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Author Topic: Condom broke.. not sure tip exposed  (Read 452 times)

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Offline krishm

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Condom broke.. not sure tip exposed
« on: January 18, 2016, 07:24:33 AM »
thanks for running this forum,

i had a sex encounter with CSW(age 23, she had red rash near left kidney area).
on 14-Jan around 2 pm. 

we started with BJ(condom covered).. started in missionary with condom on..... all the way i was looking at my cock in & out as i afraid condom may breakk due to her heavy BJ.... unfortunatey it broke, i stopped immediatey and pulled my cock out... i saw very small top portion of broke condom lying on top of my cock.....not sure whether my cock(including uthera) exposed to her vaginal secretions......

my cock exposed not more than 3 secs to her vagina..... I immediately washed my cock with diluted Dettol liquid after exposure.

I am having fever(heady bodypain) with cold and cough from 14-Jan night ... continued for 15,16,17 . had paracetmol & Certrzine tabs. it is better today.. still have cold & cough.

I am really concerned about HIV infection..... she confirmed that she got testing negative for HIV & other STD in  last Nov 2015........

one more thing, i got circumsized 4 years back.

I am really worried because heavy fever i had right after exposure. please help to access my risk. Please help on testing also....

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Re: Condom broke.. not sure tip exposed
« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2016, 08:09:26 AM »
Hi , You have had risk  , the fact that the exposure was so short is in your favor,
and the risk was low. You will need to test , guideless are at 6 weeks and again at 13 for a conclusive result. Some tests give quicker results than others , you can speak to you doctor or testing center about those.
You can read more about testing here.


You need to be using condoms for all anal and vaginal intercourse until you are in a trusting monogamous relationship and both have been tested for all STDs and HIV.
Everyone who is sexually active should have an annual exam and test for all STDs and HIV ,and always after unprotected intercourse. Always using condoms will give you peace of mind your tests will return with a negative result.
"Who put the pepper in the....Vaseline  ? " Coffee Butler

Offline Jeff G

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Re: Condom broke.. not sure tip exposed
« Reply #2 on: January 18, 2016, 09:56:06 AM »
I agree with Wade Condom breaks rarely result in the transmission of HIV for the insertive partner so you should not worry too much. Although it was on the smaller side of risk just be sure to get tested in the window periods wade provided. I think you will come out of this OK.


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