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Author Topic: Real risk from stripper ?  (Read 4611 times)

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Offline camaro

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Real risk from stripper ?
« on: June 13, 2006, 08:11:44 PM »

This is going to sound so stupid of what I did but here it is.  I got a handjob from a stripper that was totally nude.  Towards the end I jerked it myself while she was masturbating herself.  AFTER I came she then started to rub the end of my penis with the same fingers that she was masturbating with.  She continued to play with my cum and rub it all over the tip and shaft.  I came to my senses and left.  I was unable to clean until I got home a half an hour later. 

My question is that since her fluids came in contact with mine am I at risk ?  Does the fact that I did not clean for 1/2 hour increase the risk ?

If the answer is no risk even though I am pretty sure this is very risky please explain why and how this works.

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #1 on: June 13, 2006, 08:14:12 PM »
I urge you to read the lessons on transmission here. You can get HIV through unprotected penetrative vaginal and/or anal sex.

The lessons section covers the very stuff you asked.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Offline camaro

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #2 on: June 13, 2006, 08:24:25 PM »
Very confused by your answer - Are you saying that what happened is the same as if I had sex since the fluids were mixed from her hand ? or are you saying that I had to have sex to be at risk.  I read the lessons but your response is freaking me out.

Please clarify your answer.


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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #3 on: June 13, 2006, 09:06:39 PM »
Very confused by your answer - Are you saying that what happened is the same as if I had sex since the fluids were mixed from her hand ? or are you saying that I had to have sex to be at risk.  I read the lessons but your response is freaking me out.

Please clarify your answer.



What JK is trying to tell you that the answers to your questions are contained in the lessons sections. Read them carefully and you'll find that what you describe is in no way a risk for HIV transmission.

You do not need to test. There is no need to freak out.

MtD

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #4 on: June 14, 2006, 05:52:53 AM »
Camaro,

What you describe falls into the category of mutual masturbation. Mutual masturbation is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection.

Successful hiv transmission occurs INSIDE the human body as the virus quickly becomes damaged when outside the body.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple! Have a read through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use those condoms with confidence.

And please read through the Welcome Thread for links to further information.

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #5 on: June 14, 2006, 09:15:48 PM »
Does anyone else have any input on this - the CDC says it is a risk and the GHMC says no risk.  I am still in need of some additional input on the situation.

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #6 on: June 14, 2006, 09:21:53 PM »
Does anyone else have any input on this - the CDC says it is a risk and the GHMC says no risk.  I am still in need of some additional input on the situation.

Camaro,

Trust us and the GHMC on this one -- there is absolutely no risk of contracting HIV from what you describe.

Regards,

MtD

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #7 on: June 14, 2006, 09:22:36 PM »
This site does NOT allow misinformation to go unchallenged. If more people are not responding, then it can be assumed that there is no disagreement.

No risk from a stripper, unless you have unprotected penetrative sex with her.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Offline camaro

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #8 on: June 15, 2006, 10:07:44 PM »

Are you guys sure about this I think I am coming down with something.  I have a headache and a fever.  Is this ARS?

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #9 on: June 15, 2006, 10:22:24 PM »
Yes, we're sure. And the CDC does NOT say mutual masturbation is a risk for HIV transmission.

No one who knows anything about HIV transmission says mutual masturbation is a risk.

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Re: Real risk from stripper ?
« Reply #10 on: June 16, 2006, 04:58:30 AM »
Are you guys sure about this I think I am coming down with something.  I have a headache and a fever.  Is this ARS?

Camaro,

How could it be ARS? You haven't had a risk of infection. What happened with the stripper is mutual masturbation and not one person has ever become infected this way. You will not be the first.

Sexually speaking, hiv is transmitted through unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse and rarely, through giving blowjobs. Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse and you will avoid hiv infection. It really, really is that simple!

You did NOT have a risk of hiv infection.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

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HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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