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Author Topic: riskyness of taking condom off after anal sex but further anal contact  (Read 2126 times)

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Offline bk24

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I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice...

I'm worried about a one night stand I had in August.

I fucked a guy with a condom and he fucked me, also with a condom. I then took my condom off and wanked myself off. I was underneath him and my cock was touching the entrance to his arse and rubbed against it. I've now read that you can get HIV from Anal mucus and through the urethra. I'm wondering if anyone knows how risky the above is because we used lube and I'm worried mucus would have come outside to the entrance of his arse?


Offline RapidRod

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Re: riskyness of taking condom off after anal sex but further anal contact
« Reply #1 on: December 08, 2006, 06:54:04 PM »
What you did is considered frottage. You were not at risk for HIV infection.

edited; because of the language lesson I received from my teacher Ann ;)
« Last Edit: December 09, 2006, 07:52:24 AM by RapidRod »

Offline bk24

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Re: riskyness of taking condom off after anal sex but further anal contact
« Reply #2 on: December 08, 2006, 07:04:48 PM »
thank you, your reply is appreciated  :)

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: riskyness of taking condom off after anal sex but further anal contact
« Reply #3 on: December 08, 2006, 09:27:19 PM »
As Rod has indicated, frottage is not a risk.

But please read the lesson on Transmission on this site. You can find a link to it in the Welcome thread which opens this section. Get the basics down about HIV transmission. It will spare you a lot of unnecessary worry, help you to protect your health and allow you to enjoy your sexuality.

Andy Velez


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