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hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« on: May 11, 2014, 08:35:29 AM »
hey guys,

Ok so here is how my story goes, Im From Australia, So about close to the end of february 29/2/14 or early march 2/3/14 i went to a brothel , which have asian ladies.

i received a 5-10minute unprotected blowjob , felt maybe just abit rough at times, anyways i thought if shes giving unprotected blowjob it must be safe. anyways after the blowjob when i got home i noticed their was some sort of bubbley like wart with a grey cloudy surface just right under the tip of my penis, that really , Really scared me !

so i went again this time around 26/3/14 and received 2 unprotected blowjobs from a asian csw, their dental hygien didn't seem the greatest, and her breath did smell at times. now i do regret it all, thinking it was all safe.

But little did i know....

So 2 weeks after my last blowjob, these are the following symptoms i received ..

- Bad headache Lasting around 2 days
- night sweats ( not soo drenched , just chest,back and neck felt moist and just abit wet, though at one point i drenched my pillow and half my shirt )
- swollen lyhmpnode on my throat and right under my jaws and 1 on my neck
- diarrhea or loose stools
- random itching occurring alot
- felt fatigued ( not sure if my anxiety caused it )
- not much of an appetite ( again not sure if my anxiety caused it )
- white/yellowish coating at the back of my tongue ( starting to cover the front slowly )
- very mild sore throat ( it looks all red at the back of my throat + im starting to see some whitish/yellowish lines at the back of my throat , they dont look like spots more like a line )
- red spots under my tongue ( not sure if thats normal )

- rash ( not sure if it was a rash but was only on poth sides of my pecs which is the area i shaved , so not really sure, though it's disspearing , had it for a week and more then half of it is gone )

- 4-5 itchy pimple like spots on each side of my groin ( iv had a fungal infection down there for 2 years so i dont know if thats the cause , but i dont ever remember seeing them )

- abdominal pain for half a day ( was only that day and thats it )

now im sure i had more symptoms but i cant remember a the moment.

i had a test around 10/4/14 for all stds all came back negative except herpes type 1 ( which iv always had coldsores since i was younger ) so i didn't really freak out on that )

and then i had another test on 29/4/14 which was a hiv antibodies and hiv antigen test, came back negative.

though i still have the oral thrush with the same throat for about a month now, which scares me.... most of the other symptoms are all gone, i still have loose stools and the oral thrush with the red throat that looks infected.

and i found out those asian workers where from overseas, as iv read about the visa loophole thats been exploited in here in australia, so basically these women are sexworkers or innocents from overseas, like asian countries and whatnot, that have been put into the sex industry so sex slaves or something idk. but most of them can't speak proper english and i found out the brothel i went to, was known to do that..... which why now im freaking out, it still is a legal brothel, though they're doing illegal exploits...... could these girls maybe not be tested? since they come from high hiv areas or countries. i spoke to the owner of the brothel or the worker, he said they gets tests every 2-3 months. but i dont believe him.

how assuring is my tests?

i also forgot to mention the second time i got a blowjob, i had very little cuts on my penis shaft from shaving 4 hours before i recieived oral, is that enough to get hiv?
« Last Edit: May 11, 2014, 08:43:09 AM by firstmoon »

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Re: hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« Reply #1 on: May 11, 2014, 08:42:34 AM »
Moon,

Getting a blowjob is absolutely not a risk for hiv infection, regardless of whatever details you can think of to add. Not one person has ever been infected through getting blown and you're not going to be the first.

You do not need further hiv testing unless you've been having unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse with anyone else that you failed to mention.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED FURTHER HIV TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Re: hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« Reply #2 on: May 11, 2014, 08:52:12 AM »
thanks Ann,
So are my tests conclusive, or should i go back this week and do one?

because i know that last test i did was 1 month from my last exposure and 6 weeks from my 1st exposure.

Also i either have pharyngitis or Oral Thrush or Candida, is that a symptom you get when serconverting or ars?

or is it more towards when you're developing aids or more advanced into hiv?

thanks once again

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Re: hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« Reply #3 on: May 11, 2014, 12:57:10 PM »
thanks Ann,
So are my tests conclusive, or should i go back this week and do one?

because i know that last test i did was 1 month from my last exposure and 6 weeks from my 1st exposure.

Also i either have pharyngitis or Oral Thrush or Candida, is that a symptom you get when serconverting or ars?

or is it more towards when you're developing aids or more advanced into hiv?

thanks once again
You never had an exposure and you are not having ARS.

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Re: hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« Reply #4 on: May 12, 2014, 03:31:19 AM »
thanks Ann and RapidRod,

I will put my trust in you guys, since you seem so certain and confident i had no Risk at all, just to have a peace of mind, i will get tested this week, making it the 6th week from my last exposure and my 3rd HIV test, if that's negative, then i am %100 sure i will have nothing to worry about, Even my Doctor asked to me stop worrying and seek counseling.
 
just a last question: is it possible to get Syphilis/Hep B and C from Receiving a Blowjob?  if it is, what are my chances?

And Is HIV P24 Antigen and HIV Antibody test reliable at 4-6 weeks?

Once again thanks Ann and RapidRod, i don't want to annoy you guys, this will be my last question thanks.

Godbless

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Re: hiv from receiving a blowjob?
« Reply #5 on: May 12, 2014, 05:01:55 AM »
Moon,

You can get herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea and (more rarely) chlamydia from getting your dick sucked. You can also get these four from doing the sucking too. But not hiv.

If getting your dick sucked was your only sexual activity three months prior to your last hiv test, then you are conclusively hiv negative. Getting a blowjob does NOT put you in a testing window period as it is NOT a risk for hiv infection.

If you're worried about other STIs, you'll have to go test for them. Please note that syphilis shares a three month testing window with hiv for a conclusive negative result. Many people are not aware they have syphilis, because the symptoms are easily missed or mistaken for something else - and the other STIs often have no obvious symptoms as well. The ONLY way to know your STI status is through testing at the appropriate time.

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection. Other, MUCH more easily transmitted STIs are another matter entirely.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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