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Offline Howdidthishappen?

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This was not in welcome
« on: March 31, 2014, 11:52:36 PM »
Plz help
2 weeks ago I met a guy, the exposure were as followed kissing, place penis between butt and slightly penis may had touch his anus(absolutely no penetration), and mutual masturbation(pre cum only), what have me worried is durning the masturbation the guy did rub out penis together, possibly allowing his pre cum to come in contact with my tip of penis.so a few days ago I started to get of what seem to be a cold, I wasn't to much worried about the risk , until I felt my lymp nodes in airpits to begain to swollen, rushed to the ER, RN confirm slighty lymp nondes, but both ER doctor  could not feel anything and didn't seem to be concern about the risk. I do have a untreated tooth absces, which does causes me to have cold/sinus.
Can hiv be passed on this way?
If not why? 
Symptoms slight fever(2days), coughing&running nose
I am getting tested Saturday

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Re: This was not in welcome
« Reply #1 on: April 01, 2014, 12:02:59 AM »
Not one thing you did was even a remote risk for HIV . HIV is transmitted sexually from unprotected anal and vaginal sex . Its not transmitted from kissing, rubbing of the genitals or masturbation .

HIV is fragile and becomes damaged once outside the human body due to small changes in temperature and PH levels its instantly damaged and rendered unable to infect . No one has been infected in the manner you are concerned with and you will not be the first .

 Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: This was not in welcome
« Reply #2 on: April 01, 2014, 06:52:45 AM »
How,

In adults, hiv is transmitted by:

Unprotected anal intercourse.
Unprotected vaginal intercourse.
Sharing drug injecting equipment.

Don't engage in any of those three activities and you will not put yourself at risk for hiv infection.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!

Ann
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Re: This was not in welcome
« Reply #3 on: April 02, 2014, 12:01:27 AM »
Thank Ann, can you help me understand the way of transmission. I was told infection occur with the exchange of fuilds which is what happen in my exposure. I do understand hiv does die after leaving the body but not in seconds.

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Re: This was not in welcome
« Reply #4 on: April 02, 2014, 12:10:47 AM »
HIV is not infectious once it leaves the confines of the human body . You are worrying over nothing . We see allot of no risk situations but yours ranks up in the top of the list of no risk ...  there is no way you became infected in the manner you are concerned over .

You can go test and collect your negative result if you cant accept the facts . We told you how HIV is transmitted . 

In adults, hiv is transmitted by:

Unprotected anal intercourse.
Unprotected vaginal intercourse.
Sharing drug injecting equipment.

Don't engage in any of those three activities and you will not put yourself at risk for hiv infection.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple .

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« Reply #5 on: April 06, 2014, 09:17:16 PM »
Ok guys so Saturday I went to the clinic and got tested with the rapid test. My results were negative, but I am still in the window period so I also had a 4gen test done as well, but I want get the results for about another week. I am so nervous and scared. I understand that my risk is considered no risk, but with all the symptoms coming the exact timeframe as ARS have me really scared. Can everyone just pray that everything will ok thank a lot, will share my results as soon as I hear them

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Re: This was not in welcome
« Reply #6 on: April 06, 2014, 09:19:54 PM »
Ok guys so Saturday I went to the clinic and got tested with the rapid test. My results were negative, but I am still in the window period so I also had a 4gen test done as well, but I want get the results for about another week. I am so nervous and scared. I understand that my risk is considered no risk, but with all the symptoms coming the exact timeframe as ARS have me really scared. Can everyone just pray that everything will ok thank a lot, will share my results as soon as I hear them

Your results will not change, because you have tested negative for HIV and YOU NEVER HAD A RISK.

Joe

 


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