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Very scared because of rimming episode
« on: March 10, 2014, 03:37:14 PM »
Dear experts,
I am so worried and afraid.  I was masturbating with two guys in an adult book-video store when one of them squatted down behind me unexpectedly and began rimming my asshole.  It took me a few moments to wiggle loose but he probably tongued me for 20 to 30 seconds.  The reason I am scared is that a day or two before, I had wiped when I went to the bathroom and had found blood on the toilet tissue, probably a burst hemorrhoid.
I have read a on the internet that rimming isnt usually much risk, but Im terrified because i had bled earlier and I am afraid the guy rimming me was hiv positive.  If he had bad or bleeding gums, am I at a risk?  Is it a high risk?  Please give me any calming words you can.

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Re: Very scared because of rimming episode
« Reply #1 on: March 10, 2014, 03:41:38 PM »
You can relax ... it would not matter if he were HIV positive or not . Rimming is not a risk for HIV and no one has ever been infected from it .

HIV is sexually transmitted from unprotected anal and vaginal sex so you can rest assured you did not have a risk .

 Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you did not have a risk and do not need to test for this specific incident , anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: Very scared because of rimming episode
« Reply #2 on: March 11, 2014, 03:41:12 PM »
Dear forum experts,
thank you for this answer. This helped me settle down immensely but because i've been so consumed with fear and anxiety, it has been difficult to relax as much as i probably should so i apologize for asking a second question on this topic.
When you say there have been no cases of contracting HIV when youre the person being rimmed, is that accurate? or is it like oral where there have been rare cases because of serious mouth wounds?   if there are really no cases of hiv from rimming, that is really good news for me and then i know there was no risk. what scares me is I never saw the mouth of the guy who rimmed me, so i dont know what condition it was in.  maybe i am paranoid, i honestly dont know. but if he had something like meth mouth, would there be a risk, or am I over analyzing this? thank you again for your help, for your patience, and for the caring services you have provided.

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Re: Very scared because of rimming episode
« Reply #3 on: March 11, 2014, 04:12:12 PM »
I'm saying rimming is not a risk performing or receiving it . It does not matter if the guy has HIV or not getting or performing rimming is not a transmission mode for for HIV .

Its not a trick answer, no risk means no risk . If you had a risk we all would be begging you to seek testing so you can relax and move on from this . 


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