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Offline nedstarksbastard

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hive through blister in tongue
« on: June 11, 2014, 12:55:49 PM »
Hello all. About 3 days back I brought home a girl that I barely knew. We cuddled and dry humped for around 30 minutes. We never kissed on the lips but I did kiss her on neck, back and cheeks intermittently. At one point I mildly bit her, more like nibbled. I don't think it would have punctured her skin but my mind is playing tricks with me. I did ask her later if I gave her any love bites and she said she doesn't know of any. I did have a small blister right at the tip of my tongue and this is the cause of all my worry. What are the chances of any amount of blood on her skin to seep through that blister. I don't remember seeing or tasting any blood at all but I have heard even microscopic quantities can do it. I consider myself to be a very anxious person and have irrational fears from time to time. My anxiety shot up the time she said she was heavily involved in kink and BDSM in the past. I don't like to be judgemental but its been eating away at me since. I will get tested soon but for now it would be nice to get an opinion from experts in this area.
« Last Edit: June 11, 2014, 01:12:15 PM by nedstarksbastard »

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Re: hive through blister in tongue
« Reply #1 on: June 11, 2014, 01:12:26 PM »
HIV is transmitted from ...
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex .
Sharing IV drug rigs shortly after an infected person .
Mother to child during or shortly after childbirth .

You have not had a risk for HIV by any stretch of the imagination .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: hive through blister in tongue
« Reply #2 on: June 11, 2014, 01:19:33 PM »
Well there are documented medical reports that detail cases of HIV transmission through biting and oral sex. Pardon me if I am bit of a stickler but that seemed like a generic answer. I am specifically worried about transmission of microscopic quantities of blood going through the blister on my tongue. Have there ever been any cases such as the one I describe above and what are the odds. Thats the only plausible way of me getting infected as we never made out and our genitalia were never in direct contact.

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Re: hive through blister in tongue
« Reply #3 on: June 11, 2014, 01:35:11 PM »
Well there are documented medical reports that detail cases of HIV transmission through biting and oral sex. Pardon me if I am bit of a stickler but that seemed like a generic answer. I am specifically worried about transmission of microscopic quantities of blood going through the blister on my tongue. Have there ever been any cases such as the one I describe above and what are the odds. Thats the only plausible way of me getting infected as we never made out and our genitalia were never in direct contact.

It doesn't matter what documented medical reports may claim, as you never had a risk.  HIV is a very fragile virus and once it leaves the host, changes in temperature and Ph render the HIV unable to infect.  The mouth is another barrier in that saliva contains various proteins and enzymes that alter HIV and render it unable to infect.  Further, the type of skin cells on your tongue, are not the type of cells that HIV can attack.

You never had a risk and you have no need of testing, other than for you own piece of mind.

Joe

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Re: hive through blister in tongue
« Reply #4 on: June 11, 2014, 01:40:09 PM »
You did not have a risk for HIV and no one has ever been infected in the manner you are concerned with ... so get over it and move on . Ask a unique question and you will get a unique answer .

You said ...  I consider myself to be a very anxious person and have irrational fears from time to time .

If you cant accept you did not have a risk then go test, I gave you the facts and that's all we can do here . We can not address your anxiety or irrational fears .   

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Re: hive through blister in tongue
« Reply #5 on: June 11, 2014, 05:16:41 PM »
Thanks for taking the time out to respond. I didn't mean any disrespect and really did think it was a scenario worth discussing. I couldn't find any info regarding transmission of minuscule quantity of blood through a blister in tongue. I know it is a far-fetched scenario but still a theoretical possibility so wanted to know more about. I really appreciate your replies though and can't thank the people behind this forum enough.

 


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