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Author Topic: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!  (Read 4522 times)

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Offline Johnny Guaylupo

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WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« on: December 21, 2006, 09:51:02 PM »
Why is it that after I have sex with my regular not my partner just a sexual thing, but why do I crave sex all the time..

Especially at night...I can't remember a day I didn't think about sex..
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Offline Eldon

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #1 on: December 21, 2006, 09:56:08 PM »
Supporting You

Hey Johnny...

There  are a number of reasons that can, may or will induce these series of thoughts within you. From what you described, you have a high Sex Drive.




Take care of YOU!



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Offline poet

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #2 on: December 22, 2006, 06:36:39 AM »
The warning light flashes when, after having sex with someone, you immediately seek to have sex with someone else in the same way that someone with an eating disorder craves, not wants, food right after putting down a fork or an alcoholic seeks drink after drink after drink.  I am not saying that you have this problem, but hope that you will see whether you feel 'in heat' all the time or compelled toward sex, which is what compulsive sex amounts to, especially if having sex leaves you empty of any feeling other than the compulsion to have sex again.  For most people, it's because the sex that they are having isn't fulfilling sex, is more like going through the motions of stick it in and take it out.  Win
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Offline Dachshund

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #3 on: December 22, 2006, 08:08:57 AM »
Enjoy it kid...in time it will pass.
« Last Edit: December 22, 2006, 08:11:26 AM by Dachshund »

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #4 on: December 22, 2006, 08:51:50 AM »
Why is it that after I have sex with my regular not my partner just a sexual thing, but why do I crave sex all the time..

Especially at night...I can't remember a day I didn't think about sex..

Maybe you're just a whore, sweetie.  ;D

Offline David_CA

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #5 on: December 22, 2006, 09:42:15 AM »
Maybe you're just a whore, sweetie.  ;D

Hey, I resemble that remark!

D
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Offline Buckmark

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #6 on: December 22, 2006, 11:47:39 AM »
Hi Johnny,

I think about sex every day (and every night).  Most guys I know do too, so
that in and of itself doesn't seem to be a problem.

Perhaps when it becomes a problem is when you feel you can't control your
need to have sex (compulsive, as poet says), or when it drives you to take
risks, or it damages your relationships with others.

Regards,

Henry
"Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things:
     One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell.
     The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love."
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Offline marco23

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #7 on: December 22, 2006, 01:34:44 PM »
Well,
bend me over and call me happy..... sounds as if I have finally found my long lost twin.
Don't hide your hurt, pain and feelings inside..for they will harden your heart.

Offline bravebuddharich

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #8 on: December 22, 2006, 01:47:35 PM »
This may or may not be helpful, you decide: but maybe you might read "Cruise Control" by Robert Weiss, and take a look to see if you might not have an addiction to sex. I myself am a sex addict (recovering, with occasional slips). I still very much enjoy sex, and am seeking a partner, but it doesn't consume as much of my energy as I hear from a few of you on these posts. You don't have to give up sex, just to work on the addiction, if in fact you are one. There is an excellent "quiz" to determine - by answering honestly - whether or not it applies to you.

Metta,

Rich from Boston

Offline Jnm594

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #9 on: December 22, 2006, 05:24:11 PM »
Please, I get a hardon when I see a guy in a pickup or the bagboy at Safeway hands me my groceries. If I'm ho then I'm a ho. I don't want to think about it, I just want to do it. ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) ::)
When it gets hard I always listen to my favorite song of all time..........

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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #10 on: December 22, 2006, 05:28:09 PM »


   Ummmm you are a man...
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline aupointillimite

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #11 on: December 22, 2006, 05:39:58 PM »
Maybe you're just a whore, sweetie.  ;D

Since I also resemble this remark, I would like to reiterate that I prefer to term "sexually exuberant."  You know... because of my delicate, easily offended sensibilities.   ;D

And Johnny... I wouldn't worry about it too much personally.  You're a guy.  We think about sex a lot.

In fact, I'm thinking about it right now.  ::)
Your tastebuds can't repel flavor of this magnitude!

Offline thunter34

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #12 on: December 22, 2006, 05:42:51 PM »
Take care of YOU!


Is Eldon saying to jack off?


Oh!  And I've always opted for the term 'Sexual Enthuisiast'.


Hey...some people like to sky dive....
« Last Edit: December 22, 2006, 05:45:00 PM by thunter34 »
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Offline Eldon

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #13 on: December 22, 2006, 08:05:03 PM »
Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Tim...

That can, may or will be one of the things. However, I was sharing that in general for him to look out for himself and stuff.

Enjoy your Holiday Season.

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Offline thunter34

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #14 on: December 22, 2006, 08:07:46 PM »
LMAO!  I know that Eldon!  I just couldn't resist the opportunity!  You should know that about me by now....you usually already know when to add a LOL in there even if I don't type one!

Bless your metaphysical heart!   :D

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Offline Eldon

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #15 on: December 22, 2006, 08:12:50 PM »
Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Tim...

When you wake up in the morning and it is staring you in the face, you dare not resist the opportunity to take care of YOU! LOL!

Enjoy your Holiday Season.

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Offline aupointillimite

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #16 on: December 22, 2006, 08:14:03 PM »

When you wake up in the morning and it is staring you in the face, you dare not resist the opportunity to take care of YOU! LOL!

I'd like to double that entendre, please.
Your tastebuds can't repel flavor of this magnitude!

Offline thunter34

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #17 on: December 22, 2006, 08:16:35 PM »
Holy Smokes!


Our Eldon made a Boner-fide FUNNY !!!
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline Eldon

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #18 on: December 22, 2006, 08:17:39 PM »
Yes, I AM Supporting You

Hey Aupoint...

I triple dare you! LOL!

Enjoy your Holiday Season.

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Offline Lou-ah-vull

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #19 on: December 22, 2006, 10:54:51 PM »
I simply can't TOP these remarks, though I resemble them too.....

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Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #20 on: December 23, 2006, 04:42:00 PM »
Ok, you have a partner and someone else you can get it from? Methinks you protest too much. I have not had sex in over a year. The only partner I have is "BOB", I would kill to have a nice hard one over here right now.


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Offline marco23

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #21 on: December 23, 2006, 04:48:06 PM »
Oh Queen,
no sex in over a year? ........I need to catch my breath....the room is spinning.....
Don't hide your hurt, pain and feelings inside..for they will harden your heart.

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #22 on: December 23, 2006, 04:52:28 PM »
Now don't pass out....You might wake up and find me on top of you...... ;D
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Offline marco23

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #23 on: December 23, 2006, 05:04:30 PM »
Honey,
that'll be perfectly fine with me.......I like to go with the flow...... ;)
Don't hide your hurt, pain and feelings inside..for they will harden your heart.

Offline Queen Tokelove

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #24 on: December 23, 2006, 05:15:46 PM »
Hmmm, that  sounds like an invite....Where you at? ;D
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2/6/08 CD4- 401 VL- undetectable
5/7/08 CD4- 705 VL- undetectable
6/4/08 CD4- 775 VL- undetectable
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11/13/08 CD4- 774 VL--undetectable
2/4/09  CD4- 484  VL- 18,000 (2 months off meds)
3/3/09---Starting Back on Meds---
4/27/09 CD4- 664 VL-- undetectable
6/17/09 CD4- 438 VL- 439
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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #25 on: December 23, 2006, 05:21:56 PM »
Because you're a man?

(Sorry guys: answer aimed at thread title/original poster)

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Offline Johnny Guaylupo

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #26 on: December 28, 2006, 12:45:35 AM »
"Maybe I'm a whore"

I don't think that has anything to do with craving for sex...I don't see my partner all the time..and I don't play around...

I think that was rude for you to post but it's ok..I'm not going to stress your reply but just thought I would comment..
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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #27 on: December 28, 2006, 09:25:22 AM »
Why is it that after I have sex with my regular not my partner just a sexual thing, but why do I crave sex all the time..

Especially at night...I can't remember a day I didn't think about sex..


You might to look into having your testosterone levels checked. High testo will increase libido. It can be brought down to a normal level.

Offline ACinKC

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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #28 on: December 28, 2006, 09:26:42 AM »
Cause you have a penis?

Just a thought....
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
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Re: WHY AM I ALWAYS IN NEED OF SEX!!
« Reply #29 on: December 28, 2006, 04:06:40 PM »
Johnny, I will say is perfectly fine, I want to have sex every minute even at work some times is hard for me to get up of my desk, especially when i see a Picture of Tim or Paul anyone can see what is in my mind ;)

Marco that will make us triplets :P

J

 


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