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Author Topic: I'm uncircumcised and I had sex with a prostitute - Improperly removed condom  (Read 1247 times)

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Offline gygabyes

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Yesterday I had a prostitute come to my hotel room and we had sex about 5 times - vaginally and anally.
I used condoms each time we had intercourse (always had condom when I was inside of her, it never broke) but when I removed it a few times, the outer part (which goes inside of her) came in contact with the head of my penis and the mucous membrane under my foreskin.

Also when I removed the condom (I just grabbed it and pulled it off, so I got her fluids on my hands, and it was quite wet) - I masturbated myself before finishing.

What are the risks of me being infected (even if the risk is small, but still there), and should I get tested because of this event?

Offline Jeff G

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You did not have a risk removing a condom ... not even a slight risk .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI.Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Offline gygabyes

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If it's not too much to ask, what part of the process of removing the condom does not put me at risk, or masturbating with her vaginal fluid on my hands?

From what I understand, HIV can live outside the body for a few short minutes before being useless - but as this happened in seconds, and I have a foreskin with a mucous membrane, wouldn't this be fast enough for an infection?

I'm not discrediting what you said - I respect your knowledge and experience, I'm just curious (and as many who think they may have "caught" HIV, I'm looking for holes). :-)

Offline Jeff G

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HIV is fragile and hard to transmit . Once outside the the human body small changes and temperature and PH levels damage HIV and render it unable to infect ... instantly . This is why no one in the history of the epidemic has ever been infected from removing a condom .

Offline gygabyes

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So when it's said that the virus can survive a few minutes outside the body - that's still true, but the moment it comes in contact with an environment outside of a human body, the outer shell of it gets destroyed instantly, which makes it still "alive" but unable to infect?

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So when it's said that the virus can survive a few minutes outside the body - that's still true, but the moment it comes in contact with an environment outside of a human body, the outer shell of it gets destroyed instantly, which makes it still "alive" but unable to infect?
Once outside the body the virus is unable infect. HIV is not alive it is either active or inactive.


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