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Author Topic: 99% sure I have aids  (Read 1376 times)

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99% sure I have aids
« on: April 25, 2014, 01:15:05 PM »
Hey, so I'm pretty sure I have developed aids.. I had unprotected sex almost one year ago from today. I went to lab corp and got tested 10 times out to 6 months! Then I believed the results until I now developed a very bad cough 2 months ago that is still present along with weird lesions on my scalp, also any little scratch I get becomes infected!

I'm now convinced I waited to long for treatment and have aids, I'm really to scared to go back and test, but on the other hand can't live like this. How could this have happened to me? 10 hiv tests failed to 24 weeks!?

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Re: 99% sure I have aids
« Reply #1 on: April 25, 2014, 01:19:37 PM »
You are conclusively HIV negative and do not have hiv if this is you only concern 3 months prior the negative test . If you had hiv you would have tested positive for HIV within 3 months of exposure . If you had HIV it would test positive no matter how long you had it ... you do not have HIV .

Go see your doctor and find out what is making you sick . Its nor HIV .
 
Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!
« Last Edit: April 25, 2014, 01:26:31 PM by Jeff G »

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Re: 99% sure I have aids
« Reply #2 on: April 25, 2014, 01:43:12 PM »
Thank you for believing that I am negative, but I infact don't.

Every single symptom that I have experienced over the past year has been a symptom of hiv. I was healthy before this exposure, now after sooo many ailments they scream declining immune system, plus nothing else out there causes all these symptoms together... I kept testing to 6 months because I felt horrible!

Plus the girl I had sex with did some things that makes me believe she knew what she did. She changed her phone #, then called the cops on me for harassment after I only asked her to get tested for me!!! She lives on the other side of country, nothing more I can do

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Re: 99% sure I have aids
« Reply #3 on: April 25, 2014, 01:52:10 PM »
You need to stop practicing medicine on yourself without a license. It's bad for your health. Whether you believe it or not you are HIV negative. Period. And just because you haven't had your symptoms properly diagnosed does not by default mean HIV is your problem.

You should be discussing your symptoms with a doctor or more than one if necessary. HIV is not your problem.

You also have no business harassing the woman you were with. You're an adult and responsible for your own health and behavior sexually. If the tone of your entries here is any indication of how you have responded to her, it's no surprise she doesn't want to hear from you. Cut out the drama and behave yourself.

There's nothing more we can do for you here. HIV is not your problem. And if you need help with sorting out your feelings about this then see a therapist and get some support. We can't help you with that in this setting.

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« Reply #4 on: May 22, 2014, 07:14:00 PM »
So not disclosing you're hiv status to someone before you have sex, espically if that person insists on removing the condom, (which she did) is perfectly acceptable?? because it takes two is you're motto? People have no morals for other humans??

Furthermore all my symptoms point to having aids oi's. I had 10 negative LAB blood draw tests out to 6 months. Constant sore throat, horrible chesty cough, and reacurring lesions? The only other possible explanation for those symptoms was cancer, and I just recently had a lymphnode biopsied and it was negative. How can I believe hiv tests when the symptoms I'm having directly point to hiv/aids??

My next visit is to have another test which I'm deathly afraid to do cause I already know what the result is. This will be my 12 month test. And I have every single negative result saved on a PDF file, so no my timing of exposure is not off.


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Re: 99% sure I have aids
« Reply #5 on: May 22, 2014, 07:18:04 PM »
You do not have HIV . Please talk to your doctor or find a theripist that can help you move on from this irrational fear . We can't help you with that . 

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Re: 99% sure I have aids
« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2014, 02:23:32 AM »

So not disclosing you're hiv status to someone before you have sex, espically if that person insists on removing the condom, (which she did) is perfectly acceptable?? because it takes two is you're motto? People have no morals for other humans??


If she insisted you jump off a cliff, would you do it? Of course not. So why take the condom off your own penis? Did she hold a gun to your head? Only YOU control the condom on your own penis - it's your responsibility.

You don't even know if this woman was hiv positive or not. You're just assuming.

Even if she was hiv positive - YOU are NOT hiv positive. You do NOT have hiv.


The only other possible explanation for those symptoms was cancer, and I just recently had a lymphnode biopsied and it was negative. How can I believe hiv tests when the symptoms I'm having directly point to hiv/aids??


So let me get this straight - you BELIEVE the negative cancer tests, but you REFUSE TO BELIEVE REPEATED NEGATIVE hiv results? Why is that? Because you relish the idea of being the victim of some deranged hiv positive woman? Get off it mate.

If you feel unwell, work with a doctor to find out what, if anything, is actually going on. Whatever that may be, you have more than conclusively ruled hiv out of the picture.

If you cannot accept your repeated negative hiv results, you should probably get yourself into therapy too like Jeff suggested. Something isn't quite right with your thinking process, that's for sure.

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