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Please help me , i am worried
« on: January 05, 2014, 07:42:36 AM »
I had protected veginal sex and unprotected oral [ she did it ] with a prostitute  yesterday ,
i wore 3 condom to protect
but during intercourse i feel condoms slipped off because when i took penis out condoms were not there on penis but inside her ,  only tip of condoms were visible in her , Plz help me when should i get tested for hiv i am really worried as i am married also and do not want to risk my wife

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Re: Please help me , i am worried
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2014, 08:00:17 AM »
It sounds like you slid out of the condom . When you withdraw and leave the condom behind and the ring is just outside or slightly inside its not a risk because the intercourse was protected . The oral risk for HIV transmission is from GIVING a blow job to man with a HIGH viral load with wounds in your mouth, so you did not have a risk getting a blowjob .

Please clarify if I am correct that you slid out of the condom ? 

You should never use more than one condom at a time . Using more than one condom increases to risk that they will malfunction or break, please check out the links at the bottom of my post here to read about condoms .

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than HIV. Some of the other STDs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid HIV infection. It really is that simple! 

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Re: Please help me , i am worried
« Reply #2 on: January 05, 2014, 08:14:19 AM »
Thanks for ur reply Mr Jeff, but i am not sure weather it was during my intercourse or while withdrawing i slid out of condoms ,

 if it was during intercourse is it risky ,

also i checked condoms with bare hands there semen it it [ though i had ejaculated earlier also from masturbation] 


Plz guide i am still worried

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Re: Please help me , i am worried
« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2014, 08:18:45 AM »
usams,

If the condoms came off during the act instead of during withdrawal, they would have been pushed up inside her.

This means that you did NOT have a risk for hiv infection.

Using three condoms at once is not a good idea. You were lucky this time, but using more than one condom creates friction between them which can cause them to break. One condom at a time is all you need.

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Re: Please help me , i am worried
« Reply #4 on: January 05, 2014, 08:59:21 AM »
Ann,
Thanks for ur reply ,
I saw on thebody.com they slipping of condom inside is like having unprotected sex for short while so risk is low but not nil ,
plz guide should go for test

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Re: Please help me , i am worried
« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2014, 09:03:58 AM »
usam,

You only need to test if you're not already in the habit of regular testing.

You didn't have a risk.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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