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Author Topic: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??  (Read 3983 times)

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Offline juanrod83

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Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« on: January 08, 2007, 11:30:58 PM »
I had drunk sex with an unknow South American woman 48 hours ago in Colombia. She was described by my friend as "slutty". It was my frist time. The facts are:

1. We kissed strongly.
2. I masturbated her and I have a small cut on my pointer finger (looks red but didnt ever bleed) and another on my thumb from eating my nails but it didnt even look red.
3. I did cunilingus without protection for max. 1 min. I might have chapped lips but no open sores.
4. I was about to have unprotected vaginal sex so my penis touched her "wet" vaginal lips for a second, and then I put on a condom rather carefully. I wasnt completely erect though.
5. My erection was inconsistent and was never strong enough, but the condom never slipped off.
6. We had sex in different positions for about 5 mins and I never ejaculated. I didnt really reach a deep penetration I think.
7. I took the condom off after a good while of trying to get another erection but fortunately never happenned so we desisted.

I would like to know my chances of infection, if I should get PPE and when should I get tested? What doctor should I visit? Im very anxious about this. Thank you.

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2007, 11:37:19 PM »
I forgot to mention that I woke up having strong muscular tiredness and fatigue (sleepiness) and felling quite sored muscles. I have been having diarrhea since 18 hours after the situation. I still have diarrhea and it is growing worst, it wasnt that bad for the last 24 hours.

Thank you.

P.D: Ill request an appointment with my doctor, what specialist should I see?

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #2 on: January 09, 2007, 03:49:37 AM »
You don't need PEP, you don't need an HIV test. What you do need, is to slack off the booze before you ever attempt to have sex. Sex and alcohol abuse don't mix. I don't think I would be calling any one slutty until you look in the mirror.

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #3 on: January 09, 2007, 06:52:12 AM »
juan,

Nothing you report is a risk for hiv infection. Kissing is not a risk. Going down on a woman is not a risk. Touching the tip of your penis to her outer genitals is not a risk. Protected intercourse is not a risk. Condoms have been proven to prevent hiv infection.

Please read through the Welcome Thread and follow the Transmission link so you can gain a better understanding of what is and what is not a risk for hiv infection.

They symptoms of hiv infection, if they happen at all, do not happen within 48 hours. The happen between two and four weeks after infection has taken place. Whatever is causing your diarrhea has nothing to do with hiv. Symptoms or even the lack of symptoms mean nothing when it comes to hiv infection. Only testing will reveal your hiv status.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2007, 11:09:46 PM »
Ann and Rod,

Thank you very much for your answer.

As for the "slutty" word, I was trying to illustrate the stuation better, since I was a virgin. Your are right about it, and should not refer to her like that. And I understand the risk of worng decisions while drunk.

I didnt mention that I opened the condom package with my teeth, but noticed nothing weird (it was very dark though). It didnt feel weird and I didnt notice anything strange in the condom when I took it off with clear light but durnk eyes.

I have had a much calmer today and realised my symptoms of illness are due to a mix of stress and guilt. Your comments really helps calm down paranoia and make people realise how they need to be aware of risks and how to avoid it, more than reading the thread, this personal direct message helped me feel a lot better.

I want to visit a doctor to start having regular check-ups, what kind of doctor must it be (family, urologist, infectologist, etc...)?

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #5 on: January 10, 2007, 05:36:57 AM »
juan,

Most places have sexual health care clinics. Your local hospital or your family doctor should be able to tell you where to find your local clinic.

Ann
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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #6 on: January 10, 2007, 10:44:13 AM »
Hey, To answer your question a drunk never really knows exactly what they did... generally its alittle blurred memory... you may think you put a condom on correctly but, theres a doubt you might not have... so to just be sure wait for a few months then go get tested for all std's and hiv... and if your sexually active its best to get tested at least once a year. good luck!

Offline juanrod83

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #7 on: July 23, 2007, 10:49:23 PM »
Hey guys,

Hope you are all doing well.

I just wanted to check by and tell you that I got tested in my general annual health check and the result was neg.

Keep up with this great work you're doing. I have been now much more aware of the risks and the way to protect myself.

Good luck!!

Juan-.

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Re: Unprotected oral - "protected" vaginal - Chances of infection??
« Reply #8 on: July 24, 2007, 05:09:48 AM »
Juan,

Keep using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will continue to avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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