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Offline Ihavehope

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How long ago did you have sex?
« on: January 26, 2007, 09:28:52 PM »
I have not had sex in 7 months and I don't know when I am gonna get laid.

Ugh.
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #1 on: January 26, 2007, 09:32:42 PM »
It has been 2 years since I had sex. I do miss it but has a bob to get me over the rough patches.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #2 on: January 26, 2007, 09:35:38 PM »
I refuse to answer this
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #3 on: January 26, 2007, 09:37:25 PM »
I refuse to answer this

Then why say anything at all?  Just saying.....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #4 on: January 26, 2007, 09:38:20 PM »
It has been 2 years since I had sex. I do miss it but has a bob to get me over the rough patches.

I want a Bob.  (or a Joey, or a Tom, or a Louis, or a....)


It has been since about September for me.  *Le Sigh*
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #5 on: January 26, 2007, 09:55:20 PM »
Tim since September :o come over I will help you ;D

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #6 on: January 26, 2007, 09:57:10 PM »
Tim since September :o come over I will help you ;D

J.

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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #7 on: January 26, 2007, 09:59:38 PM »
Virgin... ummmm :P

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Offline Ihavehope

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #8 on: January 26, 2007, 10:00:42 PM »
 ??? :-X
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #9 on: January 26, 2007, 10:04:26 PM »
uppps ::)

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #10 on: January 26, 2007, 10:29:53 PM »
none in 2007 ... maybe i'm being kicked to the curb

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #11 on: January 26, 2007, 10:43:30 PM »
Une semaine.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #12 on: January 26, 2007, 10:49:39 PM »
AIDS isn't for sissies.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #13 on: January 26, 2007, 10:49:46 PM »

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #14 on: January 26, 2007, 10:50:42 PM »
shock!

Me too!  That's a long time for me... I'm not kidding.  I'm getting antsy.
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Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #15 on: January 26, 2007, 10:58:05 PM »
OK now I quote Alex:  Bitch.
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Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #16 on: January 26, 2007, 10:59:37 PM »
remember to include the ":D"

Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #17 on: January 26, 2007, 11:03:00 PM »
Oh!  Dear me!  Did I forget the little smiley?  ::)


Four months and counting...I'm getting testy.
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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #18 on: January 26, 2007, 11:05:49 PM »

  Last time was....  well it started anyways somewhere between 9:30 and 9:45pm... before that it was sometime after we got back from grocery shopping after 7pm... can't remember the exact time, sorry. :(
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #19 on: January 26, 2007, 11:36:05 PM »
 ::).... :o... :-*.... ;)
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Offline aztecan

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #20 on: January 26, 2007, 11:37:11 PM »
Before I answer, I have to know exactly what qualifies as "sex."???

Does it have to include another person?  

If not, then pretty recently, I think.

If it does, well ...  Hmmmmm.  

I can't remember. :-[

I seem to remember wanting to have sex with someone.

But actually having sex? With someone else involved?

I still can't remember.

SIGH,

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Offline Basquo

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #21 on: January 26, 2007, 11:48:28 PM »
I started to go through it all, but plead the 5th.

Offline thunter34

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #22 on: January 26, 2007, 11:57:40 PM »
 Last time was....  well it started anyways somewhere between 9:30 and 9:45pm... before that it was sometime after we got back from grocery shopping after 7pm... can't remember the exact time, sorry. :(

OK.  I take it back.   Thomas now gets the Bitch Award!   >:(


Phooey.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #23 on: January 27, 2007, 12:11:49 AM »
About two yeard, but I have complications from a back injury.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #24 on: January 27, 2007, 09:00:48 AM »
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #25 on: January 27, 2007, 09:23:51 AM »
About three weeks and like Aupoint I'm getting antsy.  Very.

Offline Razorbill

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #26 on: January 27, 2007, 09:48:33 AM »
PS - I really puzzled that so many great looking guys and gals are doing without.  Is it a choice? 

Offline Lis

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #27 on: January 27, 2007, 09:54:02 AM »

30 minutes...
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Offline Oh501sguy

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #28 on: January 27, 2007, 10:02:37 AM »
Are you talking good sex or are you talking cheap unmeaninful gotta get off sex?

I haven't had wonderful good sex with someone I care about in years.  Sad thing is thats all I really want.

Offline dtwpuck

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #29 on: January 27, 2007, 10:35:20 AM »
geez   i get antsy after a day ....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #30 on: January 27, 2007, 11:01:59 AM »
Let's see, it's 9:02 now, and I finished mopping up  jizz at about 8:45. so that would be about 17 minutes ago. Give or take a few either way. :) :)
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Offline Buckmark

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #31 on: January 27, 2007, 01:43:41 PM »
3 1/2 years -- August 2003.   Boy howdy...

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Offline Coffeechick88

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #32 on: January 27, 2007, 02:56:47 PM »
It's been way too long, though if I get too desparate, I could go for the sleazy ER doc who has made it very clear he wouldn't mind doing more.  He's already had a thing with at least EMT, rumoured another nurse.  He isn't a George Clooney or McDreamy either.  I don't know if it is worth it just to say I got to have sex in the on-call room..........
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #33 on: January 27, 2007, 03:57:37 PM »
Well...um...it's been at least three hours ago... ;D

And got a couple of HOT dates scheduled for later tonight!
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Offline Javicho

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #34 on: January 27, 2007, 04:06:29 PM »
Phone sex counts??? ::)

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #35 on: January 27, 2007, 04:29:00 PM »
....about one month now.....

Surprising to read many others have been without sex for a longer time...
But then, I did have my share.......2000 dates ( well, dates  euhmmm) or more ????? I really don't remember.

My excessive sex and maybe my sex addiction  stopped when I was diagnosed 20 years ago..

I can't say that I really miss sex. It is more the affection and feeling your loved one laying close to you that satisfies me... not that I hate sex....not at all....
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #36 on: January 27, 2007, 05:29:59 PM »
1) What do we mean (since we haven't answered this yet and need this thread to continue a long time) by having sex?  Again, by yourself or only if another person was involved?  2) I don't remember, it was so long ago (if we mean another person was involved,) but 3) having been a bodyworker in NYC, (a/k/a Will Bottom of 'connect with your butt') I had reached the point before arriving in MA that I was SO over it. :)  Win
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #37 on: January 27, 2007, 06:00:25 PM »
Last night.
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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #38 on: January 27, 2007, 06:27:25 PM »
Well if it means by myself, then it was 2 days ago. With another person, it has been 2 yrs. For me, I think it is by choice because I have raised my standards. No more young bucks unless they got their own crib and money cause I am done raising kids, no one who drinks too damn much and becomes an sloppy drunk, no one who does drugs other than weed, and no one who wants to spend more than one night! Since making those rules, there is no one in my area who qualifies. :(
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Offline Ihavehope

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #39 on: January 27, 2007, 06:38:38 PM »
Hey Queen

I am sure you will find a handsome fella who will treat you good. Do you go out and meet people? What about online personals? 2 yrs is a while but I respect your strength.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #40 on: January 27, 2007, 09:29:32 PM »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #41 on: January 27, 2007, 09:32:24 PM »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.

Eight hours. 
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #42 on: January 27, 2007, 09:33:35 PM »
currently reaching for a kleenex here.


not really.  but only about a few days.  if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot.  i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen.  didn't get my first one til 18, i think.  have had them bunches ever since.  


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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #43 on: January 27, 2007, 09:34:59 PM »
currently reaching for a kleenex here.


not really.  but only about a few days.  if i don't, um...do it myself, it tends to happen in my sleep a lot.  i never had so many wet dreams when i was a teen.  didn't get my first one til 18, i think.  have had them bunches ever since. 


file under:  more info than you ever needed to know.

I've never had a wet dream.

Masturbating three to four times a day might have something to do with that.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #44 on: January 27, 2007, 09:36:51 PM »
speaking of knockng out a nut...nice new pic

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #45 on: January 27, 2007, 09:41:03 PM »
speaking of knockng out a nut...nice new pic

i shall call it a salivatar

Whoo hoo!

Thank you, good sir!
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #46 on: January 27, 2007, 11:04:50 PM »
Yeah, I don't have wet dreams either.  Never have. 

And I masturbate religiously, though I've gone a few days between sessions if traveling.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #47 on: January 27, 2007, 11:49:42 PM »
I believe that it was December 12th if I remember correctly. I was visiting my partner in Thailand for the first time. We've been together now for almost 2 years but we had never met face to face before l visited in November this past year. We met online just after I had sero-converted in 2005 and talked about the monogamy thing. I decided the insane sex that I'd had up until then needed to be put back into perspective for me and this relationship even with it's distance has been just the ticket.

I do find I miss the sex but I think I miss the intimacy so much more.
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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #48 on: January 28, 2007, 01:12:46 AM »
I'm not going to answer this question but I am curious how long people have gone without any sexual release, including masturbation? Five months here.
Damn, it's gonna be one hell of a load when it does happen!  Earlier today, but it was with myself so it doesn't count.  Now I'm waiting for birthday sex, since it's now the 28th.

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Re: How long ago did you have sex?
« Reply #49 on: January 28, 2007, 05:57:42 AM »
In between the time God created the earth and Mosses parted the water. Or was it right after Adam ate the apple? I just can't remember.

 


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