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oral sex precum giving and receiving
« on: May 20, 2014, 12:46:17 AM »
Hello I'm quite concerned about a situacion I'm living right now. I met this guy over an app and we went out a couple of times. One time we went his place and we got naked and had mutual blowjobs he did not ejaculate in my mouth or face but my chest and I came on his face. Despite I did not ingest any semen there was precum present at the time I blew him off.  We shared kisses while sucking each other.

This situation repeated a second time and I asked him about his status to he replied making jokes.

A third time occured a couple of days ago  and I Did not suck him off because I was feeling really scared. howeve, he did suck me.  I have read about type of risks and low risks and I the number of exposures and I feel really scared that he does ot take serious my concerns. So, my question is: how's the probability of being infected, I didnt check for . I have been trying to keep calmed but I am really scared that I got infected by precum exposure and the unknown of his status.


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Re: oral sex precum giving and receiving
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2014, 08:41:23 AM »
Getting and giving blow jobs is the safest of safe sex so you need not worry you were infected from getting or giving blow jobs in the situation .

There have been no fewer than three separate serodiscordant couples studies (where one person is HIV positive, the other negative.) These couples were tracked for three. five and ten years. The couples used condoms for penetrative vaginal and anal sex, but NO BARRIER at all for oral sex. Any kind of oral sex.

These studies yielded NO infections.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: oral sex precum giving and receiving
« Reply #2 on: June 04, 2014, 11:15:57 AM »
Hello, First at all thank you for such a great job you do here!

Let me tell you my story. 8 weeks from now I had an unprotected oral encounter (me giving head) with a guy I have been dating. In fact there were multiple times giving and receiving. I am not sure if there were mouth lacerations in either of us as well as HIV status. I'm negative and I am concerned about my status but I am also aware that there is nothing that I can do at this point.

I am planning to take an HIV Elisa 4th generation test and I would like to know whether the resoults are reliable at the time and when I should do a follow up test.

Can you tell me if this exam is reliable and how many weeks shall I do the follow up test. I do not have a trusted physician and in my country mentioning HIV is to put a mark over your forehead so I appreciate all the information you can provide in here.

Thank you very much.

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Re: oral sex precum giving and receiving
« Reply #3 on: June 04, 2014, 11:21:33 AM »
Please only post in this one thread no matter how long between visits or subject matter . You can find this thread by visiting your profile and selecting show own post .

You have not had a risk for HIV so please read this thread again . I you want to test for peace of mind you can use any standard antibody test .


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