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Offline soccerguy2012

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scared, am i infected?
« on: May 12, 2014, 06:36:45 PM »

I am scared. I took part in gay sex for the first time at a bathhouse. I received oral sex for about 30 minutes with a man who was HIV+. He then almost performed anal sex on me, without a condom, but there was no penetration. He may have had pre cum on his penis. He only touched my ass with his penis for about a minute. I am scared to go to my primary care doctor and i want to know if i am at high risk for getting HIV and what other options do i have for getting a PEP perscription? i joined because i was reading how helpful everyone was with diagnosing risks. I am now approaching hour 30 of when this occured and i havn't been able to think of anything since...

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Re: scared, am i infected?
« Reply #1 on: May 12, 2014, 06:55:23 PM »
Getting a blow job is not a risk for HIV no matter if the person has HIV or not . HIV is sexually transmitted from unprotected anal and vaginal sex . Rubbing and frottage is not a risk . You did not have a risk for HIV and you do not need pep .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: scared, am i infected?
« Reply #2 on: May 12, 2014, 07:02:01 PM »
should i be concerned that his penis was still in my ass a little bit? he sucked me off for a good amount of time, is there any transmission that could get in my penis hole. what about precum that he had on his penis and his hands before getting into my ass.... i am so sorry for the questions, and i appreciate any responses.. i havn't been able to sleep, or think of anything else.

i would love to take precaution and if i need to get the PEP. Do hospitals or planned parenthood places make perscriptions to PEP available? i really really don't want my primary care doctor to have to know about this.

i appreciate the ways to avoid HIV- and trust me i will never ever engage in risky behavior that makes me this crazy ever again.

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Re: scared, am i infected?
« Reply #3 on: May 12, 2014, 07:12:57 PM »
but there was no penetration


The therotical risk for oral transmission come from GIVING blow jobs to a man with a high HIV viral load while you suffer signifigant wounds in your mouth . Getting a BJ is not a risk .

I quoted your post ... you cant have it both ways, either you were penetrated or you were not . If you had a bare dick up your butt then you can test at 6 weeks and again at 3 months to confirm the results . We can not quantify how many centimeters of cock is a risk for HIV so lets keep it simple ... no penetration means no risk and if your were penetrated go test at the appropriate time . Having a guy rub his penis on you asshole is not penetration ... so its up to you to decide if it was a risk now that you have all the facts .   

 


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