you so much why did you not read the TOS and forward it to your lawyer in the first place.  No, I didn't read it -- I never read crap like that on the internet.  I just don't care.  If I was managing a business, sure -- been there done that tons.  Otherwise when I go onto the internet I just assume that I'm sitting naked in the media strip of I-95.

But I will say, it's your personal right to be obsessive about this if you want.  If you can convince them to change it to something more amenable to you than go for it, though I've not seen you offer what language you'd like specifically in place of this -- or you just want this entire clause stricken?

Of course, they'll probably just tell you to go jump off a cliff if you don't like it.  I would assume they already paid some legal person to look over it to begin with for how ever many $100's an hour.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #10 on: February 18, 2007, 10:39:04 AM »
Most every site has terms of agreements.   If you don't like em, don't agree and don't use em.

If you feel this site is not sufficiently protecting you then perhaps you shouldn't use it!
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #11 on: February 18, 2007, 11:14:46 AM »
Well, some TOS are more "boilerplate" than others, so I'm not willing (yet) to extend that label as previous poster puck did.  I just tried to see what the TOS was on another web board, with a similar association with a larger corporately owned magazine is, but I couldn't locate it on the forum, perhaps because I'm already registered.  I posted a request for someone to point out the link or something so when I find it I'll post here what I find.

However, I will say I don't find using language labeling Peter a dictator to be very useful to the discourse, but I digress.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #12 on: February 18, 2007, 11:27:03 AM »
Jay, as long you express your position in a non-attacking and non-inflammatory way I don't see any problem with what you have to say.

Nor do I think Peter will/would, although calling him a "dictator" is both inaccurate and getting into the domain of namecalling, which is a domain always well to be avoided.

I appreciate that others are able to discuss this subject  and to consider your position thoughtfully.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #13 on: February 18, 2007, 11:58:02 AM »
I've seen this type of language before.  Some websites have differing versions (for example, some only give the owners and operators of the site permission to use the information as it was intended).  But most seem to request full license of any information posted on their website.

This is a bit long, but here are some other examples (well two, one from Yahoo! and the other from the BBC):

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Contributions to bbc.co.uk
9. Where you are invited to submit any contribution to bbc.co.uk (including any text, photographs, graphics, video or audio) you agree, by submitting your contribution, to grant the BBC a perpetual, royalty-free, non-exclusive, sub-licenseable right and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, create derivative works from, distribute, perform, play, make available to the public, and exercise all copyright and publicity rights with respect to your contribution worldwide and/or to incorporate your contribution in other works in any media now known or later developed for the full term of any rights that may exist in your contribution, and in accordance with privacy restrictions set out in the BBC's Privacy Policy. If you do not want to grant to the BBC the rights set out above, please do not submit your contribution to bbc.co.uk.

and Yahoo!

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CONTENT SUBMITTED OR MADE AVAILABLE FOR INCLUSION ON THE SERVICE

Yahoo! does not claim ownership of Content you submit or make available for inclusion on the Service. However, with respect to Content you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the Service, you grant Yahoo! the following worldwide, royalty-free and non-exclusive license(s), as applicable:


With respect to Content you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of Yahoo! Groups, the license to use, distribute, reproduce, modify, adapt, publicly perform and publicly display such Content on the Service solely for the purposes of providing and promoting the specific Yahoo! Group to which such Content was submitted or made available. This license exists only for as long as you elect to continue to include such Content on the Service and will terminate at the time you remove or Yahoo! removes such Content from the Service.
With respect to photos, graphics, audio or video you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the Service other than Yahoo! Groups, the license to use, distribute, reproduce, modify, adapt, publicly perform and publicly display such Content on the Service solely for the purpose for which such Content was submitted or made available. This license exists only for as long as you elect to continue to include such Content on the Service and will terminate at the time you remove or Yahoo! removes such Content from the Service.
With respect to Content other than photos, graphics, audio or video you submit or make available for inclusion on publicly accessible areas of the Service other than Yahoo! Groups, the perpetual, irrevocable and fully sublicensable license to use, distribute, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, publicly perform and publicly display such Content (in whole or in part) and to incorporate such Content into other works in any format or medium now known or later developed.

"Publicly accessible" areas of the Service are those areas of the Yahoo! network of properties that are intended by Yahoo! to be available to the general public. By way of example, publicly accessible areas of the Service would include Yahoo! Message Boards and portions of Yahoo! Groups, Photos and Briefcase that are open to both members and visitors. However, publicly accessible areas of the Service would not include portions of Yahoo! Groups that are limited to members, Yahoo! services intended for private communication such as Yahoo! Mail or Yahoo! Messenger, or areas off of the Yahoo! network of properties such as portions of World Wide Web sites that are accessible via hypertext or other links but are not hosted or served by Yahoo!.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #14 on: February 18, 2007, 07:22:59 PM »
Andy: for the record, I used the adverbial form, not the adjective or the noun. There is a rather important difference (though no doubt this will be considered mere sophistry or pedantry).

Philly: I'm not the obsessive type, but yeah, I've been fairly preoccupied with this subject for the last two days. It is fair and gracious of you to grant that I have the liberty to "obsess" over whatever subject I choose.

As for the rest... Isn't there a distinction between belonging to a Yahoo! group -- about favorite Bette Davis movies say -- and belonging to an HIV support group? Isn't there a difference between submitting a contribution to a news organization (an op ed piece about the Iraq war, say) and submitting intimate stories about yourself in a site that concerns itself with a serious illness without a cure?

In other words, our personal narratives about HIV deserve better than "boiler plate" terms. This is blindingly obvious to me.

For the umpteenth time, this is not about anyone's bad intentions but about (1) doing what is ethically correct by/for the HIV-positive voice, and (2) future possibilities. I'm quite happy to sound like a broken record about this.

I'm going to permit myself a catty/sarcastic remark. To those of you who've said I can always leave if I don't like the terms or whatever: Thank you so much! My eyes are finally opened! Truly revelatory advice!

Jay

Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #15 on: February 18, 2007, 07:30:40 PM »
Quote from another thread:

"I love the way these things go. Those of us expressing fear and concern are constantly being criticised and belittled by those who don't have the fear/concern."

Even though this poster's fears and concerns are a little different from mine: My feelings exactly.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #16 on: February 18, 2007, 07:46:19 PM »
I would think that was fairly standard practice... Myspace does the exact same thing.  Any picture you put up, any blog you write, any comment you send a friend is Myspace's property (I would imagine because you're using Myspace's servers). 
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #17 on: February 18, 2007, 07:58:16 PM »
As usual, let me bring in another realm?  Will writing?  When you have a will written by a very good attorney, he or she has to come up with every possible contingency.  Want to give something to the New York Public Library.  Great.  Will do.  BUT what if the NYPL ceases to exist?  Ok, insert the provision that in the even that the NYPL ceases to exist, your money would go to X and if X isn't there, Y....

In legal defense of the Owners of Record, you have to cover all possible situations including those which are likely and those which are unlikely but still possible.  It does not mean that S and S have a 24 set of volumes planned based on threads from the forums.  But you can't go backwards, legally.  You can't change the rules to enable yourself to take back rights which you didn't give yourself ahead of time.  You can do this with wills, but only while you can be deemed legally competent and are still alive.  So, too, you can't not have the rights to 'use' threads if you allow threads to be recorded before you thought of this unless, as with a credit card, the holder of the card agrees to a change in terms. 

Yes, it's awkward here in the forums.  It can make many people uncomfortable.  Win
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #18 on: February 18, 2007, 08:14:45 PM »
But you can't go backwards, legally.  You can't change the rules to enable yourself to take back rights which you didn't give yourself ahead of time.  You can do this with wills, but only while you can be deemed legally competent and are still alive.  So, too, you can't not have the rights to 'use' threads if you allow threads to be recorded before you thought of this unless, as with a credit card, the holder of the card agrees to a change in terms. 


This is somewhat opaque to me.

A change in terms or conditions, by the issuers of those terms and conditions, is surely possible. Or is this what you're denying (can't go backwards legally and all that)?
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #19 on: February 18, 2007, 08:31:02 PM »
This is getting no where. Nothing is going to change because a hand full of people out of 5000+ are upset that they didn't read the conditions. It's time to put this to rest and move on.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #20 on: February 18, 2007, 08:48:28 PM »
Much agreed!  :)

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #21 on: February 18, 2007, 08:51:54 PM »
Jay -- here's another example...

AOL Chat and AOL.com:

"In addition, by posting Content on an AOL Service, you grant AOL, its parent, affiliates, subsidiaries, assigns, agents and licensees the irrevocable, perpetual, worldwide right to reproduce, display, perform, distribute, adapt and promote this Content in any medium."

AOL certainly has lots of HIV-related chat rooms where folks frequently reveal as much as folks do here.

Same thing with Gay.com -- VERY active HIV-specific chat rooms.  Here's their language:

"Through certain areas of the Network you may post, upload or submit material ("Submissions") for viewing by others or view Submissions of other users (e.g., communities, forums, personals, Member profiles, discussion rooms or video conferencing rooms). By making a Submission, you (a) automatically grant the Company and its affiliates and licensees the royalty-free, perpetual, irrevocable, nonexclusive right and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, publicly perform and display and distribute the content of the Submission (in whole or in part) worldwide and/or to incorporate it in other works in any form, media, or technology now known or hereafter developed, (b) permit any other user of the Network to access, view, store, or reproduce the Submission for that user's personal use, and (c) represent and warrant that public posting and use of your Submission by the Company and its affiliates and licensees will not infringe or violate the rights of any third party."

Hmmm.  Anyone seeing a pattern here?

Yours,

The Dictator   ;)


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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #22 on: February 18, 2007, 08:54:22 PM »
This is somewhat opaque to me.

A change in terms or conditions, by the issuers of those terms and conditions, is surely possible. Or is this what you're denying (can't go backwards legally and all that)?


Sorry about the opaqueness, Jay.  Yes, as with credit card companies, you, the Company, can change the terms and conditions, but with limitations.  The Company can increase the rate.  But the holder of the card can refuse to accept the increase and can freeze his or her account, to new charges but also to this proposed rate increase (unless, of course, the holder has violated pre-existing terms and conditions which caused the rate increase).  If we are talking about content somewhere, the Owners of Record can't impose rights which they didn't have affecting posts made and unchangeable by the posters before those rights were imposed.  The Owner of Record can impose new rights, but only affecting future posts or by allowing someone to remove existing posts. That's what I meant by you can't go, legally, backwards.  What we would see is something by which we would have to acknowledge a change of terms and conditions.  Win
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #23 on: February 18, 2007, 09:38:31 PM »
Something to keep in mind, when signing up for the forums - you had to agree to the Terms of Membership, which do not address many of the issues in the Terms of Service. From what I understand, that issue has been addressed for those who sign up in the future, but acknowledging the TOS were not part of the requirement to be a member in the past and I can see where someone could think the terms of membership were the only rules that had to be followed to be a member.  Unlike sites like Gay.com and Yahoo Messenger for instance where you cannot join until you acknowledge the TOS, not just some Terms of Membership.

And for me - the issue remains alive as long as people keep posting - so if those who think it should die off would stop posting then their wish would be granted right?  Nothing makes me feel better then being told in essence - go away, you're an irritating, misinformed idiot in the minority who didn't read the fine print and if you're upset about it now, too bad, live with it and stop whining.

I'll do my best in the future not to be such an irritant as all this cumbersome typing back and forth is hard to schedule in between reading the fine print on the sites I visit.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #24 on: February 18, 2007, 09:55:50 PM »
So let me get this right.  When we started using the new / POZ forums a while back, were there both 'Terms of Use' and 'Terms of Membership'?  I only remember agreeing to one... the 'Terms of Membership', but I could be wrong.  Can the forum owners retroactively add a 'Terms of' and assume members agreed to it when it wasn't available at the time of membership?  If anybody can remember what 'Terms' we agreed to back last spring when the forums changed, I'd like to know, 'cause I sure can't remember.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #25 on: February 18, 2007, 09:58:40 PM »
Hey David -

I asked a similar question in another thread - go here to see Peter's reply:

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=9211.0
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« Reply #26 on: February 18, 2007, 10:03:27 PM »
Wasn't it your idea Tucsonwoody to put a time limit on the edit of the posts? You didn't take into the regards of the other members of the forum. I personally didn't see anything wrong with it, but there were several that did. And there was no advance warning posted on each forum for people to read about the edit time period, whereas, there was with the TOA.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #27 on: February 18, 2007, 10:05:14 PM »
Hey David -

I asked a similar question in another thread - go here to see Peter's reply:

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=9211.0

So, I assume I agreed to 'Terms of Membership'.  I seem to remember that some of the other 'Terms' hadn't been worked out, but I sure don't remember agreeing to more than one 'Terms' (and not the one that was just updated).

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #28 on: February 18, 2007, 10:07:24 PM »
Yeah sort of brings to mind the legendary AOL TOS.  By the way, Yahoo has a policy I hate: at the bottom of any yahoo mail or My Yahoo page it says, "NOTICE we collect personal information on this site".  I hate it but hey, with 300 million people in the country, I hope they have better things to do than study what I'm saying and who I'm saying it to!
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #29 on: February 18, 2007, 10:08:37 PM »
No RR - it was not my idea...I just happened to see the postings from Peter when he said he had implemented the change and a member (or maybe former member now) had said he couldn't figure out why he couldn't change an older thread as a result of that immediate change... So I thought I'd post something so other members would know why they couldn't change or delete a post in case they didn't see Peter's post which was in a different thread.

Here is the posting from Peter in this thread: http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=9146.0

"Quote from: dtwpuck on Yesterday at 10:03:50 AM
Peter... which begs the question... most of the busy forums I've been a part of (usually sports or political) have a time limit after which the writer can edit a posting, usually a few hours or so... mostly just to be able to fix typos and stuff.  It is usually a standard feature in the software and is implemented just for the purposes mentioned here.     It is somewhat unusual that this forum has no limit like that.

Thanks for the suggestion!  I just checked our software manual, and we DO have that option.  I've set the time limit for editing one's posts to 48 hours.

Peter"
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« Reply #30 on: February 18, 2007, 10:17:25 PM »
I apologise Tucsonwoody, it was not you that suggested it.

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« Reply #31 on: February 19, 2007, 01:31:09 AM »
Peter, I did not call you a "dictator." I'm not going to say any more about that. (Insert emoticon expressing slightly amused exasperation.)

Yes, I see the pattern plenty.

Your response begs my questions/concerns. It amounts to saying, others do it (have these terms), we do it also, what's the big deal. It's "standard." You've already said that and I've already responded to that.

You said something recently about building the best damned HIV-related forums on the Internet. And you did. You have.

May I say publicly how much I admire what you've built? (And again express my admiration for the moderators' tirelessness?) I also realize that in expanding the structure (continuing the architectural metaphor) certain hard choices, certain compromises have to be made.

But the "best" is something that by definition is not "standard." I trust you see that I'm using these two words as a convenient simple-to-understand way to make a serious point. I see the TOS as a fundamental structural defect in the edifice that you've created. (I can see people rolling their eyes: Oh NOES, more pompous verbosity!  ;) )

That AOL and Gay.com and other huge sites have similiar Terms is, for me anyway, besides the point. The question is should the "best" HIV-related forums on the Internet -- i.e AIDSmeds -- also have those Terms. (There are also problems in your comparison of these forums to sites like AOL and Gay.com but I won't go into that.)

I'm writing in good faith. I'm assuming you are. Though it remains unclear to me whether you've read my posts with any true care (yes, I know it's been a long tough week, it has for me too for lots of reasons).

What me and some others want -- a revision of some sections of the TOS -- seems precisely what's not going to happen. A revision that would give back to the HIV-positive individual posting here the ethically correct right to his or her own words and life stories. Either in the form of (1) giving copyright back outright, or (2) some form of legally binding statement/reassurance that no "material" will be used, ever, without the individual's express permission.

Is that possible? From the tenor of your posts it seems highly unlikely. If it's not possible, can we know why it's not? Or even have some lawyer at S+S explain it to us? I can see a few potential problems, but I would like to see them clearly articulated; and if they're in fact insurmountable problems.

It seems like that we're at an impasse (fancy word: aporia) here. So perhaps further discussion is fruitless. A wants X; B either will not or is unable to (I'm allowing you that possibility) give A that X. That's that then. Some people will walk away. Some will "dilute" their posts. No more talk, say, of drug addictions (possibly by people who need the support the most). Or people who don't want their voices of depression/mental illness to be in the public domain and someone else's property. The forums will have lost some valuable voices. That is of course sad. But the forums will continue, probably continue to expand and flourish.

Though I do feel "suckered" and disappointed (see David_NC's reply #115 in the "Formal Complaint" thread), I guess I'd better just shrug and say, Life goes on, the world keeps turning.

Shrugging but still earnest,

Jay





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« Reply #32 on: February 19, 2007, 02:37:41 AM »
OK We get it; these terms of service are the norms, not the exceptions.  That doesn't make it right nor do we have to agree with them.  This place is the lesser of evils but the terms are still bullshit.  What it basically says is that anything I'm typing is no longer mine.  That's f'ed up and I don't agree with the rigidity of the terms of service here, but I'm still here until a better forum comes along (and one will, it's just a matter of time).
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« Reply #33 on: February 19, 2007, 03:42:14 AM »
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But unless those terms of use are changed, and Peter's autocracy restrained, I do not see myself returning here.
Where is Peter in relation to Kim Jong-il? Is Aidsmeds the cyber North Korea? If this turns into a CBS movie can I play Marie Antoinette?

Summed up though is if people with HIV are so cavalier on the internet, will confidentiality laws be   removed?
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #34 on: February 19, 2007, 09:37:17 AM »
Peter, I did not call you a "dictator." I'm not going to say any more about that. (Insert emoticon expressing slightly amused exasperation.)

"autocrat"... "dictator" -- why exactly is the difference?  very little, I would expect
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #35 on: February 19, 2007, 09:46:37 AM »
Alright then:

How many of the users of these forums have read the fine print, the "terms of use" and so on? Do you want to give me a guess, Rod? Those who haven't, it's all their bad eh?

The point of this thread/post -- and Rod, you seem to be assuming that I'm feebleminded or deluded -- is that the vast majority of forum members have NOT read the egregious "terms of use." Is that a debatable topic? I hope so, though I doubt it.

And I want, now, for forum members to read and realize what they're signing up for. And have the option of not signing up at all, given the conditions.

Jay

Jay, its called personal responsibility and it is really lacking in our extremely litigious society.  It was YOUR responsibility to read it not anyone elses.  You and you alone should be responsible for what you choose to accept.

I agree with the others that you are doing this in a wonderful manner so far.  You are engaging in generally thoughtful discussions on something you feel passionate about and you are doing so in an aggressive but civilized way.  While I vehemently disagree with your stance on this, you have gained even more respect from me by the way you are doing it.
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« Reply #36 on: February 19, 2007, 10:06:41 AM »
Through his job as a debt collector, Dan has access to every single US citizen's data.
Of course he is legally obliged not to make any of the facts known to others.
He only uses it for his job.

My point is : I have e.g. seen what "big brother " knows about him. It would freak most of you out.
How about reading the names of your closest friends on there...yes, I wonder too...
So, if you are afraid these Forums are revealing much more then you want others to know, rest assured.

Those who come on here to have a sneak-preview of your life, will be satisfied. So what.
Those who want to find specific information about you most certainly have it already (see above).

As long as I can keep my bankcard codes a secret to the general public, I am fine.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #37 on: February 19, 2007, 02:08:28 PM »
What me and some others want -- a revision of some sections of the TOS -- seems precisely what's not going to happen. A revision that would give back to the HIV-positive individual posting here the ethically correct right to his or her own words and life stories. Either in the form of (1) giving copyright back outright, or (2) some form of legally binding statement/reassurance that no "material" will be used, ever, without the individual's express permission.

So the above is the only thing you want? ??? Do you want anything else? ??? If yes, I suggest you write *one* treatise itemizing each and every change you'd like to see and make sure it captures the essence of this whole shabang for the sake of simplicity. It could be helpful if you use bullet points and list "in order of importance."

Number (2) seems like a tall order.  :-\ I'm gonna guess it would be $costly$ and take a lot of time but that's just a guess.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #38 on: February 19, 2007, 03:51:35 PM »
Tum ta tum tum tums.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #39 on: February 19, 2007, 03:57:43 PM »
I know my way pretty well around the front and back-end of a computer, servers, IT technology, etc. and without getting into specifics (privacy!), I have a good grasp of internet privacy and in my honest opinion their is absolutely none.

Seeing as how this issue has struck a cord in so many, it might serve the community well if whoever runs this site stickied a thread or added a new "agreement" upon entry letting people know the straight out facts - because what seems obvious to some like me is not so obvious to others. And that is understandable.

Then let each individual make an informed decision based on the facts and risks they are/are not willing to take in the name of disclosure.

If you log on here from work, some people may think if they hide their screen from prying eyes and delete their cache/temporary internet files, that no one in their company will know - but that ain't the case. Your IT person can see every site you go to and many companies back up this information. And I've seen many IT people gossip and tell others that "so and so is a porn lover" and even worse.

And while I don't know S&S policy, it is a large company and I would bet they back up these forums. Even if you delete information it may (or may not) be stored. And while some of the moderators or people with access to the back end of this site seem trustworthy to some ( at least the ones we see), I don't know any of them and disclosing where I work or any of that is not an acceptable risk for me and I act accordingly to protect my privacy.

I have no clue what specific information is saved or disclosed or who knows what at this site, but I have an idea based on what I've seen in my experiences and I am cognizant of that when I'm here or any other website. Back end tracking software often documents locations, IPs, ISPs, browser information, operating systems, and more depending on the software.

A Republican a-hole congresman was set to pass legislation requiring all  companies to keep data gathered from visitors to websites on files so that law enforcement could expediate and increase the apprehension of predators. And I'm sure if this passed it would only be a matter of time before this information is used to nab peple for much less egregious crimes.

My advice - if you are partaking or advocating something illegal, be aware that you are taking a risk. In my opinion, a big risk. If there is something you don't want others to know and think "they'll never come here so who cares," I think that's wishful thinking and not very smart.

My intent is not to scare - as many know that is not my thing. I'm just saying if disclosure is a sensitive issue you shouldn't be lulled into a false sense of security because someone says this a "safe place." Know the facts and make decisions accordingly. Knowledge is power.

Mike :)
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #40 on: February 19, 2007, 05:28:59 PM »
Mike,

Once again, I'd like to point out that when we say this is a safe place, we mean that we try to keep people from being personally attacked in these forums. We keep the place safe from snake-oil salespeople and denialists. We mean safe in that sense, not in the privacy sense because as we all know, the internet is NOT a private place.

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« Reply #41 on: February 19, 2007, 05:33:50 PM »
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #42 on: February 19, 2007, 08:16:37 PM »
Mike,

Once again, I'd like to point out that when we say this is a safe place, we mean that we try to keep people from being personally attacked in these forums. We keep the place safe from snake-oil salespeople and denialists. We mean safe in that sense, not in the privacy sense because as we all know, the internet is NOT a private place.

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Yes, but Mike's point is that some people, as evidenced here, DON'T GET THAT.  Maybe there should be a disclaimer our of courtesy aimed at the as-yet-not-disclosed to emphasize that the internet is not a place to post pictures of your vacation if you are in the closet.  Just a though.  People seem to think that because the subject matter here is HIV that only those infected with HIV, or who think they are, are accessing the forum.  Anyone who googles "HIV" quite possibly will end up here, and from there it's easy to stumble on one post or another and say "OMG my neighbor is infected!"

You know... just add a common sense clause for those that are naive about disclosure issues.  To be honest AIDSmeds.com is LESS safe than a private support group in a church in an obscure part of a city.

However, at the same time this clause can instruct those concerned what to do and what not to do to assist in maintaining a safe zone with their profile, postings, etc.  You know, simple things like not using a screen name like "Bob-N-Peoria"
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« Reply #43 on: February 19, 2007, 08:34:33 PM »
Since I don't want to repeat myself, anyone interested in this subject might also want to read my reply #81 in the "Deletion of posts..." thread.

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=9146.msg113125#msg113125
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« Reply #44 on: February 19, 2007, 08:45:34 PM »
There's an old saying, "Never write down anything that you don't want someone else to read or know."

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« Reply #45 on: February 19, 2007, 08:46:41 PM »
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Yes, but Mike's point is that some people, as evidenced here, DON'T GET THAT.  Maybe there should be a disclaimer our of courtesy aimed at the as-yet-not-disclosed to emphasize that the internet is not a place to post pictures of your vacation if you are in the closet.  Just a though.  People seem to think that because the subject matter here is HIV that only those infected with HIV, or who think they are, are accessing the forum.  Anyone who googles "HIV" quite possibly will end up here, and from there it's easy to stumble on one post or another and say "OMG my neighbor is infected!"

You know... just add a common sense clause for those that are naive about disclosure issues.  To be honest AIDSmeds.com is LESS safe than a private support group in a church in an obscure part of a city.

However, at the same time this clause can instruct those concerned what to do and what not to do to assist in maintaining a safe zone with their profile, postings, etc.  You know, simple things like not using a screen name like "Bob-N-Peoria"
 
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Yet, Philly, you get insulted when someone calls a post of yours 'condescending' .  This post reeks of condescension. But I guess you just DONT GET THAT.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #46 on: February 19, 2007, 08:48:19 PM »


Yet, Philly, you get insulted when someone calls a post of yours 'condescending' .  This post reeks of condescension. But I guess you just DONT GET THAT.

What was condescending about what I wrote?  Please be exact.
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« Reply #47 on: February 19, 2007, 08:52:48 PM »
There's an old saying, "Never write down anything that you don't want someone else to read or know."

Then what's the damn point of these forums in the first place? If you change the "someone" in your maxim to "anyone"? (This being the Internet blah blah and the submissions someone else's property.) I won't elaborate. I've already done so ad nauseam, to the possible irritation of many.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #48 on: February 19, 2007, 09:05:28 PM »
The entire tone is.  Not to mention you've referred to my issues, based on my postings throughout the forums these past couple of days, 3 times specifically.

Your constant beating of the horse that people dont get that the Internet is wide open, is not only incorrect, but tiring.

I don't know who your neighbors are, but they must all be googling HIV for some reason. I'm sure most of mine don't.

I used to post in a place that was like a little town in the middle of Omaha. Now I'm posting in a place that's more like NYC. Get it?

 

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #49 on: February 19, 2007, 09:23:47 PM »
The entire tone is.  Not to mention you've referred to my issues, based on my postings throughout the forums these past couple of days, 3 times specifically.

Your constant beating of the horse that people dont get that the Internet is wide open, is not only incorrect, but tiring.

I don't know who your neighbors are, but they must all be googling HIV for some reason. I'm sure most of mine don't.

I used to post in a place that was like a little town in the middle of Omaha. Now I'm posting in a place that's more like NYC. Get it?

 


Entire tone?  I asked for specifics.  You offer none.

Amazingly I"m not the only person posting the same sentiments that I have, and numerous other posters have agreed with me.  Yet you call me condescending.  Sounds more like you have a personal issue with me, and me alone. I still fail to see what I've said is specifically condescending, or even aimed at one person in particular.  I'm quite sorry if you take it that way.

I do not know if my neighbors google HIV.  I suppose if they are interested in the subject matter they may do so.  If you are implying that I live in a gay ghetto where everyone is obsessing with the issue I can assure you I do not.  I live in a neighborhood populated by retired Italian people and and handful of Mexican immigrants.  But thanks for the baseless assumptions on my life.  Quite telling, in fact.

I don't appreciate your emotional issues with this subject being aimed squarely at me, when many, MANY others have state the exact same opinion that I have.  If I didn't know better I would state you have some unsettled issue with me that you do not wish to elaborate on.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #50 on: February 19, 2007, 09:29:23 PM »
There's an old saying, "Never write down anything that you don't want someone else to read or know."

I love that saying Rod!   Very appropriate I might add.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #51 on: February 19, 2007, 09:34:07 PM »
Well it's entertaining to read all of your posts, everybody, because it's obvious that you all are very intelligent and have strong opinions on this matter.

If I may say so LongIslander, I must agree with some of the other posters that the internet is arguably wide open.  There is little or no real security on the internet.  Not to mention that by agreeing with the Terms Of Service here, we are giving the operators and or owners of this site absolute rights to anything we post.  

If you want to know how insecure the internet is, just go to the Microsoft Knowledge Base and look at the THOUSANDS of KNOWN security holes in Microsoft products alone.  This does not count non-Microsoft product security holes or undocumented security holes.  You just have to hope no one is interested in your individual information.  

Also, if you use wireless internet, anyone can grab what you type out of the air; it's been all over the news and is nothing new.  There are hack programs that will unlock your wireless security (if you even have it enabled) in less than 5 seconds.  Not unlike the programs people use to unlock and copy DVDs.  It's just a fact of life and it's real.

Don't type anything on the internet, e mail or instant message you don't want to be public knowledge.  

Maybe off topic but I thought I'd put my (4 year college) two cents in.  Peace,
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« Reply #52 on: February 19, 2007, 09:36:16 PM »
Well it's entertaining to read all of your posts, everybody, because it's obvious that you all are very intelligent and have strong opinions on this matter.

If I may say so LongIslander, I must agree with some of the other posters that the internet is arguably wide open.  There is little or no real security on the internet.  Not to mention that by agreeing with the Terms Of Service here, we are giving the operators and or owners of this site absolute rights to anything we post. 

If you want to know how insecure the internet is, just go to the Microsoft Knowledge Base and look at the THOUSANDS of KNOWN security holes in Microsoft products alone.  This does not count non-Microsoft product security holes or undocumented security holes.  You just have to hope no one is interested in your individual information. 

Also, if you use wireless internet, anyone can grab what you type out of the air; it's been all over the news and is nothing new.  There are hack programs that will unlock your wireless security (if you even have it enabled) in less than 5 seconds.  Not unlike the programs people use to unlock and copy DVDs.  It's just a fact of life and it's real.

Don't type anything on the internet, e mail or instant message you don't want to be public knowledge. 

Maybe off topic but I thought I'd put my (4 year college) two cents in.  Peace,
Sam

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I'm sorry, but my idea of Internets security doesn't have "I can only assume that people aren't googling what the site I post on is about" at its foundation.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #53 on: February 19, 2007, 09:37:56 PM »
yes I'm the condescending one
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #54 on: February 19, 2007, 09:39:01 PM »
aupointillimite, we just google your name to follow you around.  :D

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« Reply #55 on: February 19, 2007, 09:40:31 PM »
aupointillimite, we just google your name to follow you around.  :D

As well you should!

I'm surprised you people haven't put a GPS tracker on my ass.   :D

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #56 on: February 19, 2007, 09:43:58 PM »
You mean you haven't looked? Get the mirror out. That's not a Tampon string hanging out your ass it's an antenna.  :D

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #57 on: February 19, 2007, 09:45:00 PM »
Sam, thanks for that. I'm not a total moron.  I'm glad everyone thinks THAT is the issue here.

Philly, I have resolved my issues with you. I know what I think of you, you know what I think of you, and that's that.

In the past 2 days, since I've known about CSI:NY and these forums, I have made posts regarding my issues with being 'outed' by the new influx of visitors.

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I think you have unresolved issues with me. You've been doing shit like this since before I pm'd you and asked you not to reply to anything I post.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #58 on: February 19, 2007, 09:46:19 PM »
That's not a Tampon string hanging out your ass it's an antenna.  :D

You told me it was to stop the bleeding!   ::)
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #59 on: February 19, 2007, 09:49:18 PM »
Philly, I have resolved my issues with you. I know what I think of you, you know what I think of you, and that's that.

I really have no problems with you except perhaps for the vile PM you sent me a month ago... but I've moved past that with the help of my therapist.

Look...I understand your concerns.  I was in your situation for a DECADE.  I know the deal.  All I'm saying is be more careful.  I'm not sure why you take such offense at that.  I'm trying to be helpful, but instead all I get is a huge grudge from you for pointing this out.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #60 on: February 19, 2007, 09:49:39 PM »
I lied. I just wanted to make sure you weren't cheating on me. :D

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #61 on: February 19, 2007, 09:52:09 PM »
Sam, Benj, Philly, Longislander and others... this thread is moving inexorably in the direction of the "Internet is wide open" way again. That statement is not news to me. Or to anyone really, I would think. (Eight years of university education and counting, counting... le sigh.) There are other threads devoted more or less exclusively to that issue/dispute/whatever it is. Others could be started but to little purpose I hazard.

I started this thread out of a different concern. I've more or less had my say on the matter; but if others want to continue to post and comment I'd appreciate it if you'd stick to what I did start this thread for rather than saying, again, "The Internet is wide open" etc.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #62 on: February 19, 2007, 09:53:08 PM »
Sam, Benj, Philly, Longislander and others... this thread is moving inexorably in the direction of the "Internet is wide open" way again.  "The Internet is wide open" etc.

I fail to see how this is not the crux of the entire issue.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #63 on: February 19, 2007, 09:54:23 PM »
I don't know if Phylly is condescending.

I don't know if Rapid Rod's laughter is the road to any conclusion

I don't know if Austin has all the answers.

I do know one thing.

This issue of disclosure, this issue of what should/should not be said on an internet forum, this issue of the the power of disclosure can not and should never be discussed in the tone that seems to be developing here.

The discussion I'm seeing isn't so much about the "reality" individuals may face, the struggles they have experienced, the forward looking view that there will be many more that will hopefully follow, the discussion seems to have dissolved into ego driven positions with lack of any sort of environment that welcomes open and honest expression and dialogue.

LongIslander, I empathize with the struggle you and many more of us are facing.  The fact that you have stepped to the forefront to express your feeling and fears, therein representing the many other silent voices who do not have the chance to do so, is a testament to your character.


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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #64 on: February 19, 2007, 09:57:42 PM »
No problem, Lydgate; I consider all of you my friends.  I know we will not always see things the same way, so I will respectfully stop posting to this thread.  I do, by the way, agree with your original posting.  Peace,
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« Reply #65 on: February 19, 2007, 09:59:19 PM »
Benj I don't think you ever will then.

Philly, Vile? feel free to post it.

I have done all I can since this happened to lessen the possibility of being found here, since this CSI thing. I'll admit, you did say some understanding things in other threads/posts. But this last one was helpful to no one, and this thread is turning into Jr High gym class.

Thanks RAB ;)
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #66 on: February 19, 2007, 10:00:10 PM »
Look, all I can say is if Long Islander wants a forum that is completely safe we'd have to reformat the board somehow, to where certain sections of the board are "closed" to outside google searches.  I think that this can be done.  I belong to a very "democratic" web board of freaks that were disaffected with the moderator antics on macaddict.com, and began their own board.  There are certain section that registered members must separately subscribe to that somehow are not searchable to Google, etc. where we discuss NSFW stuff and P2P subjects.

I'm somewhat cyber, but I do not know the intricacies of how this is done.  I just know that it's somewhat capable of being done.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #67 on: February 19, 2007, 10:02:56 PM »
Sam, Benj, Philly, Longislander and others... this thread is moving inexorably in the direction of the "Internet is wide open" way again. That statement is not news to me. Or to anyone really, I would think. (Eight years of university education and counting, counting... le sigh.) There are other threads devoted more or less exclusively to that issue/dispute/whatever it is. Others could be started but to little purpose I hazard.

I started this thread out of a different concern. I've more or less had my say on the matter; but if others want to continue to post and comment I'd appreciate it if you'd stick to what I did start this thread for rather than saying, again, "The Internet is wide open" etc.


I see your posting as a debate over the rights of ownership affected by a mouse click, rights that i *think* you are trying to change somehow.  You complain over your perception that others are not concerned enough over an issue about which you feel passionate.  Others feel you are overly idealistic.    Many opinions keep getting inserted having to do with the CSI forum, out of which this whole thing started anyway.    However, it is highly unlikely that this website will make the changes you want without consulting a lawyer... and however well intentioned your ideals are, the fact is that the lawyers who draw up these documents are obliged to advise their clients as to what their best interest is.  It is unlikely that a lawyer would agree that implementing your position is in the best interest of poz.com.   
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #68 on: February 19, 2007, 10:03:26 PM »
Philly, Vile? feel free to post it.

It was an immature PM from you which I deleted, in which you objected my suggestion of visiting East Hampton over Fire Island... but it was the tone of language that you used that was so incredibly offensive... condescending even.

Even if I had retained the PM I would not post it on the board as that is Internet 101 and against the rules, to post a private message in the public area.  Kind of like posting personal pictures in places where you wish for the world not to see them.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #69 on: February 19, 2007, 10:03:51 PM »
I fail to see how this is not the crux of the entire issue.

I fail to see how it is.

In my mind the Internet's being wide open -- and yes, my posts being accessible to anyone who chooses to read them -- is pretty different from surrendering my rights to my posts to some legal entity which could use them in any way, at any time in the future etc etc &c. I thought I'd written tedious reams about this recently.

The distinction is real enough to me.

And Sam, I know we're agreed on some fundamental things. I never meant to suggest you or anyone should stop posting here! Please continue to do so, of course, if you feel like it.

And while I was posting I also read RAB's response. Phewph, thank you for that point about tone.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #70 on: February 19, 2007, 10:04:59 PM »
I see your posting as a debate over the rights of ownership affected by a mouse click, rights that i *think* you are trying to change somehow.  You complain over your perception that others are not concerned enough over an issue about which you feel passionate.  Others feel you are overly idealistic.    Many opinions keep getting inserted having to do with the CSI forum, out of which this whole thing started anyway.    However, it is highly unlikely that this website will make the changes you want without consulting a lawyer... and however well intentioned your ideals are, the fact is that the lawyers who draw up these documents are obliged to advise their clients as to what their best interest is.  It is unlikely that a lawyer would agree that implementing your position is in the best interest of poz.com.   


Exactly, and furthermore, we all did agree to this set of circumstances when we became members.

I don't understand it because it seems like certain people are trying to retroactively get rights back that they agreed they didn't have when they signed up for this site in the first place.
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« Reply #71 on: February 19, 2007, 10:05:58 PM »
I fail to see how it is.

In my mind the Internet's being wide open -- and yes, my posts being accessible to anyone who chooses to read them -- is pretty different from surrendering my rights to my posts to some legal entity which could use them in any way, at any time in the future etc etc &c. I thought I'd written tedious reams about this recently.

The distinction is real enough to me.

And Sam, I know we're agreed on some fundamental things. I never meant to suggest you or anyone should stop posting here! Please continue to do so, of course, if you feel like it.

And while I was posting I also read RAB's response. Phewph, thank you for that point about tone.

Jay

And my point is, what's to stop anyone from coming in and using anyone's post for whatever purposes they desire? 

Nothing.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #72 on: February 19, 2007, 10:19:17 PM »
For the record - this is what you have to agree to to get entry to posting:

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By registering, you agree to abide by our website's "Terms of Use" and by the following Terms of Membership for these forums:
this sentence was just added recently by Peter.

When you register, you will need to choose a unique user name, or "handle." You will need to provide a working email address, so that if your forget your password, you can request an automated email reminder. You can choose to make your email address hidden or visible to others using a setting in your online profile.

Only one user name is permitted per member. The user name you select upon registering for the Forums should be the user name you remain with throughout your participation in the Forums. Maintaining more than one user name is a violation of these Terms of Membership and is subject to automatic removal from the Forums, locking of the multiple accounts (including the original account), and banning to prevent future registration.

Messages posted to the AIDSmeds.com Forums must not contain marketing information, either from a pharmaceutical company; a healthcare provider (i.e., seeking to provide services to the HIV community); or the manufacturer or distributor of a complementary, alternative, herbal, traditional, and/or surgical treatment approach.

The forums are not to be used for research recruitment purposes, unless cleared through the forums administrator by contacting editors@aidsmeds.com.

The premise of the AIDSmeds.com Forums, along with its parent site (AIDSmeds.com), is that HIV is the cause of AIDS. Individuals hoping to use the AIDSmeds.com Forums to disseminate ďdenialistĒ or ďdissidentĒ information will be automatically banned from the Forums.

The AIDSmeds.com Forums have been designed for HIV-positive people; their caregivers, friends, family, and loved ones; and people who fear they may have been exposed to the virus and require support while testing -- for educational purposes only. Any information received through the AIDSmeds.com Forums is intended to complement, not supplement, communication with a certified healthcare provider. No member or administrator of the Forums is certified to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease via AIDSmeds.com. All information found in the AIDSmeds.com Forums should be discussed with a healthcare provider.

These Forums reserves the right to edit or delete any message for any reason whatsoever, at our sole discretion.

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« Reply #73 on: February 19, 2007, 10:23:00 PM »
It's only after joining and taking the time (if you do) to read the "Terms of Use" that you learn what additional rules apply.

And I don't think that "tl;dr" is an excuse to get upset about it now.

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #74 on: February 19, 2007, 10:37:19 PM »
However, it is highly unlikely that this website will make the changes you want without consulting a lawyer... and however well intentioned your ideals are, the fact is that the lawyers who draw up these documents are obliged to advise their clients as to what their best interest is.  It is unlikely that a lawyer would agree that implementing your position is in the best interest of poz.com.   


Agreed. Which is what I indirectly said to Peter in my response. "That's that then." (The best interests of the lawyers' clients, POZ.com/S+S, and the best interests of the users of this service might never be congruent; let's at least hope they're never antagonistic, though color me a bit skeptical on this.) And, so, that further discussion is possibly fruitless. Thanks, anway, for calling me well-intentioned and idealistic  :) or even over-idealistic.  ;)

Just having read Benj's response. True, up to a point. But to me, finnicky though this may sound, there's a difference betwen a random individual (or individuals) quoting or using my post, having come upon it by chance or through a search, and having those posts be outright property of an entity which can market them. More to be said, of course, about the sort of protection granting copyright back confers, but enough's been said already; and I'd rather have lawyers weigh in first (if they do at all).

And now, having read Tucson's response, I come back to the point that many posters weren't even aware of the TOS as they were of the TOA. That's different now I suppose. Quote from TW: "It's only after joining and taking the time (if you do) to read the "Terms of Use" that you learn what additional rules apply." So a *click* of agreement once but not a *click* twice? (A poll on this?) Is there an exact date when they (the TOS) were framed and put on the new site? Or should we -- me and everyone else --just let this go? (See my response to puck above.)

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Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #75 on: February 19, 2007, 10:41:29 PM »
Just having read Benj's response. True, up to a point. But to me, finnicky though this may sound, there's a difference betwen a random individual (or individuals) quoting or using my post, having come upon it by chance or through a search, and having those posts be outright property of an entity which can market them. More to be said, of course, about the sort of protection granting copyright back confers, but enough's been said already; and I'd rather have lawyers weigh in first (if they do at all).


As I said, "tl;dr" and now ignorance are no excuse, in my opinion. 

The link to the Terms of Membership on the bottom of every page, and it's no secret that this site has additional rules in here (for example, there's nothing in the TOM about only poz people being able to post in certain forums).

And since we're using their servers, I'd say they do have a right to it.  A right which we never had and agreed we didn't have (whether we knew it or not) from the first post anyone puts in this forum.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #76 on: February 19, 2007, 10:42:16 PM »
AIDSmeds.com Terms & Conditions

1. ACCEPTANCE OF TERMS AND CONDITIONS OF SERVICE


Welcome to AIDSmeds.com. CDM Publishing, LLC, D.B.A. as Smart + Strong and AIDSmeds ("Smart + Strong" or "AIDSmeds") provides the Service to you ("you" or the "User"), subject to the following terms and conditions, as they may be amended from time to time (the "Ts and Cs"). Smart + Strong may amend or modify the Ts and Cs without notice, effective immediately, by posting the Ts and Cs on the AIDSmeds.com Web site or by otherwise notifying the User of the Ts and Cs. Smart + Strong reserves the right to discontinue, on a temporary or permanent basis, the Service (in whole or in part) without notice and without liability to the User. If the User uses the Service after Smart + Strong posts changes to the Ts and Cs, the User accepts the changed Ts and Cs.

By registering for or using the Service the User agrees to the Ts and Cs. Smart + Strong may offer certain services that will be governed by different or additional terms and conditions. All such additional terms and conditions are hereby incorporated by reference into the Ts and Cs.

2. DESCRIPTION OF SERVICE

Smart + Strong offers AIDSmeds Community Forums, online bulletin boards, and may offer other services, such as chat rooms, on its AIDSmeds.com Web site (the "Service") for use only under a nonexclusive, nontransferable, and nonassignable license subject to the Ts and Cs. The User does not have the right to copy, sell, or otherwise exploit for any commercial purpose the Service (in whole or in part), access to the Service or use of the Service. Any service added to the Service shall be governed by the Ts and Cs, unless Smart + Strong expressly provides that such service shall be governed by different terms and conditions.

The Service is provided "AS IS." Smart + Strong shall have no liability for any interruption, error, omission, deletion, defect, delay, or other problem with the Service.

3. ELIGIBILITY FOR MEMBERSHIP


The Service is available only to individuals who can form legally binding contracts under applicable law and are at least 18 years of age. If you are not at least 18 years of age, you may use the Service only if you are registered to use the Service by your parent or guardian and you are at least 14 years of age. Smart + Strong may refuse access to the Service to anyone, at any time, in its sole and absolute discretion.

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It is the User's responsibility to arrange, be responsible for and pay for the Internet access service connecting the User's computer to the Internet to enable the User to have access to the Service.

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You are advised not to join the Service if you are offended by adult-oriented conversations and material, as AIDSmeds Community Forums and other portions of the Service may include such content.

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To enable Smart + Strong to use and publish your information that you choose to make publicly available on AIDSmeds.com in connection with your use of the Service ("User Information"), the User grants Smart + Strong a nonexclusive, worldwide, perpetual, irrevocable, royalty-free, sublicenseable (through multiple tiers) right (including all moral rights) and license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, perform, prepare derivative works from, distribute, and display User Information (in whole or in part) and to incorporate it in other works, in any form, media or technology now known or later developed, for the full term of any rights that may exist in User Information.

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For further clarification, please see the U.S. Law on Copyrights, or see the websites of the U.S. Copyright Office or U.S. Trademark Office.

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The User shall not use the Service to communicate any unlawful, annoying, harassing, defamatory, libelous, abusive, threatening, harmful, vulgar, obscene or tortious content ("content" for purposes of the Ts and Cs shall mean data, textual material, software, sound recordings, audiovisual works, photographs or other illustrations or other information or materials) of any kind or any content that invades, infringes or violates the personal or proprietary rights of any person or entity. The User shall not attempt to gain unauthorized access to other networks that may be connected to the Service.

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Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #77 on: February 19, 2007, 10:42:18 PM »
Or should we -- me and everyone else --just let this go?

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #78 on: February 19, 2007, 10:47:06 PM »
Lydgate... there is no point in trying....

 Smart + Strong may amend or modify the Ts and Cs without notice, effective immediately, by posting the Ts and Cs on the AIDSmeds.com Web

You agreed to let them change it at their discretion.  it's all your fault.
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #79 on: February 20, 2007, 07:05:57 AM »
Actually not.  It can be argued in court that while S. and S. states: 'Smart + Strong may amend or modify the Ts and Cs without notice, effective immediately, by posting the Ts and Cs on the AIDSmeds.com Web site or by otherwise notifying the User of the Ts and Cs' that may not be sufficient notice under New York State or federal law, anymore than, to use my earlier example, a credit card company could change the terms and conditions without giving a card holder sufficient notification, allowing that holder to opt out.  Yes, we may agree to Terms of Use, but when such Terms of Use are in violation with case law, they are moot.  I suspect that multiple boiler plate was overlaid, the case going from 'The User' to 'you,' and so inconsistent. In some instances, S. and S. indemnifies itself.  In others, it posts what might be deemed rules without taking the responsibility for enforcing the 'rules' or otherwise indicating how such 'rules' will be enforced.  Either you draft it so that you (S. and S.) have nothing to do with what goes on (by indemnification) or you insist that The User will follow your regulations.  Win
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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #80 on: February 20, 2007, 07:23:02 AM »
Poet, this is not a credit card company, that uses secured sites. This is a forum that is unsecured. If you use IE to browse this forum it's not hard to tell that this forum is not secure. Do you see a padlock in the bottom right had corner telling you that you are on a secure website? No. No one would have a leagal stance. Yes anyone can take anyone about anything to court if they have the money for frivolous lawsuits. AidsMeds and S&S make it very clear in their policies.
« Last Edit: February 20, 2007, 07:24:46 AM by RapidRod »

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Re: Terms of Use; or what some might call Rabble Rousing
« Reply #81 on: February 20, 2007, 08:39:05 AM »
Dear All,

This is one of several similar threads in which positions have been clearly and repeatedly stated on the subject.

If there is still more that needs to to be said about the subject it will turn up.

In the meantime I am locking this thread.

Andy Velez

 


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