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Author Topic: BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!  (Read 1499 times)

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Offline ACinKC

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BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!
« on: December 10, 2006, 12:23:28 PM »
Bigggums,

We are here for you and if there is anything I can do from KC let me know!

Please listen to the advice that is going to follow in your thread and this one!  PEOPLE CHECK OUT HIS THREAD!!!!
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
in a pretty and well-preserved body, but, rather to skid in broadside,
thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming--WOW! WHAT A
RIDE!!!

Offline Biggums

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Re: BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!
« Reply #1 on: December 10, 2006, 12:59:31 PM »
Thanks for this buddy.  I dont know what can be done though.  Putting him in jail or something else isn't going to solve my problem.  I just don't see any other way out, at least it will end the pain.  Love.
44 year old gay man .......just broke up with the only man I've ever really loved.

You can love completely without complete understanding.

Offline Longislander

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Re: BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!
« Reply #2 on: December 10, 2006, 01:11:00 PM »
Putting him in jail IS going to help YOUR problem.  Don't worry about him right now, you need to worry about you. You can decide not to press charges AFTER he returns your $ .  Call your local suicide hotline or get yourself to a therapist-please.

I'm sorry buddy, but this isn't what love is all about~

Time to think about you.

Paul
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

Offline FiercenBed

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Re: BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!
« Reply #3 on: December 10, 2006, 02:33:16 PM »
jeeesh......separate the issues. ur looking at it in one big overwhelming picture. focus on the money. god knows hiv people need money. if u rent there not gonna throw u out in the streets tomrw. if u have a mortgage it takes 3 months for foreclosure. go get a temp job. go to one of those check cashing places and get urself $100 to hold ya over. go to the grocery store and write a bad check and cover it later.  then get urself up on ur feet.

as for the dickhead bf....do what fags do best....be bitter......get even......call the police...demand to file a report whether his name was on the account or not. go to where he hangs out and tell his friends what hez done. write that his a dick head on the wall of the bathroom @ the local gay bar.<thatz always a good one> call his cell phone once every 5 minutes and fill up his voice mail.  call his job. tell them his a thief. send anonymous faxes to his work that hez a thief. <as u can c iv bn through this before; both sides>

i know itz easier said then done but ya gota start somewhere. as for suicide....give it some thought before u act. i know i have. think of the mess it will cause. and whats the point of hurting urself just because of a 'blip' in life's events. now if ur @ death's door steps due to a medical issue come back and talk to me then. if things r really as bad as u state id look @ it as a chance to pick up and move and start again.

dude......i just read the part about the sexual harassment. get urself an attorney!

my 2 cents.
« Last Edit: December 10, 2006, 02:56:14 PM by FiercenBed »

Offline Longislander

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Re: BIGGUMS NEEDS SOME HELP PEOPLE AND NOW!!!!
« Reply #4 on: December 10, 2006, 02:49:44 PM »
I have to agree about the atty/dept of labor. When's the hearing on the charges???


(shoot Fierce-I ain't dating you! lol :o)
infected 10/05 diagnosed 12-05
2/06   379/57000                    6/07 372/30500 25%   4/09 640/U/32% 
5/06   ?? /37000                     8/07 491/55000/24%    9/09 913/U/39%
8/06   349/9500 25%              11/07 515/68000/24     2/10 845/U/38%
9/06   507/16,000 30% !          2/08  516/116k/22%    7/10 906/80/39%
12/06 398/29000 26%             Start Atripla 3/08
3/07   402/80,000 29%            4/08  485/undet!/27
4/07   507/35,000 25%            7/08 625/UD/34%
                                                 11/08 684/U/36%

 


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